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Text/Beiwang | Photo/"Rent Cat"
Before, someone criticized me: " Don't always be so emotional. You are an adult, you must be a calm adult. "
The meaning of this is: A qualified adult is calm and sad cannot be displayed, but you must be happy, even if it is pretending.
After reading some books, I realized that sadness and happiness are emotions, and it is not simply divided by good or bad.
As an ordinary person, you don’t need to desperately suppress your sadness, because emotions themselves are an expression from the inside out, telling you something.
So, the more appropriate way is to be aware of it, then accept it, and finally embrace yourself, repair your mentality, and grow.
Fortunately, someone still allows you to be your true self in front of him and release it as much as you like. Moreover, these people will gently catch you in their own way when you are unstable and are about to fall. Below
, I will take you to experience some small warmth in the world. The stories all happen in daily life. hope that after reading it, you will feel healed. No matter what you encounter, you will have the courage to face it, and you will believe that you are wrapped in love~
01
The power behind it
Once upon a time there was a girl who was always the worst in the company. Later, her boss fired her when she saw that she had the worst performance. But she still didn't give up, and she has been working hard to learn the major she studied and thinking about what went wrong with herself.
Then, her boyfriend also cheated on him and asked him to break up. She completely collapsed and felt that the whole world had abandoned herself.
She went to a place far away from home to work alone, and was helpless, living alone in a rental house less than 50 square meters.
She called her mother and wanted to be a child and cry. The old mother's kind and kind voice came from the other end of the phone, and you can immediately hear that her mother missed her very much.
In the end, she only told her mother that everything was fine and she had a career, and she didn't want her mother to worry.
The next day, she went out to look for a job again and was hired by a small company.
Fortunately, hard work pays off. She made some achievements in a small company and saved up her own small treasury.
Later she resigned from the company and opened a company herself. She became the boss of the company, cooperated and communicated with major companies, and became a top figure at that time, and what she thanked the most was her mother.
"Do it boldly if you want to do whatever you want. The world is very big, you always have to go out and try it out. There are always people who silently follow and support you behind your back."
@Senrui
Looking north and watching: "Travel thousands of miles away, report good news but not bad news." It seems to be our tradition. But quietly said that the elders are actually very smart. Sometimes you can tell your hardship just by the tone you speak on the phone. However, everyone tacitly chose "acting": everything is fine when you act yourself, and she feels relieved to act as your good deed.
Therefore, I often hear elders keep reminding you on the other end of the phone: Remember to take good care of yourself! These are also these reminders, carrying a strong love. The subtext is: "Baby, we are always here. Don't worry, go for a break, go home when you are tired, and your parents will make delicious food for you!"
02
Three things when practicing driving
(I)
The day after I passed the subject one, I officially got on the coaching car.
coach looked at me and asked me, "What is the first thing I did after getting on the car?"
me: "Close the door."
coach: "And what?"
"Ignite." As I said that, I turned the key.
He knocked off my hand that was twisting the key and said, "It's wearing a seat belt."
(II)
I practiced backing and entering the warehouse. The coach said in the co-pilot: " Quick, hurry up, beat to death. "
Me: "What did you kill ? "
" beat me to death! " The coach looked at the car that had already qualified and was crying without tears. "You drive on the road like this and you really go through the two lanes in the middle."
(III)
is finally going to take the exam! Outside the exam room, I asked the coach what to pay attention to.
Coach: " Pay attention to the time of the next make-up exam! "
I did not pass it. I paid the money for the make-up exam twice, and the coach was deducted because I failed the test. After seeing me pass, I was so happy and said goodbye to me.
Results The next day I went to practice the third year of the subject, but he took me. I saw that his face was clearly full of: Open! Heart!
@zero salt
Watching north and watching: Although I haven't practiced driving, I often see jokes about practicing driving on the Internet. Just like this, the picture feels very strong. After reading it, I just wanted to "hahahahahahahaha", in short, it is "YOU HAPPY, I HAPPY".
Chapter 5: Is it so interesting to take the driver’s license exam? (Heart is ready to move/bushi)
03
A meal that you owe
Anyone who knows me knows that the eldest brother is a "fake serious" type - generally not taking the initiative, but if you take the initiative to move forward, I will immediately sprint for you for a hundred meters. (referring to any kind of emotional relationship)
so, I rarely take the initiative to chat with people. First, I am addicted to the creation of public accounts, and second, I am always worried that my initiative will cause trouble to the other party.
just, it's amazing. Along the way, there are many formerly good friends who have been disconnected. But there are also some people who still think about them from time to time.
For example, I started to fall into memories a while ago, and think about who have not been in contact for a long time.
Then I thought that Xiao H seemed to disappear, and suddenly sighed: , right? People will always walk to a fork in the road at a certain point in time. Thinking about it, I would have had an appointment to go out for fun in the past!
Then, within two days, a new message popped up in the dialog box - it was sent by Xiao H, who I felt was gradually falling apart.
I was even busy replying to the message here, and it took me a while to reply to him. After a few simple conversations, Xiao H shouted: is out to play, I owe you a meal.
"Hahahahaha!" I turned on the self-talk mode on this side of the screen and kept laughing.In my impression, I was eating freely. The last time it seemed that the other party invited me. I vaguely remember that I said I came this time, and he said, "You come and invite me next time."
Perhaps everyone knows that I am in the poverty stage, so even treating me to a meal to help me think of the steps, trying to make me enjoy the food with peace of mind.
They are not only caring, but also patient with me - they don't want anyone to shout me out, and sometimes they can't shout, and things that often happen when they are called by "complaints" and refuse many times. But they still call me from time to time, even if they don’t contact me much.
It seems that this is what old friends feel after the years have filtered.
Whenever I think of this, I hope I can become a rich woman as soon as possible so that my old friends can enjoy delicious food and drink!
@beiwang
Watching the north and watching: Here, thank you for your friends who are thinking about me~ If you are rich and noble, don’t forget each other!
The above are the 3 short stories I want to share with you this time. In fact, they all happen very trivial things in life. But now, I feel more and more that it is difficult for everyone to feel happy, happy, or even have no feelings for life, perhaps because they ignore these daily happiness.
Happiness is actually very simple: When you are lost, a word of concern from your relatives and friends is a great encouragement; when you are tossing, the small sparks that occasionally make you rub may also be interesting seasonings; when you feel forgotten, old friends pop out and have a meal together, which is also full of happiness.
"Life is so difficult, you can't be happy!"
"It is because life is so difficult that you must learn to cherish your daily life and make yourself happy!"
is just like Jay Chou sings:
Smile one
Happiness is not the goal
Have yourself happy this is the meaning
Happy now finally fly Go back to my hands
The so-called happiness
barefoot chased dragonflies in the field and was tired
stealing fruits and being bitten by bees. I was scared.
Who is laughing
I rely on the scarecrow
blowing the wind and singing songs. I fell asleep
......
more, all of them are encouraged.
I am Beiwang, and today I also want to wish you a happy day
Also, thank you for being by my side
Topic: Which little story have you been touched by? Leave a message~
Author/Beiwang
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No. 5 Introduction:
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