Full-time mothers who say "I'll go to work when my kids go to kindergarten", have you all gone to work?
send your child to the school bus. On the way home, I saw the worker coming and going in a hurry, and thought that the child also left me to adapt to the new life. Suddenly, I felt a sense of loss and felt aroused. Every time I took my child out, someone said that when the child went to school, you can find a class. When I heard other people's words, I could only use a smile to answer. I could only experience the sadness and helplessness and anger.
Because my understanding is that after I work hard to raise my child, I still have to make money in seamless connection. No one cares how you survived it, and no one can understand your hard work. They can only keep you free for a moment, so that you can take care of your child and have to make money.
I would like to ask, which class can let me give it to you at 8 am and pick it up at 4 pm? If the child is sick, there is something wrong with the school, can you take leave at any time during winter, summer and holidays?
The three years of raising children at home were originally the golden age of working hard in the workplace. Now, the functions are degraded, there is no social connection, and the older sisters and aunts in their forties and fifties have experience, and the younger girls with education, skills, abilities, and time are not troubled by family trivial matters, and they are clear-headed and quick to learn. In comparison, what are their advantages?
When I hear many people say, it depends on how well your child is, and how obedient it is, it is easier to take care of. Alas, you see, they can define your child in just those few minutes, and you are very relaxed. The tortures that are day and night, physical, mental, and emotional torture are all visible to me, and they are torture me every day.
actually is not that I can’t find a job, but I just can’t find a suitable one. Who has let me read so many books, learned so many skills hard, and was unwilling to do cool labor services. Alas, I suddenly felt that I was very sad. A word could make me choke, make me lose control of my emotions, and have nowhere to tell me, but more of it was that I felt that I was useless.
Now I don’t reject the work or work I do. I am more confused and afraid. What can I do? Even if I find a job, come home from get off work, cook, do laundry, take care of the children's daily life and diet, and teach homework, I will still be the one who finds a job, how many days can I last for such a life? Others go to work just by working without any worries, but I still have too much burden. Are I tired to take care of my children? Actually, you are not tired either. You don’t have to think about other things. You have enough money to spend and you are not tired at all with your children. What really makes you tired is other people, including the one you are closest to.
No one teaches us how to be mothers, and we seem to be born to be mothers, just like when Xiao Qi is born, he will suck milk without anyone teaching him.
The best age scolds us for choosing to accompany our children, day after day, year after year, it seems that there is no unhappiness, nor unhappiness...
