Yesterday, I went to a temple near my home to relax. When I met an old monk with high moral character, he sat in me and chatted with me, talked about the world, talked about people's destiny, and especially the deep blessings of how to treat their own destiny. I benefited a lot f

Yesterday, I went to a temple near my home to relax. When I met an old monk with high moral character, he sat in me and chatted with me, talked about the world, talked about people's destiny, and especially the deep blessings of how to treat their own destiny. I benefited a lot from a warning from the old monk. The old monk warned me: People with poor fate in the world often like to tie themselves up in these three aspects. They must wake up early in order to usher in the transformation of their own life.

The first aspect: a bitter face and complain.

The old monk said that the thickness of a person's destiny is actually, in a large aspect, closely related to our own attitude towards life. People with good fate are often full of enthusiasm and confidence in life. Even when life is the most difficult time, they can not lose confidence and even face it with a smile. In their world, people live without any obstacles that cannot be overcome.

and those who have poor fate will be the opposite. They often have a pessimistic attitude when facing life, so they look bitter all day long, as if the people in the world owe them some gold, silver and jewelry. Once you encounter some setbacks and blows, your mother-in-law and mother will talk, complain and look bitter. The more people complain, the more you feel, the more you feel, the more your blessings will gradually disappear, and naturally you will feel that your life is weak and you will suffer a lot.

The second aspect: the heart is higher than the sky, I hate this and that.

The old monk warned me that a person should have his own ideals, but ideals should also match his own abilities. Some people have average abilities but are more aware than the sky. They have empty ideals but are difficult to realize. However, in real life, they have a disgust for what they have, and they always feel that they are imperfect and cannot achieve their wishes. This is what Buddhism says: All conditioned dharmas are like dreams, illusions, bubbles, and shadows, like dew and lightning, and should be viewed in this way.

Those ideals that do not match oneself are like bubbles, which can be broken with a realistic finger. We should still lower our mentality, lower our requirements according to our own abilities, and be content and happy. Only in order to gradually restrain all the chaotic delusions in our hearts and gradually purify our hearts. This is the right way. Only in this way can we completely change our mentality and reverse our destiny.

The third aspect: unhappy marriage, and you are bound by yourself.

The old monk finally said that many people have entered the monks, but in fact, they do not really see through the world and understand life, but because they encounter misfortunes in their emotions or marriage, they have entered the monks. Perhaps, in their future practice, they can truly feel the true meaning of life and suddenly realize the philosophy of life. However, the previous one who stayed away from the world just wanted to find a way to kill oneself. Such a escaping into a monk is actually a kind of self-binding.

In fact, there are many people in the world, just like these people, when they encounter misfortune in marriage, they often like to tie themselves up. When they encounter misfortune in marriage, their emotions become desolate, and their inner world does not want people to enter, so they begin to create a self-hiding horn, and then let themselves get in, unable to extricate themselves, gradually hibernate away, and finally, they become cocoons, but it is difficult to "turn into butterflies". If this continues for a long time, they will inevitably become people with poor fate, and their lives will also appear gray and dull and have no colors.

After listening to the old monk, I felt very benefited. Yes, there are actually many things in in life that require our guidance to awaken. When people live, they always encounter problems of one kind or another. In their short life, how to give up the unnecessary pursuit of fame, wealth and material desires, and how to abandon the karma that is entangled in their hearts needs reminders and warnings.