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I checked the information and asked the doctor, saying that it was normal to have such emotions. I'm very puzzled, why is it normal to have such an emotion? Such emotions in
have the following effects:
may be that what children do is far from what we ask, so they will feel disgusted with children.
There is a saying that "I'm sorry for the iron, but when faced with some things, he can't do, and even says it but doesn't understand it, and feel helpless, so he will have a disgusting mentality towards the children.
may be because the child brings too much burden to himself and makes him too tired, so he hates the child.
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Our brain actually pursues comfort and stays away from pain, so when children come to this world, they bring us not happiness but pain, fatigue and trouble. Then, out of physical instinct and brain reaction, we will immediately feel disgusted with children.
does not establish emotional interaction with children, so they will hate their children.
Mothers need to establish some interaction with their children in order to have more emotional dependence. If they lack interaction with their children in their daily life and even communicate less often, they will naturally not have emotional dependence, and will also have a certain sense of strangeness to their children, and will have annoying mentality about some unsatisfactory behaviors of their children. I have two of these three items,
. I have the child, and she was taken by her grandmother as soon as she was born, and I slept next to me for only a few times. I was in another place before, but now I have only started taking care of her. This is one of them.
The second is that they live with her grandparents. They spoiled her too much and liked to eat her randomly. They didn't listen to me, which made me feel that "this child was not born by me, but by them."
So parents hate their children, which is actually a relatively normal phenomenon. It is also normal for occasionally this kind of psychology, because it is impossible for a person to have a good mood to face his children at all times.
, and children sometimes have naughty phenomena, which will make parents very collapse. Everyone’s emotions are out of control, so it is a very normal situation to hate their children. So there is no need to worry about holding too much.
If this happens, we can relax and relieve ourselves properly, or choose to give our children to our elders to take care of for a few days, because when we are more irritable, it may affect the harmonious relationship between the family. Sending the child away can give parents a great relief, which is very helpful in improving their mood.
is written at the end. Don’t have too many expectations for your children. Let the children grow up naturally. As long as there is no violation of some principles and laws and regulations, there is no need to restrict the children too much. There is a saying that the higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment, so don’t have too much expectations for your children.
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