At around 12 o'clock noon today, I went to the gate of my hometown and waited for people. I saw some parents were waiting for their children to leave school and give them food.
Most of the parents are in seventh grade. The child leaves home to live in school for the first time, takes a weekend break every two weeks, and goes home once. When the child left home for the first time, both the child and the parents were not quite used to it. Especially for the first period of time, they worried and missed each other every day. Especially the home was near the school. It was obvious that the child was at the door of the house. , Even if you cook a meal for your child to eat. If you can become a bird and fly to campus, you can always accompany your children, that would be great!
Children have a lot of learning content, heavy tasks, full of tasks in a day, and there is no time to miss family , I have basically got used to it for a while, but it's better. Of course, there are some children. When I see some students have to go home on Friday, but I can’t, I start to cry. It’s really distressing! I don’t want to come to school on Sunday afternoon.
Some parents, especially those with only one child, have never been away from them for a long time before. In elementary school, they usually go out early and return late at night. The children are under their noses every day, and their children leave themselves suddenly. Feeling lost, unable to adapt. So, as soon as the weekend when the children were not allowed to come back, I watched at the school gate in advance at noon on Saturday, holding delicious, well-dressed, and easy-to-use things, and waited at the gate early to give them to the children. If you make an appointment, you can see the child, caress, and exhort the child, as if the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl are facing each other across the river. His love and scenery are very moving. For the future of the child, I can only try my best to restrain my feelings.
Parents love their sons, and they have far-reaching plans.” In ancient and modern times, who doesn’t love their children? Not to mention us mortals, all living beings, who are great men, emperors, and generals. This is also true. For example, the Queen Mother Zhao during the Warring States Period. When her daughter married King Yan, she “held her heels, weeped for her, and mourned her far away.” Later, when she was in power, she was attacked by the State of Qin and asked for help from the State of Qi, who asked the Queen Mother Zhao for her most beloved The youngest son, Pingyuan-jun, was taken hostage to rescue the soldiers. At first, she refused to agree to the death, and even if she said whoever persuaded her, she spit in public. Later, the old official touched the dragon and used a clever method to attack the Queen Mother Zhao. With affection and reason, she finally agreed to send her beloved son to Qi as a hostage to obtain rescuers for the long-term and for the safety of Zhao Guo.I won Qi’s soldiers, saved the country, and established prestige for my son!
The love of parents for their children is great, selfless, fearless, and without regrets, they can give everything for their children, even the most precious life, This is worth praising. But to love children, we must also know how to educate and exercise so that they can grow smoothly and healthily and become talents.
Do you know how eagles train their young eagles? When the little eagle grows up, the eagle will break the little eagle's wings, and then push the little eagle off the cliff, some of the little eagle fell alive. But only in this way will the bones of the Kitty eagle's wings be tempered before they will be stronger and able to withstand the test of the blue sky. In the class of teaching flying, the eagle would take them to a cliff and push it down before the little eagle could stand still. In order to survive, Kitty had to flap his wings desperately. But the little eagle always flew not far away and fell into the mountain stream. The eagle caught them and re-executed. In this way, the little eagle finally learned to fly freely after all his hardships, mastered the ability to fly and survive, and can gallop in the difficult environment of the plateau and the desert!
We should train the eagle to fly. It has enlightenment and sentiment, and the way it seems to be cruel and ruthless on the surface, but in the living environment of the weak and the strong, this is a wise approach. Even animals are so good at educating children, let alone our smart humans?
To love children, sometimes you should learn to control your feelings. Don’t show all your love. Be brave enough to let your children learn to bear hardships and stand hard work, be independent and strong; parents can’t keep their children by their side for a lifetime, the children always grow up and leave when. Parents should cultivate their children’s ability to be independent in a timely manner. Even if they encounter difficulties and setbacks on the way forward, it is natural for us to suffer, be affected, or even sweat and bleed. Even if we look in our eyes and feel pain in our hearts, we must learn See it, learn to control, learn to let go.
Educating children is a complicated subject. There is no good ready-made model, and it varies from person to person. We can only make suggestions and positive guidance according to the characteristics of our children. children may one day be able to fly like an eagle that, the skies!
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