Will you have a second child? This is the main reason why JoJo’s mom is hesitant and undecided

went to work with Dad JoJo in the morning. In the car, Dad JoJo asked if we would have a second child? This is the second time that JoJo’s dad asked this question. The first time JoJo’s dad said that colleagues have persuaded that it is good to have two children. We have a company in everything. When we are sick, they can discuss who will remove the oxygen tube. Live for a few seconds. For the second time, JoJo's dad said that he chatted with the female hair child, and the female hair child gave birth to one child for half a year and revealed his determination to kill and not have a second child.

For the first time, JoJo's mother's answer was, think about it again in two or three years. This time, JoJo's mother's answer is still, let's talk about it after two or three years.

In fact, from the bottom of my heart, JoJo's mother still likes to be lively, like having two children under her knees, noisy and noisy, even if it is a quarrel, she feels at home. In addition, JoJo's mother felt that the two children had a company, no matter whether they were playing at home or outside, there was a help and company, and they were not so lonely.

But, facing the question asked by JoJo's father whether to have a second child, JoJo's mother still hesitated, and still didn't know how to make up her mind.

Within one year after giving birth to JoJo, JoJo’s mother did not want to have a second child because she was afraid of tiredness, pain, poor sleep, and bad health. As time went by, JoJo’s mother felt that these were all It's a small problem, and it's not a reason for the decision at all.

What is the real reason why JoJo's mom can't make up his mind? In fact, this reason is only related to JoJo.

Remember that during the summer vacation, JoJo’s dad’s sister brought two children to Foshan to play. The eldest son was 12 years old and the younger son was 1. During the summer vacation, JoJo’s mom heard the most words, you are the brother, you have to let it go. Brother, you are a sister, you have to let your brother. That month, the 12-year-old brother received the most scolding. He would be scolded by adults if he didn't help with his younger siblings, and would be scolded by adults if he snatched toys from younger siblings.

Even JoJo who is less than 2 years old is often talked about by his grandparents, saying that you are a elder sister and that toys should be distributed to younger brothers to play, and food should be distributed to younger brothers, and even grandparents should also distribute to younger brothers. During that time, JoJo's temper and possessiveness reached its peak, and his father and mother were not allowed to hold his younger brother. As long as he hugged him, he immediately cried and ran to grab his arms. He refused to touch all the toys and snacks. In the past, JoJo was not so stingy. Snacks and toys were shared with the neighbor’s children, but she was very resistant to her younger brother. In the month of

, JoJo’s mom’s biggest feeling was that she was just a kid who was under 2 years old, how did she suddenly become a big sister, and she was asked to be a sensible big sister, a big sister who would play with her . As if forced to grow up overnight, JoJo’s mother watched JoJo’s strong possessiveness of getting angry with her younger brother from time to time and bringing toys and snacks to her room. JoJo’s mother was not angry, but very sad. Feeling distressed and want to cry. The younger brother

is the younger brother of the aunt’s family and will leave in a month. However, if JoJo’s mother has a second child, it will not be a month to snatch, but to share anything with JoJo forever. JoJo's mother was afraid of JoJo's sadness and sadness when her grandparents said the phrase "You are a elder sister, I want to let my younger siblings".

all say that the second child is not to snatch the love of the boss, but there is no doubt that the family's time will be split in half, the family's money will be split in half, and love will naturally be split in half. Moreover, after most people have a second child in their minds, they will assume that the boss should be sensible and behave and will help with the second child, and an unnatural bowl of water will be uneven.

JoJo's mother was afraid to see JoJo change from a little princess to Cinderella, so she made up her mind. After all, there is still time to think about it. Let's talk about it in a few years. Maybe JoJo will grow up, become sensible, or his mentality will change.