German philosopher Jaspers said: Education is one tree shaking another tree, one cloud pushing another cloud, one soul awakening another soul. The true education should be a kind of spiritual transmission, to support the child, let him master the ability to make himself happy, and in the future can find his own happiness more successfully. It is the achievement of one generation from one generation to another, allowing children to stand on your shoulders to see the wider world and find their own happiness more successfully.
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In 1950, there was an eight-year-old black girl named Linda Brown in the United States.
She and her sister have to walk one mile every day to the bus stop, and then take a ride to Monroe Elementary School, a black school five miles away from home. However, there is a Sumner Elementary School only a few blocks away from her home, and all white children attend this school.
So she asked her father, why can't I come here to study?
At that time, the entire United States discriminated against black people, and black children could only go to poor and broken black primary schools.
Her father was named Oliver Brown, and he applied to the local education bureau but was rejected as expected. So he was angry and took the Education Bureau to court. The lawsuit went to the Supreme Court, and the court finally ruled them in favor.
The girl and her mother came to the federal court in the United States. The newspaper that day read: The Supreme Court announced the prohibition of apartheid. This is the famous Brown v. Board of Education Act in the history of the United States, which initiated a series of campaigns to abolish racial discrimination in the United States.
It can be said that without Oliver Brown's victory, perhaps there would be no later famous Martin Luther King "I have a dream".
Oliver Brown put forward a well-known point of view, telling the essence of education, he said: The essence of education is to help children find their own happiness more successfully in the future life, rather than nurturing the society. A suitable screw. Please remember that this was proposed in the last century. The essence of education is to help children seek their own happiness. Remember that it is not someone else, not society, not the country, but himself.
Therefore, the best education parents give their children is to help their children find their own happiness more successfully in the future life.
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Many years ago, a poor shepherd took two young sons to support others by herding sheep. One day, they drove the sheep to a hillside. At this time, a group of geese flew over their heads, and quickly disappeared from their vision.
"Where will the big goose fly?" the shepherd's young son asked his father.
The shepherd replied: "In order to survive the cold winter, they have to go to a warm place to settle down."
"If we can also fly like wild geese, then I will Flying higher than the wild goose, go to heaven to see his mother." His eldest son said enviously, blinking.
"It’s great to be a flying goose! You can fly where you want to go,Then there is no need to herd sheep. "The youngest son also said to his father.
The shepherd was silent for a while, and then said to his sons: If you want to fly, you will also fly.
The two sons tried and did not fly. . They looked at their father with doubts.
The shepherd continued: "Look how I fly. "So he flew twice, but didn't fly.
The shepherd said with certainty: It may be because I am old that I can't fly. You are still young. As long as you keep working hard, you will surely be able to fly. Go where you want to go.
The sons keep in mind their father’s teachings and keep working hard. When they grow up, they finally fly. They are the American Wright brothers, and they invented the airplane.
The best education is to let children see trees in the distance and plant seeds of happy life ability for children!
03 pspan _ppan2 A classic movie that moves people.
In that era when Jews were discriminated against and slaughtered, the father and son in the movie were both Jews.
"Dad, why is this shop saying that Jews and dogs must not be allowed" get inside?
Dad hesitated,Say,
"Oh, this. No entry is the latest trend sign! One day, I was shopping with a kangaroo friend, but the door said that kangaroos are not allowed. I said, well, we can’t help it. , They don't let kangaroos in."
"Then why don't we have this brand in our store?"
"Well, we will put one tomorrow so that all the things we hate will not get in. What do you hate?"
The innocent kid thought for a while and said: "Spiders."
"Well, I don't like vampires. Tomorrow we will write: Spiders and vampires are not allowed."
p0 There are many more clips like this where the father wants to protect the child's innocence from harm.They were imprisoned in a brutal Nazi concentration camp. In order to prevent their children from realizing the cruelty of the world when they were young, their father weaves beautiful lies.
He explained to the children that they were imprisoned in a Nazi concentration camp just to play a game. To get game points, the tank will be rewarded after the game is over and you can see your mother.
He was forced to perform high-intensity physical work. His thin body carried a heavy iron block. He explained to the child that it was just to get points.
Even at the last moment of his father's life, he was forced to execute a shooting by the Nazis. In order to prevent his children from being scared, he giggled and made funny moves to convince the children that this was just a game.
at the end of the video,The child won his prize: a tank and met his mother, but his father is no longer alive.
Father uses his life to defend the beauty of his child's childhood, and he has passed him an optimistic attitude. There is no greater education I can think of than this.
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What is education?
German philosopher Jaspers said:
Education is one tree shaking another tree, one cloud pushing another cloud, one soul awakening another soul.
Long Yingtai said in "Watching" that the so-called father, daughter, mother and son, just means that you and his fate is that you are constantly watching him drift away in this life. You stand at this end of the path, and he uses his back to tell you silently: You don't need to chase.
education means that parents use their own words and deeds and lead by example to wake up a young seed, and use their own real actions to slowly influence it, so that it can take root and sprout and flourish.
The true education should be a kind of spiritual transmission. The child is entrusted, so that he can master the ability to make himself happy, so that he can find his own happiness more successfully in the future.It is the achievement of one generation from one generation to another, allowing children to stand on your shoulders to see the wider world and find their own happiness more successfully.
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