6, Thoughts on how to create a king (1)
To become a king, one must have a clear mind, and the other must have the ambition to become a king.
If your child wants to become a king, parents must first have the awareness of being a king and understand the way of the king.
Once parents have a sense of kinghood, this consciousness will subtly plant the seeds of becoming kings in the hearts of children, and will continue to consciously provide spiritual nutrition and support during their growth.
The coach of the king may not be a king (or leader) in the general sense, but you must be clear about how to become a king, and you must know what kind of thinking, mind, demeanor and style the king should have.
The fundamental reason for grasping the way of kings lies in a thorough understanding of life.
It is almost impossible for a person who has no understanding of the concept of kings to accurately understand the concept of kings and have a sense of kings.
The process of cultivating kings still needs to follow the basic principles of family education , as well as the basic principles and objective laws of human growth and maturity. However, in this process, more attention is paid to cultivating children's sense of kings.
Family, schools, playgrounds and other occasions are training grounds and exercise centers that create the concept of kings.
let the child make the decisions about things that can make the child make the decisions about things that can make the child dominant; parents must not do the things that can make the child dominant because they are afraid that they can’t handle them well or delay the matter.
In these processes, parents should provide protection and guidance in a timely and appropriate manner, and while exerting the influence and guidance of the king's consciousness, they should try their best to downplay their existence.
In this way, children can be independent and mature in a timely manner, and face life actively and calmly with a kingly attitude.
Is the child " Jackie Chan " or "adult" in the future? It is only within the parents' thoughts. If the parents do not have the awareness of "Jackie Chan", they must never exert the influence of "adult".
Some parents are worried about their children being so dangerous and so dangerous all day long, and then they don’t let them do anything and can’t do anything. How can such children “Jackie Chan” when they grow up?
people are born with the nature of longing for "Jackie Chan" - like sunflowers facing the sun, every child has great ambitions since childhood.
But if it is secured by the care of parents' "adults", then this glimmer of hope will no longer exist.
Happiness in being a human is not about having the position of king, but about having the heart of a king and doing the things of kings. This is determined by the evolutionary destiny of mankind.
Whether a person is in his or her work or in a family, if he or she does not do his or her own affairs, there will inevitably be bad consequences. The same is true for managing your own life. When facing people who are confused in life, their life ending will inevitably be a mess.
(To be continued)