The old saying often says "the upper beam is not straight and the lower beam is crooked", which refers to the influence of parents on their children. If parents are nothave properly, then students will follow the example, and their views and behavior will be deviated.
Want to cultivate "other people's children" in people's eyes. Parents' words and deeds are far more important than teachers. students from birth to adulthood. Parents' educational methods can have a subtle impact. If parents walk straight, then students will not be much worse.
"Reading money" is a fine traditional virtue that has been promoted since childhood. Generally speaking, parents will affirm and encourage this behavior, but some parents will do the opposite. , just because they are "greedy for small gains" has set a bad example for students. Having such parents is also a "unfortunate" for students.
The girl picked up a mobile phone in the mall and thought she was stopped by her parents. The surveillance screen was restored. The cause and effect of
When I was a child, I heard many stories about traditional virtues from teachers and parents. It is the most familiar to pick up money. Most students are simple in their minds, and it has become a habit to pick up items and hand them over to teachers and police.
A woman in Kunming, Yunnan accidentally threw her mobile phone into a shopping mall. After contacting the mall, she retrieved the surveillance video, and thus took the actions of a girl and her parents.
The lady just left, and her phone fell to the ground with her back foot, but she didn't notice that a girl wearing striped short-sleeved shirt behind her saw and picked it up. immediately wanted to go forward and call the owner.
But when the girl wanted to speak, an adult man suspected to be a girl's parent came to her behind . I don't know what she said, girl did not continue her "remembering money" . Not only that, the phone was forced to shut down
When I saw this, the person involved's heart was cold. If the girl had not been stopped at that time, there might not be any troubles in the future. Finally, she chose to call the police to deal with the matter.
I believe that after seeing a series of actions by girls, many people think that girls’ upbringing is still good , at least they are a good child, , but parents stop girls’ good behavior because they want to take advantage of small gains. Isn’t this a bad child?
So many netizens bluntly said, "Children are so badly taken away" , and some netizens even scolded parents for being worse than children. If they don't understand this, how can they expect him to teach a good child?
However, some netizens think that parents may have other ideas, , for example, if they are afraid of meeting an unreasonable owner, they will hurt their children's hearts . This is indeed worrying, but parents cannot prevent their children from doing good deeds because of this.
Parents are their children's first teachers. Don't educate their children with a lucky mentality. It's too late to suffer losses
We often say that children are actually just a blank piece of paper. The educational methods of parents are different. The life picture presented by children is different. When parents do it well, then the students will not be bad either. But if parents have a constant character, how can they expect their children to "get out of the mud without being stained"?
Education does not have a unified template, , but parents cannot take it for education issues , a seemingly inconspicuous move, is likely to plant "bad" seeds for students who do not have the ability to distinguish , and it is too late to react until they suffer losses.
Although the real situation is unknown, may also have their own ideas, preventing children from doing good things is wrong , and he also missed an opportunity to guide children to establish a good view.
Education seems to be an unfathomable field, but it is all shown through little things in life. is the saying "Telling by words is not as good as teaching by example". Only when parents can be good role models can students benefit a lot. Otherwise, no matter how good the teacher's education is, it will be led by parents.
Do not do good deeds because of small things. Education in small things in life will have a deeper impact on students
An old saying goes, "Don't do good deeds because of small things, and do not do evil deeds because of small things." . Every move of parents will have a subtle impact on students. , especially small things in life. Maybe parents don't care about them, but students can remember them in their hearts.
Therefore, parents should establish correct views and style of conduct, and set an example for students to set a good example. Don’t let students develop bad habits because they are greedy for small gains. Parents should actively guide them in the face of little things in life.
In addition, parents should shoulder the heavy responsibility of being a guide and not try to be a "hands-off boss". teachers teach students knowledge, so parents should teach students how to deal with people and things. In the process of education, they should also pay attention to methods and methods. should give more affirmation and encouragement, and correct wrong actions. Only in this way can students grow into pillars of society.
[Author’s message] When faced with lost items by others, the girl’s subconscious actions prove that she is a good child. No matter what the parents stop it for, they will lead the child to be wrong because of this small action. It will be difficult for them to correct it in the future. Therefore, parents must be strict with themselves. Only by being a qualified parent can students thrive.
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