That happened in my senior year of high school (2005), when I attended a demonstration experimental high school in Shanghai (boarding system).
20 years ago, each class of a demonstration experimental high school in Shanghai would recruit 10 students from other provinces, and our school is no exception. These students need to pay a "sponsorship fee" of 50,000 yuan to enter the school (whether there are other admission assessments are unknown). The biggest thing these students have in common is their good family background.
The high school stage is the best time in life when the age of 16 to 18. The boys and girls are in love, and the boarding school provides the best environment for the people to get along with, especially for students from other provinces, because they cannot go home on weekends, more stories will happen between them.
The male protagonist is my classmate, from the most good business city in Zhejiang. He looks handsome and is a sports committee member of our class. He plays basketball well and is interesting and generous. His parents run a private school locally. He disappears from the school two weeks before the final exam. Later, when he gets familiar, he realizes that his parents asked him to go home and find the teacher of his school to help him review.
The heroine is not from our class, so she doesn’t know her personal situation very well, but we know her all year round because she is really beautiful. It has been almost twenty years, and I can still remember her appearance, her tall and slender figure, her long black shawl tied behind her head, her face, bright eyes and white teeth.
The two of them should have started dating in their second year of high school, and of course the male protagonist also stood out from many suitors. From then on, they became the best couple in the students' words. The love between boys and girls cannot be smooth, because first love will not know how to understand each other, cherish and tolerate each other. Especially for men and women of the same age, boys have less psychological age than girls, boys only have a strong possessiveness, their girlfriends will be jealous when talking to other boys, and their girlfriends will think randomly if they don’t reply to text messages immediately, and they will be even more unbearable to know that other boys like their girlfriends.
So as the classmate of the male protagonist, you can see him being irritated in the classroom, in the dormitory, in the playground, and in every corner of the campus. A year passed in a noisy way. The senior year of high school , Literature and Science, and I no longer have the same class as the male protagonist. In addition, the pressure to go to school in the third year of high school has suddenly increased, so I rarely pay attention to the development of the couple until that day...
I still remember that I was taking English classes in the class that day. There was a sudden quarrel in the originally quiet corridor outside the classroom. I could hear one of them was the male protagonist's voice, and the other was the voice of a middle-aged man. Because they were in class, no classmate dared to go out to watch the fun. Not long after, he heard a teacher persuaded them to take them out of the corridor. After the incident of
, I didn't care about it at first, but not long after, I heard something from a girl in our class (after the division) who had a good relationship with the heroine, which shattered my views: it turned out that the heroine was the heroine's father in the corridor that day. When everyone said this, everyone would definitely think that the heroine must be pregnant and was known by the family, so the parents found the school, but the facts were even more shocking!
The heroine is indeed pregnant, but in order not to let her family know, she secretly went to the hospital for an abortion, but unexpectedly it was ectopic pregnancy . The girl said that the heroine had finished the operation and heard from the doctor that it might cause to be infertile from now on, so she broke down. Only then did the parents realize that they found the clue to find the male protagonist to fight desperately. After this incident, we took the college entrance examination. I don’t know what the male and female protagonists will follow. At that time, I had never held a girl's hand, not to mention that a girl became pregnant or ectopic pregnancy. So although this incident has been around for nearly twenty years, I still ruin my views when I look back on it.
The story was finished. When I was young, I just listened to it as a gossip and would not think about it again.But now I am the father of a three-year-old boy. I think if one of the two children at that time had received the correct sexual knowledge education at a young age, things would not have developed to the end.
When we were young, we did not offer any courses on sex education . My parents were even more afraid of sex. When we watched TV series and kissed, we would try our best to get us away from the TV. But all this will only make children more curious about sex. There is no place to learn or teach them, so they can only rely on themselves to explore.
It is actually normal for a child aged 17 or 18 to fall in love. At this time, love is pure and will not be mixed with any material. It is the simplest mutual love between men and women. We should actually protect this beauty. So this requires us to give children correct sexual knowledge education. What is more gratifying is that more and more schools have set up relevant courses, but family education is also indispensable, and even more important than school education.
We all love our children and will do our best to protect our children. The harm children will suffer is not just campus violence. I hope all parents can understand this.
first love is beautiful, we should protect this beauty
