Text | Secret Books Some time ago, Guo Biting's daughter's two-year birthday party and her son's 100-day banquet. Guo Biting is in a very good condition and she can't see that she has given birth to a child at all. Guo Biting's in-laws, Xiang Tai and his wife also attended the ev

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Some time ago, Guo Biting's daughter's second birthday party and her son's 100-day banquet . Guo Biting is in really good condition and she can't see that she has given birth to a child at all. Guo Biting's in-laws, , Xiang Tai, , and the couple also dressed up to attend. The full moon and spring breeze were full, and the family's photo was warm and happy. But an important figure was absent, that is Guo Biting's husband, and the child's father, , Xiang Zuo , was not present.

It is logical that on such a major occasion, the child’s grandparents were present, but the child’s father was gone, which was impossible to say. We don't know the hidden truth.

But on the surface, this kind of thing would happen to ordinary people. Netizens often sympathize with the poor hostess. Her husband is not at home every day, and her hostess is widowed and her marriage life is too bad.

But netizens expressed envy of Guo Biting. It is said that Guo Biting is the real winner in life. She has money and time, looks and children, lives in a big house, drives a big car, and her ugly husband doesn’t go home. The key is that she has a heartwarming mother-in-law who likes to give her diamonds. This kind of life is simply perfect, life is so comfortable, and after a long time of trouble, it turns out that Xiang Zuo is the fertility machine.

Haha, netizens are too hurt. But what I'm telling is the truth. Let me ask, like Guo Biting, who doesn’t yearn for such a life, is rich, children, and has a reasonable mother-in-law, and her husband is not around?

Marrying into a wealthy family, without a husband, isn’t this what many young girls pursue to go to father and keep their son

In recent years, I have seen a lot of publicity on the Internet about the concept of going to father and keeping their son. Many people believe that after getting married and having children, they find that men are not only useless, but also drag their backs. Many storms in life are brought by men. If you have the ability, you can not have a man. Just have a child. Even if you raise a child alone, you will be happier than being with your husband.

and Ye Haiyang is the representative of leaving the father and leaving the son, so it has become the object of praise for many women. But everyone also knows that if you want to leave your father and son, you need to have strong financial strength to support it, otherwise it will be difficult to raise your child alone. If the financial strength is strong, then it will be no big problem to leave the father and keep the son, and life will be very prosperous.

And isn’t Guo Biting’s life just like this? When you marry into a wealthy family, you will have no shortage of material things and your husband is not at home every day. It’s better not to other women. They also have a generous mother-in-law who loves her. She has no worries about food and clothing. She has a nanny to take care of her children and doesn’t have to worry about housework by herself. Is the dream coming true?

It’s okay to have a baby without love, but it’s not okay without money

In recent years, such a discussion has often been circulated on the Internet, if your husband gives you five digits a month, but he doesn’t go home, etc. After the incident of Guo Biting came out, netizens raised a realistic question: If you were given seven figures a month and your husband didn’t go home, would you choose?

is just a joke. Who doesn’t choose such good conditions? My husband is not here, and someone will give you money every month. This kind of life can be woken up by laughing. Although this kind of discussion and answer are in a joking tone, it also reflects the lack of men in the family in real life. Many men do not earn money to support their families, nor do they take care of their children to do housework.

Under the pressure of various real life, many women also understand that it is okay without love, as long as the money is in place, and things that can be solved with money are fine.

[Topic Discussion: Will you be willing to give you 20,000 yuan a month if your husband doesn’t go home? 】

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