Some time ago, I came across a hot post on the Internet, and it was really hard to let go after reading it.
A mother took her 3 and a half month old child to sleep in the master bedroom alone, while her husband slept in the second bedroom separately from her.
This mother has a habit of breast milk enlargement, and her breast milk is always blocked. Basically, she seldom gets a good sleep at night. In order to prevent her baby from being hungry at night, she sets several alarm clocks every night so that she can get up on time to pump milk.
One night, the mother got up to breastfeed and found that the milk was blocked again, so she prepared to pump the milk, but it was already very late in the morning. She was afraid that the loud sound of sucking and turning on the light would affect the baby's rest, so the mother ran to the living room to pump the milk. She felt a little bored during the sucking process, so she posted short videos on TikTok while sucking. Considering that her husband had already rested, he also deliberately turned the volume of his cell phone to the minimum.
However, at 5:46 in the morning, her husband directly sent a message scolding:
"Can you please lower your voice, don't make people unable to help themselves (talking about you)!"
"Your ears are not good, or something is wrong. It's a crappy video, what's the impact of lowering your voice?"
The mother defended weakly: "I have already used the lowest voice."
Unexpectedly Bao's mother's reply aroused even greater dissatisfaction from her husband, who directly sent a screen full of accusations:
"If you can't listen to what others say, you will always continue to do everything according to your own ideas."
"We'll see!"
Bao's mother gave birth to a baby in ten months of pregnancy. It was already a very difficult thing. Now she has to take care of it by herself. Not only is her husband inconsiderate, but she blames Bao's mother for disturbing him to sleep at night. Has he ever thought that the mother cannot sleep well every night in order to feed the baby, and that this kind of thing will only get better when the baby can eat on its own.
As a husband, he did not help at all, and even criticized the mother. The mother felt angry and wronged, and even had self-questioning: I wonder if I can look at my mobile phone while pumping breast milk, and can it affect my husband's sleep at all?
It is said that marry a man, marry a man, wear clothes and eat.
As a man, since you get married and have children, you should take on the responsibilities of being a husband and father in the family.
You are not looking for a wife to carry on your family line and serve you.
A child is the product of two people’s lives, and two people should be involved in raising it.
"Widowed parenting" occurs frequently, and every father should reflect on what he has done.
(picture source network intrusion and deletion)
