Comparing wind does not only start from adults, it actually starts from teenagers I don't know.
For children, may be compared to something purer , see what clothes you wear, what shoes you wear, what snacks you usually eat, etc. In this material society, young people are exposed to information earlier, so their minds are more mature.
At present, what is popular among students is not to compete for learning, but to compete against your own conditions, and use the superior conditions given to you by your parents as a capital to show off your wealth, so that you can stand out among your classmates , In fact, adults are like this , so why bother to talk about children, this is not conducive to the development of physical and mental health.
brand-name clothes competition, uniform school uniforms appear
The school's management of school uniforms is not very strict, and many students don’t wear school uniforms. will wear their own clothes.There is a saying that there is no harm if there is no comparison. Everyone hopes that they can dress better and better.
Youth clothing is not cheap. There is a brand name brand for elementary school at the primary school level. After reaching the middle school, even Span4 is not pursuing nike . It may be a more expensive limited edition, but most people dress more ordinary, but some people dress better, which highlights the pursuit of famous brands.
If you wear Nike and Adi, you want to wear better clothes. If you wear ordinary clothes, you want to wear a good sports brand. It will appear by comparison. Many teachers still tease that children nowadays are too spoiled and wear. My clothes may be my monthly salary. Today's parents are as satisfied as possible with the students. In fact, there is no winner in the long-term comparison.
If you dress well, there will always be better clothes than you. This will also make some children with bad conditions feel inferior and think that they are unsatisfactory. 2 will even Forcing parents to buy some expensive clothes , there is no time to study at all, and all the attention is paid to the competition clothes, which may even bring financial burden to the parents.
In order to improve this kind of comparison psychology,The school also has uniform uniforms . The supervision and management are also very strict. If you don’t wear school uniforms or even you are not allowed to enter the school, you must wear tops and trousers. Some schools have stricter management. You can’t take off your uniforms during school. Students are clever, put on their own clothes, put on school uniforms, and then take them off after entering the school gate. This is also not allowed.
A new comparison wind appears, and the consequences are more serious
Following the unification of school uniforms, I thought it would put an end to the psychological situation of students showing off their wealth, but I did not expect the new comparison wind to be more serious , especially Boys are more popular, that is, buying brand-name shoes. It doesn't matter what clothes you wear, but shoes must be worn well. I don't know who spread it like this. caused students to start buying shoes to compare .
The previous clothes may still be under control, but the price of the shoes is too erratic , a limited edition of dozens of dollars or more expensive , , especially teenagers, buy three or four hundred shoes, this is still ordinary , a little better one thousand eight hundred, nowadays students discuss together in addition to games and TV shows, more is shoes , You see what kind of shoes I bought, you know all about famous brand shoes,I am still very familiar with communicating with others, as if I have already stepped into the famous brand circle.
In the past, everyone didn’t care about shoes very much. After all, the clothes were the most conspicuous. Later, the school uniform was unified. Starting with shoes, the most hateful thing is that some brand-name products have also launched high-end products, as well as The celebrity co-branded money tempts students to buy it. Seeing that children love it very much, parents will definitely try their best to be satisfied.
Some students even buy counterfeit products in pursuit of famous brands to integrate into the student circle. This kind of comparison is too serious and can even distort the students' mental health.
Summary
Whose problem is this? It’s not a clothing business’s problem. People are also marketing . It’s not a school or teacher’s problem. Parents do not actually take up a lot of responsibilities. Family education is very important, but students have their own atmosphere. Therefore, both parents and teachers need to reverse the three views of students, especially the consumption view. ,If you find a situation of comparison and low self-esteem, you must communicate with your parents in time. Only in this way can you solve it from the source. As the saying goes, there are rivers and lakes where there are people. Since they are under the same roof, the wind of comparison cannot be completely eliminated. This is the best solution only if the students have a correct understanding.
Today’s topic: What do you think of the comparison between students? Think this is not conducive to long-term development? Let's leave a message and discuss!
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