Since the country has relaxed the second and third children, many families have begun to prepare for second children, but more couples do not plan to have second children. There are many families with only children. Many people say that having a child at home will be too lonely. Giving a second child can help the eldest son, playing together, doing homework together, and growing up together. There are so many benefits of having a second child, so why are there so many couples unwilling to have a second child? In fact, the reasons are very realistic.
First of all, it depends on the physical condition of the couple. It depends on whether the wife still has the ability to have children and whether she is an elderly mother. Many families who want a second child have to have a child long ago and will not wait until the wife becomes an elderly mother to have the idea of having a second child. The family that delays the wife's age to want a second child may be due to the physical reasons of the couple. If one of the couple has some physical factors that cannot have a second child, then give up the second child and take the risk to prepare for pregnancy. Even if the baby is successfully given birth, your own body may not be able to bear it. You should know that having a child requires a lot of energy.
The second important reason is that the family’s financial ability is insufficient to support the second child. Raising a child requires a lot of energy and financial resources. The child’s child care costs are not a small amount of money, but a long-term investment. If the family’s financial conditions are not good, they will not consider having a second and third child. In this way, the life that is not rich will become more difficult, and the pressure of men to support their families will increase, so couples will no longer have a second and third child.
The third realistic problem is the problem of raising children. In today's society, couples have their own October to be busy and they also have to provide mortgage and car loans. If they have a second child, their wife's work will be greatly affected. They have to take care of their children after giving birth. It is very difficult for men to support their families alone. Many young couples expect that the elderly at home can help take care of their children, but it is also an unknown whether the elderly at home have the energy to help take care of their children, so who will take care of their children is also a very realistic question.
The fourth important reason is whether the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious. There is already a baby at home, and the couple has experience in raising children. If the relationship between husband and wife is very poor, the family often quarrels, and the family atmosphere is not good, then the probability of such a couple having a second child is not high. It depends on whether the husband has the ability to assist in family trivial affairs and whether he can help his wife take care of the children to do housework. However, there are not many men who can make money outside and understand their wives, so many women are unwilling to have a second child. Because discordant couple relationships will also affect the healthy growth of children.
Conclusion: There are actually many reasons for not having a second child, but the above 4 points are common problems in society. Young people are under great pressure, read a lot, and have broad knowledge. Therefore, when deciding whether to have a second child, young couples will consider many factors. The fertility rate is generally declining, which is a common trend. Of course, the country has been encouraging fertility, hoping that young people can overcome these practical problems.
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-