"Influence a lifetime" Growing up with children - "Bookish light cavalry goes to the grassroots" Tanzhou 
Who are you studying for? When a person has a clear purpose for reading, he will be very attentive and work very hard when reading, and he will get twice the result with half the effort.
On August 28, 2022, in Tanzhou Town, a famous town in the southernmost part of Zhongshan, Zhang Peilan, a member of the Zhongshan Writers Association, an artist, and a poet, visited Fucheng Bookstore and Zhongshan respectively in Tanzhou Town, Zhongshan City. The library (Tanzhou Branch) shares with local parents and children the parent-child methods and techniques of family tradition, tutoring and children's growth that "affects a lifetime".
Zhang Peilan started from the Internet joke and analyzed whether parents, as mentioned in the joke, just lay an egg in the nest and want the next generation to fly as hard as they can. How to truly understand each other and establish a good communication relationship between children and parents. Do children really understand what parents say? What can parents do to help their children truly win at the starting line? The quality of parent-child communication and the art of conversation. Let children understand the difference between reading and not reading through the stories of "Empty Bag" and "Empty Bottle".
She used real-life parent-child education stories as examples to explain the relationship between wealth and children’s education, and between highly educated parents and their children’s education. Is it okay to leave children’s education to schools? Through multiple real-life stories, parents can understand the correct method of family education before the rebellious period, the significance and importance of family education, the validity period of parental authority and the best parent-child education, and solve their doubts about parent-child tutoring.
uses stories to guide parents to think about problems from their children's perspective. Children need their parents' appreciation and encouragement. It focuses on cultivating children's optimistic and confident character, observation, creativity and initiative. "It is better to teach a man to fish than to teach him to fish." , cultivate children's interest in reading through daily moments and step by step. Teaching through fun, learning through play in early childhood, to automatic learning when the child grows up, the self-discipline curve should develop in a 45-degree diagonal as the age increases. Life is endless. Set limits, do not set limits on talent, and do not set limits on the future. Do not easily draw conclusions for children based on their temporary academic performance and performance.
Farming and reading is passed down from generation to generation. Chinese people have attached great importance to family education since ancient times. Regarding the question that some parents think, "I accompany and educate, what else do schools and teachers do?" Stories of painstaking parent-child tutoring such as "Family Instructions" help parents understand that family education has existed since ancient times. The larger the family, the more attention it attaches to the education of their children and grandchildren. Since ancient times, tutoring and family precepts have been the instructions and teachings given by large families to their children and grandchildren on how to conduct themselves in society, manage their families, and manage their businesses. They embody the wisdom of the ancients in raising children to become adults. After the
lecture, parents still asked Teacher Zhang Peilan for advice.
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