When it comes to children’s learning issues, blindly fighting in the sea of ​​books is not as good as watching the thousands of miles in the motherland.

Some time ago, I planned to ask my cousin out to play. After all, I haven't made an appointment with her for a long time. Who knows that when I asked, she told me that there was no time, I was wondering, why there was no time. After careful questioning, I learned that her child, the five-year-old girl, is going to learn painting on Saturday morning, dancing in the afternoon, piano on Sunday morning, and taekwondo in the afternoon. To be full, there is no free time to play at all, and as her mother, she naturally has to take on the task of picking up and picking her up. It is impossible to come out to play.

I don’t know how to evaluate such a lifestyle. I just want to ask, do children really want to learn so many things? Contemporary parents have given birth to starting line anxiety. It seems that when other people’s children are versatile, their children must also be versatile, otherwise they will be inferior to others, but how many parents have asked themselves when choosing interest classes for their children "Do you like it?"

It is true that versatility will give people one more survival skill in this society, but this also needs to be based on personal preferences. The reason why an interest class is called an interest class must be based on interest as the main carrier, rather than a simple comparison skill. This is not because you have me but also have a general existence, but many parents do not consider this. At one point, more and more versatile children have become deeply resentful, and have even blamed their parents ever since.

I do not deny that hobby classes are a way to improve the overall quality of children, but for me, instead of letting hobby classes occupy children’s free time, I am more willing to take my children out to see the excitement of the outside world. The versatility of others, feel the world from the heart. Why do I say this?

01 The vision is out, not

. Why would you want your children to learn to paint? Why would you want your children to learn piano? In fact, it is for children to be able to improve, so that their vision is no longer limited to this, so that their quality can be improved as a whole, so that they can see further. But what we can't ignore is that the vision is out, not read out. Talking about soldiers on paper will always stay on the surface. Once it meets the reality, it will be defeated, and so is the vision of children.

Therefore, taking children out for a walk is not to let the children give up these skills to improve themselves, but to better improve. When children experience the spirit of the landscape, their paintings will become soulful, rather than simply painting for the sake of painting. When children experience this natural sound, their piano sounds will be lively, rather than simple rhythmic splicing. Of course, in the process of traveling, it can also stimulate children's imagination and at the same time stimulate children's curiosity about unknown things. This is far more useful for children's subsequent development than mechanical learning skills in hobby classes.

02 Enhance children’s self-confidence and enhance children’s communication skills

Travel is the easiest way to cultivate children’s self-confidence. In the process of traveling, it is inevitable that you will encounter all kinds of people and all kinds of people. Such difficulties, in this process, as long as parents can provide proper guidance, it will allow children to learn a lot of knowledge that cannot be learned in books.

In the process of traveling, children can communicate with all kinds of people. If things go on like this, their ability to communicate with others can be effectively improved. Of course, certain problems can also be handed over to children to solve during travel, so that children can learn how to adapt to an unfamiliar environment and how to solve a problem they have never faced. This has a very good effect on enhancing children's self-confidence.

03 can pull in the parent-child relationship and promote the emotional exchange between the parent-child

This is very important and also a very critical point. For children, living with their parents every day and going out to play with their parents are two different things. When they go out to play, they have no academic baggage, and parents have no short-term worries of parents. As long as the family handles their own food, clothing, housing and transportation, they can enjoy themselves together. life.

Whether you are a parent or a child, as long as you travel, their relationship is partners and companions. They have common goals and common topics. They want to see this beautiful scenery and talk about the customs together. Parent-child relationship is there. This time, the discussion gradually gets closer, The relationship between parent and child will become stronger and stronger, which will make the best paving for the subsequent happy life.

Travel is also a kind of learning. Instead of flooding the interest classes with children’s holidays and letting them study unintentionally, it is better to take the children out for a walk, look at the outside scenery, feel the outside world, and let them know the beauty and happiness of the world. Learning. Do you take your children out on a regular trip?