Children's early love has caused great headaches for parents in school, causing the teachers to suffer, parents to suffer, and the family is restless, which harms the children and the family. In order to solve this problem, many people have adopted various methods, but using iron-like means to cut off early love is also a way.
Xu Lian (pseudonym) was born in a cadre family. Her father is a county-level cadre with good family conditions. She is beautiful and inherits her mother's genes. She was well-behaved and sensible when she was a child. The whole family loved her very much. She was a little willful and willful.
Xu Lian's grades in elementary school were good and he was serious in his studies. However, when he was in junior high school, he began to like the opposite sex because his body developed early. During class, he wrote notes to the boy she liked and did small movements. He was unintentional to study. The teacher turned a blind eye and asked the boy to go to the woods to talk about love, but his grades were not good.
It was the mid-1970s. When she went to high school, she went to high school not by grades but by recommendations. She naturally went to high school. After arriving at school, she still liked a male classmate who was in the armed department of , but the classmate ignored her and told her: I want to study, you should find someone else! But she didn't give up and wrote love letters to the boy every day, which made them unable to study with peace of mind. The boy warned her to stop immediately, otherwise she would tell the teacher that she was not afraid at all and she was still making a public relationship in the class, which caused a lot of controversy. The boy gave the letter to the boss, and the head teacher talked to her and criticized her seriously. She held a grudge and asked for a second-rate man in society to beat the male classmate, causing him to fracture and was hospitalized. The boy's parents found a school and demanded strict handling, so she was expelled from the school.
Xu Lian's father knew about it, so he beat her up, locked her up at home and asked her to think about her mistakes in the back, write a review, and not go out, and sent someone to take care of her!
Half a month later, Xu Lian was sent to the construction company to pick up mortar. Her father told her: obey management, complete the task, and do not be lazy, otherwise she would stay here forever. In order to leave early, she gritted her teeth and persevered for three days, and her shoulders were swollen. She cried and said that she knew she was wrong and wanted to go to school, but her father told her that she would start moving bricks tomorrow. A few days later, her palms had blisters and could not even hold the bowl during meals. Her father took her to the hospital for treatment and agreed to her rest for three days.
Xu Lian’s father’s approach made many people not understand and felt it was too much. Her wife also slept with him in separate beds, but he said to her wife: You are not allowed to interfere, otherwise you will be governed together.
Three days have passed, and Xu Lian asked to go to school, but her father said: You have been fired, and it is impossible to go to school. Now you have two choices: one is to go to a construction company. The second is to go to work in the farm, and she had no choice but to go to raise pigs!
The farm is in a remote mountainous area, with poor conditions and stinking. She became a breeder, but she felt that it was hard to move bricks, so she worked there with peace of mind. She studied financial books at night. After a few months, she became completely at ease. Her father often called the manager to ask about the situation of his daughter. The manager told him: Everything is fine, and it has really changed!
Their family was very happy, so they went to see her. At the scene, they saw Xu Lian wearing work clothes and cleaning, which was no different from a peasant woman. When she saw her parents, she cried and said: I was wrong in the past, I don’t know how to cherish it, and indulge myself. Today I really understand, I am willing to stay here for the rest of my life! Her parents laughed and told her to study financial knowledge seriously and strive to take the accounting exam next year.
A year later, Xu Lian was already nineteen years old. He took the recruitment examination of the Finance Bureau and won the first place. She became an accountant.
After going through hardships, she cherishes such a good position very much, works conscientiously and responsibly, and also takes the self-study exam. By the age of 23, she obtained a college degree and became the chief of the section chief!
When he was 24 years old, he fell in love with a policeman and became a good woman who was a wife and a family!
This is Xu Lian's change, the result of her father's treatment with an iron bowl. She was very grateful to her father for saving her. She said: If there was no such experience, she would have been ruined in her life!
