(continued with the previous article short story "Premature Me")
My academic performance has always been the first in the class in the whole three years of junior high school, which has won the respect of all grandparents and has also become a role model for all uncles to learn from. As soon as school time comes, all the grandparents come to pick me up, and they all rush to pick me up. When they go to grandparents' house, they all leave the delicious food for me. In fact, I also know their purpose very well, which is to let me and their son be together as much as possible.
The so-called "blue" is red, and the "blue" is black. The uncle who is with me loves learning as much as me, and his achievements will rise. Conversely, the uncle who is not with me has mediocre academic performance and even hates learning. In this case, they first think of their own sons, and they all hope that their sons can improve their academic performance. They will not think too much about me, nor will they consider that their son will affect my studies. The actual situation is that they cannot affect my studies, because I have grown up and become sensible.
Gradually, three uncles stood out and became equal academic masters, and I often go to these three families. In these 3 families, I am very well treated. They not only care about what I eat, but also my school supplies, tuition and fees, and clothing. The reason they are so generous is because they feel that ROI is high. As the saying goes, teaching by example is better than teaching by words, and helping the tune cannot be put into the formation. My subtle influence is far greater than their preaching.
To give an example, Uncle Shao is in the same class as me. He fell in love with a girl in the class, and this girl doesn’t like him, she likes another boy. Uncle Shao was very worried and had no intention of studying, and his grades plummeted. Grandpa Shao was extremely anxious and he couldn't win the advice or scold him. I found me and asked me to talk about Uncle Shao. I said one thing: "That girl is not worthy. When your academic performance improves, I will introduce the school beauty to you."
Uncle Shao immediately started studying.
The reason why I dare to say this is that I can indeed do it. Because, I have successfully used this method to motivate 3 boys and 2 girls. When Uncle Shao’s academic performance improves, there will naturally be girls who treat him well, and they are girls who love to study. Uncle Shao’s performance made Grandpa Shao and Grandma Shao see it and happy in his heart. They praised me for being a good person and it worked more effectively than being a parents. I told them that this is called brine tofu , which is what is better than what is used to save. They said that I am a little bitch, not like your dad, but like your grandma. I was unhappy when I heard this. I can't be like my grandma, because my grandma made serious mistakes in educating my dad. I have to be responsible for myself and must not make mistakes. When I have a son in the future, I cannot make mistakes.
Next, let’s talk about my dad. Since I was in junior high school, I have become more stressed in my studies, so I have not played much with my dad. My father was very disappointed and told me more than once that he would support my son in vain. He would not play with him at such a young age and would not be filial to him when he grew up. When I encounter this situation, I can only comfort him. Who told me to be his son? You can't disobey him! In that case, will I become an unworthy descendant? For my future and destiny, I still have to study hard and not waste my good time.
However, I don’t need to argue with my father, because his cognition is far lower than mine, saying with him can only add to my worries. Let him grow up slowly. When one day he can understand me, he will naturally not care about me. I believe that my father will be a magnanimous person in the future and he loves me very much.
Dad did encounter troubles. These troubles come from his original playmates growing up one after another, while new playmates are getting fewer and fewer, because many families put their children's education first. As the saying goes, they cannot lose at the starting line. At a young age, they go to preschool classes, after-school classes, specialty classes, and cram schools, and there is no time to play. My father became more and more lonely without a playmate and began to age. I really saw it and was anxious about it. Fortunately, my father was very smart. Soon, he achieved the upgrade of playing and enjoyed it.(To be continued)
