hello I’m Mr. Liu
A hundred-year plan, education is the foundation of
. Since ancient times, education has been an endless topic and a long-term process that every adult needs to know. A good education often accompanies the child's life, and even affects the child's major future and life direction. So, what is the most important aspect of educating children?
All-round development of morality is the first
Whether you are a rich learner or a person who has no idea, I think I have heard of the comprehensive development of the "ethics, intelligence, physicality, and labor" advocated by education in our country. The truth. A country cannot prosper without virtue, and people cannot stand without virtue. Virtue contains many aspects of life and is an invisible norm in society. The virtues described in "The Analects of Confucius · Shuer" are grace, conduct, belief and so on.
When I was young, my parents often taught me to say hello when I saw my elders, to be polite at the table, not to steal, not to snatch, and to be jealous. The school relationship must not be less... In fact, as parents, they should be instilled from an early age and carved into their bones to form a habit. Once they are older, they will be more difficult to discipline in the rebellious period.
first learn to be a person, and then learn to do things
Although life is only a few dozen years, it needs to experience various lives and meet different people. Therefore, the "ethics" in being a person and doing things is particularly important. In school, children can live in harmony with classmates and teachers, be honest, tolerant, helpful and civilized. At home, be filial to your parents, respect the old and love the young, and be obedient and courteous. If the child can be educated to this level in the budding stage, the parents have already done it very successfully.
How well a person mixes in society does not depend on academic qualifications. A person with bad morals is like a time bomb, who would dare to ask for it?
An excellent Chinese student studying in a European country is looking for a job. His grades are very good, but he applied for many companies, but he was disappointed. Finally, once he asked the HR manager angrily why he was not hired. Even a Korean student whose grades were worse than his was hired. The personnel manager explained that his various achievements are indeed impeccable, but in the process of investigating his information, it was found that he had evaded fare twice on the subway, indicating that there was a major issue with his integrity. It was precisely because of these inconspicuous records of two fare evasion that young people later encountered a wall in finding work and had no choice but to return to China.
If Germany is not cultivated since childhood, the consequences are unimaginable.
In "The Thief and His Mother", there used to be a child and his mother who depended on each other for life. One day the child rushed home from school and his mother asked him what happened. What happened. The child said that he saw that his classmate’s writing board was very beautiful, so he took it back. The child thought it was a bad thing. But his mother interrupted him and said, anyway, the classmates didn't see it. Now this tablet belongs to you. Because of the mother's indulgence, after a few days, the child brought a very beautiful coat from outside, saying that it was taken while others were not paying attention to the clothes. Not only did his mother not blame him, but also praised him for his ability and encouraged him to bring more things back. In this way, the child went farther and farther on the wrong path, and became a habitual thief when he grew up, and was finally caught on the spot when he stole the vault.
was sentenced to death by the judge because the crime was too great. When he was taken to the execution ground, his mother came. Before he died, the thief asked to speak with his mother. The mother leaned her ears to hear what he was going to say. Unexpectedly, the thief opened his mouth and bit his mother's ear off. The mother screamed in pain and scolded him for being unfilial. The thief said angrily, if you beat me back when I stole the drawing board for the first time, taught me correctly, and I corrected my mistakes, how could I get to this point now?
Although this is a story in "Aesop's Fables", it can indeed tell us that children need to be nurtured from an early age, and the words and deeds of parents have a huge impact on children.
morality is indispensable. If a child knows how to be grateful and considerate, how can he not study well and how can he make his parents angry? Isn't this the best result?
