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What will parents do when their children do well in the exam?
Many parents will be very happy, encourage their children to and praise their children, and even give their children financial encouragement. For example, if you score 100 points, your mother will give you 100 yuan!
But when the child got the exam, he told his mother that I wanted to go out and play with the children, or I wanted to go out and play basketball.
Mom may say, Don’t think you are proud of your good exam this time . The most important exam is still to come, and you must study humbly.
. After parents with average academic performance come back, they will urge their children to continue to work hard on , and there is still a lot of room for improvement!
When the child’s test results are not satisfactory, or even at the bottom, many parents start to blame their children for not working hard and even start to increase their children’s learning.
Dong Yuhui mentioned in a live broadcast that he used to be a teacher and he would hold parent-teacher meetings, but when he held parent-teacher meetings, he would divide his children into three categories.
When Dong Yuhui holds a parent-teacher meeting, he will divide students into three categories and praise different students of different categories
Category 1: Students who have done well in the exam
Dong Yuhui no longer praises these students, but tells parents that their children's test scores are so good, and they have put in a lot of effort and hard work.
As a parent, you must reduce the burden on your children . Don’t tell your children to work harder, but give them more delicious food and fun things, make them happier and relaxed. This is the most important thing.
Category 2: Students who get the average exam
For parents of students who get the average exam, Dong Yuhui said this: tells children that life is a marathon, and running in the middle is generally very normal , just like a tortoise and hare racing, the one who runs fast is not necessarily the first one to reach the finish line.
Moreover, most of the world is in the middle part, and it is normal for children to be in the middle part. I hope parents don’t put too much pressure on their children.
Category 3: Students who have performed poorly
Faced with parents of this type of students, Dong Yuhui will try his best to praise their children , for example, one day when the class notes are done well, and one day when the exam results are improved a few points.
In this way, these parents will be praised by their teachers and will have a better attitude to face their children after returning home.
You should know that most children feel uncomfortable when they fail in the exam. When parents criticize him again, they will feel that it is to make things worse. If parents say that they are not working hard enough, they are actually very disappointed.
Many times, these children do not fail to work hard, but may be the wrong method, or the child is not yet ready to learn.
When Dong Yuhui mentioned that he would know that Many parents attach too much importance to their children's academic performance. We should comfort their children's hearts and relax their children's pressure.
Many parents have been very "volume" of since their children started school. In fact, in primary school, parents should cultivate their children's habits.
Because the child is in elementary school, his learning content is not very deep, and the intensity of learning is not very high. Teachers often to train their children's new thinking and grasp their learning habits!
In primary school, parents focus on four habits. It is difficult for children to become academic masters in the future.
The first: Good living habits
Children eat well and sleep well. This is actually very important. If a person’s living habits are good and his heart is stable, his learning efficiency will be higher.
So after the child is in elementary school, parents should let the child sleep regularly, get up regularly, and eat regularly, and so that the child's physical condition will be better, the child's nutrition will be balanced, and the brain will run faster.
The second: Cultivate exercise habits
The younger the child’s exercise habits, the better it will be. When you are young, you can cultivate a child’s sports hobby, such as playing basketball, volleyball, playing table tennis or dancing, etc.
Let children have a hobby of exercise, which can make the child’s entire brain empty when exercising, and their emotions can also be relieved. Children who love exercise will have a more active brain and will react faster during class, and is more conducive to children’s learning.
The third: Reading habits
Children who love reading have a broader knowledge and stronger language comprehension ability.
So we need to let children develop the habit of reading from an early age . Many top students in the college entrance examination will mention that they have loved reading since they were young, and some even read extracurricular books continuously during the college entrance examination.
The fourth: The habit of concentration
Concentration is a very important ability for children. Children with strong concentration can listen to the teacher's lectures very carefully during class, and can also do their homework faster after class.
. Children's concentration actually requires the protection of parents. We must pay attention to cultivating children's concentration not only in primary school, but also in earlier stages.
For example, When children are playing with toys, parents should not disturb them.
Usually you can play some games that require concentration with your children, such as playing some focus stickers , or playing some beans to pick beans , soybeans black beans mung beans on a plate, and play pick beans with your children. When picking beans, the child needs to concentrate, which can exercise the child's concentration well.
When children are in elementary school, parents can develop these four abilities well, and it is difficult for children to not be excellent in the future.
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