Especially many students do not choose to resist or tell their parents and teachers as soon as possible after being bullied. instead bear it silently until the parents find something wrong. This is not only a problem with the students' personal personality, is also related to the educational methods of parents. Students who are prone to campus bullying often come from four types of families.
students who are prone to "school bullying" usually come from 4 families
Most of the students who are most often bullied come from left-behind children's families . Because the parents are not around, the students do not have the courage to resist, and the students who bully people also know how to pick soft persimmons, so this type of students is easily bullied. The most important thing about is that this type of students is more sensitive and inferior, so they do not know how to ask adults for help.
If left-behind students are easily bullied by campus because their parents are not around, then the following types are basically parents' educational issues. Some parents like to use educational methods that belittle students , trying to let them know their shortcomings.
is similar to ", look at XXX, look at you again", "Why are you so useless?" , parents like to criticize students with such words, which leads to students gradually inferiority and self-doubt. When facing campus bullying, they even feel that they don't deserve to be bullied.
There is another type of parents who care too little about students. When encounters problems, they will only question students . Some students are indeed naughty, so parents are more strict in the education process. But when students are bullied, parents will only ask, "Why don't bully others, just bully you ?"
Parents' behavior itself does not stand on the students' standpoint, but instead question the bullied students. Then students will know that if they are bullied in the future, they will not get help even if they ask parents. accepts silently in bullying, and the bullying students will only be more arrogant next time.
There is also a kind of weak personality among parents. The way they educate students is just to calm down. When the author was in school, a classmate was blocked by some bad children after school. The parents who came to pick her up actually chose to beat her first to solve this problem.
Parents are too cowardly, and students who grow up in such an environment will become weak in personality, and such students are easily bullied.
Parents do not want students to be bullied, it is important to do a good job in family education
Some time ago, there were two consecutive news that caused public discussion because of campus bullying, which happened to be in contrast. The previous one was a junior high school student's grandmother kneeled down to the senior students who bullied their grandson in the street, which was exactly in line with the above phenomena. parents were not tough enough, or their parents were not around.
, and the other student's parents' handling method was praised by many people. The student was asked for cigarettes in the toilet. After returning home, he told the parents that the parent bought a few packs of cigarettes without saying a word and gave them to the principal and asked him to hand them over to those students. The cleverness of this handling method is that the parents did not rush to cause trouble for the bullying students, but solved the problem through the principal. told the principal that the school had bullying behavior, and also reminded the principal that his own children were bullied as a student's parents.
So you are also bullied by campus. The attitude of parents is actually very important. . Parents do not want students to be bullied at school, so they must be tough first. Parents should educate students not to bully others, but they should also educate students not to be bullied by others.
When parents give students enough confidence and dare to fight back even if they are bullied, will reduce the harm caused by students, and even others will not dare to bully students.
In fact, instead of parents educating students how not to be bullied, is better for those students who bully others to reflect on their educational omissions , why their children become students with misconduct, whether they have not educated them well in normal times, or that their parents have not set a good example.
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Campus bullying can be in many forms, may be just a few bad words, or isolated , but the impact on students may accompany them throughout their lives. As parents, they should care more about students' school life, especially boarding schools, and parents should ask about students' situation frequently.
And schools and teachers must also take responsibility. Campus bullying occurs on campus is also an omission in school management. . Education is not just about cultural courses. Schools should also educate students' ideology and morality to help them return to the right path.
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