Since I had a baby, my husband has become increasingly uneasy and talked to me from time to time that we want the child to be late. When we raise the child, we are all old and can’t help the child? We have to earn money now to save money for our children to get married later. He felt that it was the parents' fault for not buying a house for his children, and not raising children...
These thoughts surprised me. What era is there, and there is such old ideas.
For parents, we have the obligation to raise our children to adulthood; but as human beings, we have the right to live out ourselves! Parents are the first teachers of their children. The impact we have on children is in all aspects. We must let them see how we work hard to make money, how we enjoy life, and how we can reach out to what we want...
instead of saving ourselves and being generous to our children. In the end, the child thinks it is natural for him to eat well and use it well, and your efforts should be natural.
often see older children at the door of the custodial class or school. As soon as they leave the school gate, they take off their schoolbags and throw them on their grandparents and parents. They walk for granted by themselves. They often see sending their children to college to study, with a lot of luggage on their parents, and the children are leisurely and relaxed. Why is this phenomenon common? Because now everyone spoils their children too much. These children only know how to read and are not grateful at all.
This is the fruit of Chinese-style spoiled education. You will know whether it is sweet, bitter or astringent.
I want to be a selfish parent, I want to live my own life selfishly, I want to let my children work hard on their own, what kind of life do you want to live, please rely on your own diligence to obtain it. As a parent, I can help you in time and add icing on the cake. But you can't squeeze yourself out for you.
As a parent, it is definitely not just giving. It is better to be fished by others than to be fished by others. Teaching children how to live is the primary responsibility of parents.
