In fact, what children are addicted to is not games, but themselves who like the virtual world.
In this world, any job, even if it is a hourly worker, is calculated based on hourly wages, you have to pay the daily payment at the fastest. Even if you are a brick-moving piecework worker, the number must be satisfied at the fastest to be fulfilled. But what about the game? Every second he is fulfilling his "success".
First: Learning is a long and boring process. No matter how talented the child is, he has to accumulate knowledge points in daily life, which can only be reflected in the exam. By the time the results come out, several months may have passed. And what about the game? Just killing a wild monster will bring you economics, and if you have an economy, you can cash out immediately. Buy weapons and equipment, and then have better equipment and get more economics. This is much faster than daily salary payments and much faster than getting a score in the exam.
Second: He plays all the characters in the game themselves, mage, shooter, assassin or auxiliary, all the characters are manifestations of his personal will. He can choose to output, fight the damage, or choose to resist injuries, and bear all the right and wrong. Moreover, in every game, he can play different roles to find and satisfy himself, but learning cannot. Even if he likes subjects, he must be combined with other subjects that he is not good at or disliked, and his favorite subject scores only account for a part, but the game can account for a large part, and every position can achieve an absolute role.
Third: The game is interactive, it is a team homework. The auxiliary can track the assassin mage or shooter, or the middle and wild assistants can be linked together, and even the team battles can be played at the beginning, but it is difficult to form an interaction between boys and girls. You are afraid of early love. Some schools cannot even have a male or female deskmate. When you interact in daily life, you will classify the students yourself. This student’s family is not good, this student’s study is not good, this student has bad behavior, and always denies others side by side, and does not give the children the right to choose.
Fourth: In the game, they became "leaders". Some children are very unconfident in reality and dare not talk to others. They even stay in the corners. But in the game, they are active in the wheat. Why? Because in the game, as long as you play well, you have the right to speak and command, and you can lead your teammates to victory.
Fifth: They let themselves go. In the game, they can choose their own characters, choose their own skins, choose their own names, wear whatever they want, and call them what they want. Do they usually have these permissions? The name is also like "She and the sword are both lost", "Little party dishes", "Bao and love to play". These are actually the reflection of students' personality.
No. 6: In most cases, you can find the "partner" in the game. Most people in the game can get CP, because as long as you can show your strengths, it is easy to make the other party like it, such as if you are a jungler leading the rhythm, for example, if you are a shooter harvesting the head, and if you are a supporter and a big meat to block the damage for the other party, these can make the other party like and move. You can say anything you dare not say or what you can’t say in the game, why? Because they actually know that it is very difficult to encounter in the game, and it is okay to say it, so "virtual" becomes "reality". And two true hearts are the easiest to come together. Then again, if you are rejected in the game, so what? They have the next one, ha, there is no worries of breaking up love.
Karnaki said: "The human beings have the instinct of longing for "respecting and recognition" deep in their hearts," and the game just satisfies these characteristics. He can do everything he wants to do, and is usually afraid of being rejected. Even if he fails, he can have a "next hand". He can find the person he likes and the person he likes. He is the best friend of friendship, a comrade in the collaboration, and a sweet "CP", so he is the most real self in the game!
For parents, we actually want to be "respected" because it is not easy for us to make money and work. We have monthly payments. Maybe our salary will be pledged for 15 to 20 days or even unable to get a salary. Therefore, we long for our efforts to be understood and respected by our children. Similarly, children also long for our efforts to be respected, even if we think it is "naive".
Physics tells us: "The role of forces is mutual, and respect is the same!"
