home is a space where you can express your own things. You don't need to play it anymore. Under the sunshine and light, you can relax and entertain, meet your relatives and friends, and start a happy and comfortable life with ease.
When your child makes a mistake for the first time, you just need to tell him why he was wrong and what to do is right. If the child makes a similar mistake again, perhaps the child is not yet familiar with the correct method, or the lesson is not profound enough for him to ignore. We should first analyze his reasons. If it is the former, we must make it clear, explain the matter clearly, and then give him the opportunity to do it; if it is the latter, we should criticize him appropriately. It is understandable that
is wrong the first time, and can be forgiven if it is wrong the second time, and then it is intolerable. It is reasonable to criticize at this time! I like a sentence, "Attitude is determined-cut". The frequent occurrence of errors is more due to attitude issues. So criticism is aimed at attitudes, not at the matter itself; criticism is aimed at repeat offenders and re-offending, and give the child the first chance to correct the mistake. However, our parents often criticize when the first offender is committed, which makes children feel very wronged!
Criticism is still based on dialogue and communication, but it is more focused on thinking and checking wrong thoughts and actions, in order to solve problems and To avoid mistakes from happening again, criticism is also a dialogue with promises and demands. To sum it up, the first offender must be reasoned, repeated offenders must be agreed, and second offenders must be punished. Source of
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