"Can you emphasize with the new guys downstairs that you don’t need to take the elevator if you don’t need to carry heavy objects, because girls wear pajamas after bathing, so they don’t want to take the elevator with boys. "
just such a passage appeared in the "2020 Master Property Service Group" of Beijing Normal University , which triggered a war of words among 300 students in the group.
The girl’s appeal is simple: I used to wear pajamas back to the dormitory after taking a shower. If a boy takes the elevator, he will inevitably encounter him in the elevator. This way, the same small space is not only embarrassing but also unsafe. .
Boys defend their sovereignty: Whether to take the elevator or not is our free choice, and this right of choice cannot be inexplicably deprived because girls wear pajamas.
Things have to be restored first:
Beijing Normal University, the leader in domestic normal universities, has a serious imbalance in the ratio of male to female students, just as the current ratio of male to female teachers is newly recruited. , The male teacher seems to have become a national treasure panda, to the point of scarcity.
In fact, this is also in the same line. Students who apply for teacher majors,The ratio of men to women is already out of balance. When it comes to the teaching profession, this imbalanced ratio extends down, and it is only natural, that is, problems at the source will always flow to the end.
Due to the large difference in the number of men and women, Beijing Normal University also arranges dormitory buildings in accordance with the number of women and men. There are dozens of dormitory buildings for girls and only three for boys.
However, as the new students move in this semester, the originally planned male building cannot be accommodated, and some boys have to live in the female building, which is the "mixed-gender dormitory" discussed on the Internet some time ago.
1st to 3rd floors are male dormitories, and the 4th floor and above are female dormitories. However, regardless of whether it is a boy or a girl, the bathroom is on the first floor, divided into the east and the west. In other words, girls have to go back to the first floor to take a bath, so it's really inconvenient to go up and down.
Beijing Normal University, which integrates 985 and 211 in China, was originally the big brother in the domestic normal field. It is precisely because of this "elevator" incident that has continued to ferment on the Internet and has been pushed to the forefront of public opinion.
summarize the attitude of girls from their chat records of men and women. Anyway, to protect their privacy and safety, their attitude is strong enough: it is not convenient for us to wear pajamas and share the elevator with boys, and boys live on low floors. Give up the right to use the elevator.
This makes many netizens look down on it. "A good man does not fight with a woman". It is a gentleman who is elegant and gracious.Don't talk about comparison. This is a sense of initiative, which depends on the individual's cultivation and quality.
If there is a clear stipulation: men cannot fight women! This is a rigid rule. The nature and meaning are completely different. I believe that no man will accept it willingly. Why should a man suffer? What if a woman who doesn't know how to advance or retreat steps on her head and pulls her head?
is like "ladies first", this is a recognized etiquette principle, men are courteous to women, respect, care, and care for women with words and deeds, highlighting the civilization, gentleman, and accomplishment of men.
If women use this as an excuse, everywhere they ask men to be courteous, this is a bit unreasonable. Women’s social status has improved, which is obvious to all. Women can hold up half of the sky. This is a manifestation of women’s increased abilities.
If lining up, or occupying a single position, or even more advanced, professional title, etc., women also aggressively ask men to be gentlemanly, women first, this is unreasonable and illogical NS.
Even if a bold woman has such an idea, not all men will buy it. It's not a man's stingy, and it's not a bargainer. It is also a mixed society, and people have to find a foothold.
From this incident, it was connected to several news that once made a lot of noise. There were several disputes on the bus. The old man forced the students (young people) to give up their seats. They were slightly slow or turned a blind eye.Will be scolded and even beaten up.
This kind of incident is very controversial. Some people support students (young people) and some support the elderly. Anyway, the public said that the public is reasonable, and the mother-in-law said that the mother is reasonable. Giving seats to the elderly, children, and pregnant women is a virtue, but it is not an explicit regulation. Leaving the seat shows that this person has the heart of a kind and beautiful woman, but he did not make a mistake in principle or break the law.
In many cases, respect belongs to respect, which is a subjective behavior. But if it is enforced for granted, it is equivalent to power and privilege.
The Beijing Normal University elevator incident, to be honest, is worthy of being the leader of the normal education sector. Even the student dormitories have been installed with elevators, and they have changed to other universities, even the dormitory on the sixth and seventh floors. Climb up one step at a time.
Since the elevator is a public resource, then the daughter is dangling in her pajamas, affecting the public environment. It should be a boy who should raise objections or resist!
If girls feel that it is inconvenient for them to wear pajamas and boys in the same elevator, they need to improve themselves, whether they can consider hoodies or wear outdoor clothing. Why should boys be required to make sacrifices to perfect themselves?
Mixed genders live in one building, which is the arrangement of the school. Students from the same school, the same tuition, the same treatment, can't ask the boys to give up this right because girls wear pajamas and take the elevator and it is inconvenient to get along with others, right?
Some netizens ridiculed: If you run on the street arbitrarily,It can also be stipulated that there should be no other pedestrians on this street, because they are afraid that others will see it or have a bad heart!
Many netizens called out: "The proposal of the female graduate students of Beijing Normal University is too domineering and domineering. Living in the same building, boys will be deprived of the right to ride the elevator!"
There have been complaints from parents that nowadays, there are more female teachers in primary and secondary schools than male teachers, which is not conducive to boys developing masculinity, and teachers who are not girls only scold boys and not girls.
Just a few days ago, a college in Heilongjiang issued a notice about organizing all students to do nucleic acid testing. Girls queue first, and boys wait in line overnight after the girls are over. After being uploaded by the students on the Internet, netizens have been fighting for the injustices for boys. Why can girls enjoy the privileges?
Similar "unfair treatment of men and women" continues to ferment on the Internet, and many men feel wronged. The current "Ladies First" does not give boys the opportunity to be gentlemen at all. It is pushing boys to the unequal status of "women are superior to men".
From what happened at Beijing Normal University, it seems that the problem is not big but the impact is far-reaching. If it is not handled properly, it is very likely that people will be misunderstood as female quanism, breaking the boundaries of harmonious coexistence between men and women.
The immediate emergency measures are to temporarily stop the use of the elevator, and the elevator will resume use with another notice. For the boys living on the lower floors, there is almost no impact; for the girls living on the upper floors,Picking up a rock and hitting yourself in the foot, then climb up step by step in your pajamas!
This also reminds those who want to enjoy privileges everywhere: In a society where men and women are equal, do not regard the respect given by others as their own privilege. Be grateful and maintain the sense of proportion you deserve.
In particular, teachers and students who are about to become a teacher should treat themselves first. Your words and deeds will affect countless students. Carry forward the traditional virtues and spread the good ethos, starting from the minimum "equality between men and women".
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