Many people have asked themselves a question: What exactly do I aim for in my life? Most people have not found an answer to this seemingly simple question, just like why we live, the ending is towards death.

Many people have asked themselves a question: What exactly do I aim for in my life? Most people have not found an answer to this seemingly simple question, just like why we live, the ending is towards death.

The reason why we cannot find the meaning of life is not that life has no meaning, but that we always want more results we want, want too much, and are too persistent in the results. Among the options as numerous as stars, we cannot find the answer we recognize the most. We want everything and want everything. In the end, we don’t know which one is our true favorite, so we cannot give an answer that satisfies ourselves.

There is a very classic fable in primary school textbooks, and it is also an idiom that everyone is very familiar with, called "pulling seedlings to help grow". A farmer wanted to get a bumper harvest soon, and artificially raised the crops in the fields, but the result was only a waste. Not only did the crops not have a bumper harvest, they all died in a few days.

We want to get more and better results, which is the most basic need of human nature. This is understandable. But when we care too much about the results, set hope too high, and set goals too perfectly, we will find that the real results are often not as good as people wish. The faster we want to get good results, the more difficult it is to achieve our goals. Life is in such torture, losing the taste of happiness, and fewer and fewer happy days.

Two years ago, when I was studying, I was fortunate to see a very wise motto by Master Hongyi . The master said: Let go of your mind and be persistent and enjoy all kinds of freedom. At that time, I didn't understand this sentence very much, and even disagree with it very much. Because at that time, I was enjoying the spring breeze of love. Although there are still many winds, rain, waves, twists and turns in my life, when I think of the care of love, everything in the future will definitely be a beautiful result.

At that time, I felt that there is nothing wrong with being persistent. Only by being persistent in love can I work harder to move forward. The power of love can give me the courage to overcome various risks and challenges. If two people are no longer persistent in love, no one wants to work hard, and face love with a negative attitude, such an ending will be a tragedy after all.

But just two days ago, my view of love underwent a fundamental change, and my world completely collapsed. Love that I once thought was unbreakable would surely bear fruit. But luck makes people beat people, and a little bit of movement can easily destroy my love world. It turns out that love is so vulnerable. What can I do when facing an unchangeable reality?

My psychology has endured an unprecedented blow. Only those who have experienced it can experience it. After experiencing pain and suffering, I was once again lucky to read Master Hongyi’s masterpiece of wisdom. I have a completely different new understanding and new feeling about letting go of one thought and enjoying all kinds of freedom.

The reason why I feel heart-wrenching and painful is not that ending this relationship will bring me much loss or harm, but that I cannot overcome the hurdle in my heart. This hurdle is actually that I have put too high hopes for this relationship, wanting to get more results, my persistence in love, and my high expectations for the result made me completely unable to accept the blow and pain of losing love. I am suffering and torture in my heart, and I feel uncomfortable all over, and I feel uncomfortable everywhere.

Now, what can heal me for my pain is Master Hongyi’s wise saying: Let go of your thoughts and be persistent and enjoy all kinds of freedom. Although it is not easy to let go completely, it is a common problem for all the infatuated lovers all over the world. But whenever I feel uncomfortable, I silently recite the master’s words, and a painful heart can gain some relief and peace.

A life that cares too much about the results is destined to be painful. The persistence that cannot be let go will only make you feel uncomfortable. When you are unhappy and sad, you might as well tell yourself secretly: Let go of your thoughts and enjoy all kinds of freedom.

Reading, drinking tea, and savoring life, let’s set out together.

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