College life makes high school students envious. Students think that they can have freedom by going through the high school year with high mental stress. When they arrive at university, without the supervision of parents and class teachers, their lives will definitely be rich and colorful.
However, in today's universities, closed management is the norm. It is not easy for students to go out of campus to play. Some students complained: when they go to college, they are just three points and one line in the classroom, dormitory, and canteen. The students are free to prepare for the postgraduate entrance examination from their freshman year.
It is a commendable thing to prepare for study early. In the "small society" of universities, students who like to study actually have to undergo many tests. The first thing is where to study? The dormitory is definitely not good. Those roommates who love watching TV shows and playing games will affect their learning progress. Then you have to go to the study room or library.
Before, many students had seen college students' occupancy "magic skills" on the Internet. In order to stay up late to study in the postgraduate entrance examination, went to the study room and library to occupy seats in the middle of the night. Some locked the chairs, some engraved words on the table, and some moved the chairs away after learning. In contrast, those who used a book to occupy seats often had poor results.
Female college students illegally occupy seats and also exert force against boys. The performance of boys has received positive reviews
Generally, there are regulations in schools that do not allow seats in study rooms and libraries, , but not many students will abide by it. School administrators have to issue notices to clean up seats every once in a while, but the effect can only last for a few days.
In order to occupy a seat, there are many conflicts between students. Young people are more angry, so it is common for a few quarrels, and there are also people who beat people. Anhui female college student is well-known for taking a seat.
This girl occupies a seat in the school library. may be because she is more confident that no one will learn from a position that has been occupied by others, so she left swagger after she put two books on it.
But when she came back, she found that a boy was learning in the position she occupied. She was very angry and arrogant for a moment, and she used a commanding tone to let the boy walk away.
"Get up! Return the book to me!" When the girl said this, the other students in the room were affected. Originally, everyone was reading books quietly, but after the girl shouted, the tranquility of the library was broken.
Not only that, the girl saw that the boy was unmoved, and was angry and threw a book at the boy's position. The book hit the table. The boy avoided it, and everyone was waiting for the boy to deal with it next.
The boy was also angry by the girl's attitude. He grabbed a book on the table, threw it over and hit the girl in the face. At this time, several boys stood up and pushed the boy out of the classroom. The girl still refused to give in and went out to continue the theory.
, and this boy still looks quite qualified. When he walked to the door, he apologized to the students in the classroom. expressed his embarrassment and disturbed the students, while the girl was still arguing.
After watching it, netizens felt that girls illegally occupied seats and acted as if they were very useless to boys. and boys' performance was well received. Some people bluntly said, "He really respects girls. If they don't think girls are weak, they won't regard them as their opponents." Obviously, this is an irony. The statement given by
is very objective. Netizens discuss: Is "gentlemanly demeanor" a PUA for boys?
Everyone thinks that girls have too much temper. The library has regulations that they do not allow seats to be occupied. If she discusses with the boys, she may be able to study on the same table. everyone will not disturb each other, but she must adopt such an extreme approach. The school’s statement after
is also very objective: the school’s study rooms and libraries are not allowed to occupy seats. This indirectly shows that boys are not wrong in learning there, and as for the conflict between the two sides, they will resolve it themselves.
Netizens also began to discuss a topic in response to this matter: It is said that boys give in to girls as gentlemanly, but in this matter, for example, if boys ask boys to give in to boys and show gentlemanly, is it a kind of PUA for boys?
The author thinks it is definitely wrong for a girl to do it first. Everything must be reasonable. If a girl communicates well, according to the boy's later performance, she will not easily get entangled with the girl.
As a college student, you should be responsible for your behavior. Whether it is a boy or a girl,
. For gentlemanly demeanor, boys should have it. . But if some students are obviously unreasonable, they have to insist on being distorted. Then, whether it is a girl or a boy, they must stand on the right side to deal with this matter.
As a college student, you should have the ability to distinguish right from wrong and have a clear judgment on whether you have any mistakes. cannot feel superior just because you are a class cadre or a member of the student union. College is also a place to exercise emotional intelligence. Sometimes good communication is more effective than hands-on.
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