When to use diapers and when not to use them?
The answer of the preschool teacher is: Don’t use it.
Is it difficult for parents to understand? This way, two different parenting concepts can emerge. Teachers would rather wet the quilt and pants than recommend that the baby wear diapers; while parents usually do the opposite, actively put them on and then keep them clean and hygienic.
When everyone grows up, they will hear a saying like this: This child can’t grow up yet. This means that a child can mature as soon as possible, and this will have a lot of room for growth for the path they will take later. For example, when other children can eat, some children can’t eat by themselves, which makes people instinctively feel that the gap arises at this time.
Once, Xiao Fengfeng was wet in the garden and even pooped on his pants. The teacher in the kindergarten was also very conscientious and washed the child's pants clean, packed them in a bag and put them in his schoolbag.
Xiao Fengfeng's grandmother put a piece of diapers in Fengfeng's schoolbag the next day. But the teacher didn't use it for a long time. Grandma Feng Feng communicated with the teacher and said, "Teacher, my child is only over 2 years old. I feel so embarrassed to ask you to help wash your pants every day. Why don't you use diapers?"
Feng Feng's class teacher answered: "We don't recommend using diapers because we want to give the child a process of self-growth. We believe he will slowly change this habit."
Grandma Feng Feng felt it was incredible! It has simply subverted my parenting experience for more than 50 years in my life. Grandma thinks it would be better if she can use diapers? It’s not good to get wet in the quilt! And it is easy to breed bacteria.
The teacher said that we will take it back to clean until the weekend, and we will dry the quilt first. This is more convenient.
Indeed, the quilt was taken home for washing that day, but it may not be able to dry it.
Here, we can receive 2 practical experiences:
First of all, no matter how old a child is, including 2-3 or 4 years old, the earlier the diapers, the better. If you quit later, you still have to quit when you go to kindergarten. Moreover, it is more difficult to quit than at home, it is not difficult to quit, it is a little more troublesome. Leaving the task of quitting diapers to the teacher will also add to the teacher's trouble.
Before the age of 2 and a half, if you should quit immediately if you should. Wet pants and wet mats are easier to handle in summer than in winter.
Secondly, the little baby is resistant to diapers, and they don’t like to use diapers either. And if you use diapers a day, just use them at night, and you also need to use them 30 tablets a month, which will irritate the baby's skin. This is the most important reason why you don’t use diapers.
There are also some children who wear diapers but don’t urinate. Once they loosen, they wet the bed. This situation is experienced by most children; if not, the baby is not so dependent on diapers.
From the perspective of teachers and children, they are unwilling to accept diapers, and there is no need for parents to waste QQ to buy diapers. If diapers do not appear, it will be a growth for the child. (Friends who like it, remember to follow this account.)
