If you want to maintain a good parent-child relationship with your children, parents should learn to empathize with and communicate with them.
Only when you experience his feelings from a child's perspective can love flow and communication be useful.
——Leba
Author | Niu Ma Peng Xiaobang
Source | Niu Ma Peng Xiaobang
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30 communication is useful.
Children can feel the care, blessings and love flowing from their parents, and trust and understanding flowing from their children... This is the purpose of communication, so you must stand from the other party's perspective.
Our demands on children unknowingly implicitly threaten: "If you don't cooperate, I will punish you." Parent-child relationships in this situation will only lead to both losses.
Love your children, start by talking well! Talk well and start with the exchange of truly learning to empathize, apologize, and not preset answers.
The core of communication is not to argue about the right or wrong of things, but to care about the other party. If the person is right, the problem can be solved.
source: Niu Ma Peng Xiaobeng. Author: Niu Ma Peng Xiaobeng, mother of two children, psychological counselor of Adler School, director of the parent-school and social co-education major of the Chinese Family Education Society, published a collection of parenting comics "Growing up, Don't Panic" and was selected as a national family parent-child reading book.
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