After the birth of the second child, the eldest son's life will be forced to undergo earth-shaking changes. Most babies don't want to have a sibling. Even if they are clamoring for it on the surface, it is actually because they are ignorant. If they knew that this little guy was

After the birth of the second child, the eldest son’s life will be forced to undergo earth-shaking changes.

Most babies do not want to have a sibling. Even if they clamor for it on the surface, it is actually because of their ignorance.

If they knew that this little guy was coming to compete with them for his mother and toys, would they still be willing to do so?

The mother is coaxing the second child to sleep in the bedroom, and the 4-year-old baby is silently coaxing himself. He is well-behaved and sensible and does not look for his mother.

In a family with two children in Shandong, the mother feels overwhelmed every day. The second child has just been born, and the eldest child is only 4 Although she doesn't have to go to work, she is exhausted from taking care of two children every day. Fortunately, her eldest son is an angel baby and she basically doesn't need to pay any extra attention to him. How many angels

has? Just give an example to know. In order to monitor the movements of the two children in real time, the mother installed cameras in the living room and bedroom. Although it seems that there is no private space at home, sometimes monitoring can really come in handy.

On this day, the mother nursed the second child to sleep in the bedroom, and let the eldest child watch TV and play with toys in the living room. After all, the eldest child is already 4 years old and can complete these behaviors independently. But my mother was worried and still used her mobile phone in the bedroom to observe every move of her boss.

The eldest son was playing well at first, but suddenly the little guy spread a small blanket on the ground, put his toys next to it, and then got into the blanket, patting himself with his little hands in the process, as if It's coaxing myself to sleep.

After my mother witnessed the whole process with her own eyes, she was so happy that she was lucky to have such a well-behaved and sensible baby. If he clamored for his mother again, she really didn’t know what to do! He must have saved the galaxy in his previous life.

Such a sensible child makes people feel even more distressed.

Children's sensibleness usually comes from their parents' neglect.

It is reasonable for a four-year-old child to complete daily activities independently. After all, he is already a child. For students in the middle class of kindergarten, teachers have already taught them the skills and habits of daily life, and they can also abide by the relevant rules well.

But don’t forget, he is only a 4-year-old child. No matter how well-behaved and sensible he still needs his mother’s care and concern! He is still young at heart and is not omnipotent in the eyes of his parents! I will also be scared and want to cuddle up in my mother's arms.

But isn’t the reason they appear sensible just because they can’t get their mother’s love? When his brother and he need his mother at the same time, his mother will definitely give up her and choose her brother. This is an unchangeable fact, and she can't change anything except accepting it. Compared with

in the past days, the boss has also done related tests and resistance, and the results obtained are without exception, the objects are ignored and left out. This seems to be early entry into independent education, but in fact it is the incompetence and inaction of the parents.

Once a child becomes sensible, he cannot return to his original innocence.

Today, the child has chosen to be sensible and considerate, not to annoy his mother or make things difficult for her. But as he continues to grow, he will always be able to do so in his heart. No complaints? Wouldn't he hate his mother and complain about her? Most definitely!

He will be indignant because of his lack of maternal love. Why is the love that I should enjoy being taken away by my brother? And no one consulted or greeted me, why should I be the one to bear all the consequences?

Some children will become estranged from family ties and have a deep gap with their parents. Even if their parents want to make up for themselves, they cannot believe that all this is true, and even pretend to be distant from others. demeanor.

The other part of the children will continue to pretend to be considerate and vent their dissatisfaction and resentment on the second child.Since it's all because of you, then let you bear everything I have experienced alone! In the end, it turned into the embarrassment and delusion that the parents were kept in the dark.

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