If you hate someone and don’t know how to take revenge on him, then you will always agree to him. The more you give him, the better, until one day you can’t satisfy him and then reject him. I believe that the moment you rejected is the greatest harm to her.
Take this approach to our children, your children will become your enemy.
In fact, this is human nature, and it’s all the time to try it out. Therefore, smart parents must not spoil their children. If you don’t want them, you will satisfy them. You don’t even ask whether they are right or wrong, and don’t have any principles. Long-term indulgence will make children feel that everything parents do to them is right and does not require reward or request. You are not wrong. The ungrateful wolves in the world are raised like this.
If you don’t want your child to stop feeling heartbroken and hurt you one day, then you must do the following things, and each of them can ensure that you have a harmonious parent-child relationship.
1. Don’t work hard and
Some parents are the kind of hard-working and smug. No matter how their family members treat him, she smiles, is more willing to give and more willing to contribute. But I don’t know that in the eyes of your children, your behavior is not only love, but also indulgence. Every time the child’s provocation or the parents’ provocation is challenging your bottom line. If you don’t have a bottom line, it is normal for the other party to become more and more aggressive.
After all, you have made too much contribution. Whether it is your child or others, they will habitually bully you and hurt you. If you ask back and resist a little, others will feel uncomfortable. This is human nature, your dedication and your hard work are just a matter of course in the eyes of others, which is to convey a signal that you are not worthy of my care. Therefore, if you want parents to respect you, your children to accept you, and your family is harmonious, you must not be timid and please anyone, including your children.
2. Don’t give all of it
Love is a cruel practice. True love is to endure the pain and watch the person you love come out by yourself in difficulties. This time, the experience that makes you nervous is the best love for your children, rather than blindly raising your children by your side, unable to touch or touch, and the children raised in this way cannot face life independently. Your love will also become a harm.
Therefore, smart parents do not give all their help to your children and bury them in themselves, but should hold hands with them shoulder to shoulder with them and cultivate them to move forward together. When children encounter problems, you can only encourage them and give them strength to learn to stand up in the mud and find a way out. Gain self-esteem and self-confidence.
or above is for reference and learning only. Please do it under the guidance of professionals. On the road of parenting, we are all novices. How to better take care of children? You can follow me and discuss with me what happens on the road of parenting.
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