Friends who are familiar with me know that my family was very rebellious in junior high school. They talked back, quarreled, played games, and neglected their studies. It was not until the last winter vacation of the third year of junior high school that I began to wake up. After a semester of sprint, I was very satisfied with the high school entrance examination, thinking that I could only take a 3rd grade. +4, I didn’t expect to get into a four-star high school.
The big stone in my heart has finally settled, but I know that what I will face next is a "mountain", a cloudy and stubborn mountain that requires you to endure, push, pull, and force your face. Laughing, working hard to please, enduring torture, no matter how hard it is, you must persist in facing the mountain.
How easy is it to continue to maintain the "momentum" of the third grade of junior high school?
Don't put too much pressure on her, and don't let her relax. What she fears most is that when she enters high school, her tight "motivation" will be gone.
needs to coax, edit, pull, push, encourage her, and let her activate her own internal drive.
Plan a wonderful student life with her, imagine a wonderful future together, talk about the years of hard work, tell the embarrassing things in your youth...
Listen to her complaining, gossip with her, and think about the behind-the-scenes of her words The "language" helps her decompose the pressure from the top students, and complain about the scheming of the school bitches...
loves her likes, hates her dislikes, actively encourages, thinks from others' perspective, and stays within the defined range. Let it grow wildly.
Raising children is really hard work. Those children who study hard and are self-disciplined without the supervision of their parents are angels, but there are too few angels!
We are all too ordinary, too ordinary.
Fortunately, the hard work has paid off. High school is the highlight moment for the child. His grades have always been among the top 10 in his grade. His excellent grades have won him the love of his teachers, and his cheerful personality has gained him a lot of friendships.
The better the child, the better he thinks!
The more she is encouraged, the harder she works, the more she is recognized, the more confident she is, the more she loves and the brighter she is, the more she will have higher and higher demands on herself.
I remember that on the eve of the college entrance examination, a classmate said to the class: You are really a god-like being, with good grades, good personality, good character, you can also sing and play the piano...
Hahaha, come back Tell me, I'm so happy!
Looking back on these years, it is actually very painful. How much effort parents have put into the growth of their children.
The college entrance examination is over and I have performed stably, and I am relieved.
On the night when I was checking my results, she playfully sang "Listen to me, thank you", then knelt down on one knee and presented flowers to me. My father secretly recorded this video, and I shed tears every time I watch it. Yes, it’s not easy.
I am @小子小伟, a mother born in the 1980s. I like reading, writing, and sharing parent-child education. I hope to meet a better version of myself along the way!
