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Raising a baby for 7 years, facing the little divine beast, it often explodes and is sometimes healed. The more I feel that the more bitter and deep the grudges of educating children, the more ineffective they are, the more exhausted they are, the more we are, the more we are in a rebellious confrontation.
The good way to educate is to use the brain instead of brute force.
Reminds of a small thing recently, my daughter likes to ride a scooter and shuttle through various rooms at home. Once, I was busy in the study, and my stomach was so hungry that I shouted to help me get bread, but she said, "I won't do it."
The old mother was so sad that she suddenly had an idea and said to her: "May I ask, are you a courier? I bought a courier. Can you help me get it?"
When she heard the "delivery of express delivery", she got excited and asked "what courier" and I said, "I bought bread." So she rode away on a scooter and delivered the bread to me within a minute.
This is the gamification guide, allowing children to do things through games.
Gamified parenting is a double test of parents' mental strength and physical strength. First of all, it is very important to think of a game to come up with. Especially parents who are serious and serious in their daily work, who are not good at doing these things and who can frequently think of gameplay can basically be concluded that they are a humorous, fun, and curious person.
Secondly, it goes without saying that playing games with your children is a physical job, you can understand it.
In addition, my feeling is that whether you want to play or play games with your children, you have high requirements for your parents' emotions and energy. Usually when I am in a low mood and I am not able to play with my children with high energy.
Overall, gamified parenting is a good way, but it is just a matter of consuming and expending effort.
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What should I do when I have no battery and play games with my child? There are picture books.
My daughter is in the first grade this year and should read some children's books, but the picture books I have read most with her at this stage.
Here is a compensatory mentality for me as an old mother. In the kindergarten, my child lived at my grandparents' house and I only went back once every weekend, so I felt that I didn't have enough company and naturally I didn't read enough picture books, so I continued to make up for the lessons.
Facts have proved that children really like reading picture books, especially when I speak vividly, the children listen with relish, and reading for the first half of an hour is a matter of a moment.
I think it is impossible for a child to like reading out of thin air, and starting with picture books is a good idea. The picture books have gorgeous colors, interesting stories, and strange ideas. From reading pictures, reading short stories, and then slowly transitioning to reading words, reading long stories, and reading children's books. This is a way to work.
picture books have innocence, fun, and brains. Of course, the most important guidance and education must be there.
Recently I gave my child the "Xixi Family Growth Diary", which is a set of picture books with the theme of "protecting yourself", one set of four books, namely:
"Traffic Safety Model", which tells about traffic safety.
"Kitchen Adventures" tells the story of home safety.
"The Monster Who Catches a Puppy" tells you that you cannot walk with strangers.
"The "Big Mac" of the Next Door" is about learning to say no in the face of bullying.
is suitable for 3-6 years old, and it is also suitable for my first grade of 7 years old. You can take your children to read, and children who are literate can also read by themselves. The theme of
is considered a common practice. What is rare is that this picture book has its own characteristics:
1. The protagonist has a distinctive image: the protagonist is the 7 puppies of the Xixi family, plus a kitten. Open the first page of the picture book and you can see the introduction of these members. Each picture book focuses on several of them.
For example, "The Adventures of the Kitchen" tells the story of the fifth sister Mianxi. Her personality traits are kindness, love to cry, love to act spoiled, and the topic of this book is "Kitchen Safety", which tells Mianxi is full of curiosity about the kitchen. She sneaked into the kitchen to cook while her family was away, but she was caught by a pepper, black smoke came out of the pot, oil bottles were knocked over, and slipped to the ground.
Story At the end of the story, the family came back to help, and the brothers and sisters helped clean the kitchen while bringing up the topic of kitchen safety.
It is worth mentioning that these animal images are not fictional, mostly come from real animal images. This means that the editor-in-chief of this book is actually the celebrity Sun Li . In addition to acting, she also insists on parent-child reading. As early as 2020, she edited a picture book "Growing Up with You".
The set of "Xixi Family Growth Diary" edited by her is based on the stray animals adopted by their family, many dogs and a cat. After Sun Li anthropomorphized these animals, she also incorporated some personality elements of her children, sister, as well as her and Deng Chao, and finally compiled this set of interesting and vivid picture books.
2. The picture is beautiful, the animal image is cute, and the picture book is soft tone.
When I took my daughter to read foreign picture books, she often complained, "Mom, why is this person so ugly?" Indeed, the characters or protagonists in some foreign picture books do not quite conform to the aesthetics of Chinese people. The animal image of this picture book is very cute, gentle, and chubby.
and the main color is green, which is very eye-friendly. The overall color tone of the picture book is also soft, similar to the macaron color, which looks very good.
3. The story goes ups and downs, and the guidance and education of children are completed in the tortuous stories.
Good picture books must be good stories. Each of this picture book has a good story.
Among them, "The Monster Who Catches Puppy" tells the story of the third sister Xixibu is very good at learning and is completely unstoppable for the danger outside. The second brother Naobaxi said, "There are monsters outside that specifically catch puppy and sell them to the black market." Xixibu didn't believe it very much, so he held a small encyclopedia to explore.
is on the road of its research and has experienced a thrilling process of being captured. Fortunately, at the end of the story, Xixibu was saved.
When I told my daughter this story, she experienced the ease at the beginning, the tension in the middle, and the moment when Xixibu was rescued, I felt that she finally breathed a sigh of relief.
When I finished telling her once, she quarreled and wanted to listen to it a second time. When I am alone, I will also look through it and feel the danger of Xixibu's nervousness.
Back to the beginning of the article, we say that education for children is not achieved through silence, and hard work may not lead to good results. In the ups and downs of picture books, the cultivation of children's safety awareness is formed subtly.
For a lazy mother like me, reading picture books on is a brain-free way. You don’t need to think about games or jump and jump to play with children. We still have the strength to tell stories.
The most important thing is that reading picture books is really helpful to cultivate parent-child relationships. Reading picture books for children is to take the children to experience these tortuous stories, laugh together, and go from nervousness to relaxation together. It is easy to cultivate feelings in this process.
Parenting blogger Nian Gao Mom also said that she is very busy starting a business and has limited time to spend with her children. She often relies on picture books to cultivate feelings with her children. Her approach is to take out some picture books, which belongs to her and her children alone, and establish intimacy and interaction with the children in this "private" and "unique" process.
This is why my child is in the first grade. I am not in a hurry to read a lot of children's books for her immediately, and now I still read a lot of picture books.
Because books can be read for a lifetime, but the time you read picture books is only a few years. Of course, you must seize it and let this reading time that belongs to parents and children go slower, and make the parent-child relationship more stable and more stable.
In my opinion, reading picture books with children is not only to educate children, but also to accompany them with their parents and children. Adults can often read a sense of healing.
