Father loves like a mountain. The role of the father plays a very important role in the growth of the child. Many traditional ideas believe that as long as the father is responsible for making money and supporting the family, it is the best love for the child. As everyone knows, father’s care for children is more important. We often see children whose fathers often accompany have more fortitude!
The importance of fathers to children's education:
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"Weak fathers" teach the "strong children"
wrong approach: All the children's things, the father does the work, so that the children are usually very weak and can not withstand the storm.
The correct approach: When a child encounters difficulties, the father should not help the child to solve it immediately, learn to encourage the child, be a "confused" father, let the child have a sense of accomplishment, the child will develop the courage to face strangers thing. "Weak" father teaches "strong" children.
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Dads need to understand some "child psychology"
Many dads know that having a positive and optimistic attitude can make their children's future full of sunshine.
When the baby is jealous, the father must learn to help the child to resolve the jealousy.
A child’s confidence comes from his father’s trust, correcting the child’s consciousness of "self-respect".
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Be the child's "financial consultant"
Dad must teach the child how to consume rationally, not because the child is crying, directly give the child money to solve the problem, so that the child will develop a bad consumption concept. I think that as long as I cry, Dad will help him with everything.
To let the action tell the child that obtaining anything requires a certain amount of labor, and prevent the child from looking at "money".
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Good habits determine the future of the child
Most of the children’s habits are learned from mom and dad, and dad must develop good living habits.
Dad should develop good living habits and cultivate children's habit of loving labor.
Dad should develop the habit of saving, and tell his children that saving is a virtue, and cultivate the habit of saving.
Dad should set an example for his children in terms of hygiene, physical health, thinking habits, civility and politeness.
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Father’s "don't" behavior
Don’t order your child to do things you don’t like to do; don’t let your own preferences become your children’s preferences.
Don't hit your child's "weakness"; don't judge your child by your own standards.
Don't "pay the bill" for your child's mistakes; don't plan for your child's future.
Don't use money to calm the child's crying; don't go head-on with the child.
Don't let the father's love become irrational; don't let the children always revolve around your "thoughts".
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Five details for fathers to educate their children
tells children that love is more important than money.
tells children to be brave enough to bear the mistakes they made.
Tell your children to be punctual, which is to keep your foundation of integrity.
Tell your child that father is your strong backing.
Tell children not to be afraid of setbacks, and to turn setbacks into opportunities for children to grow up, and no matter how rich they are, they must "suffer" the children.
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Have fun with the child
Take the child to a good environment and have a good time with him. According to
data, those children who are often taken by their fathers to play have more perseverance and more confidence in handling matters.
