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After lunch, I led my 1-year-old son to walk in the living room. The little guy has recently become obsessed with carrying things from one place to another, because he can’t be alone yet. Go, so every time you have to take an adult with you to act as a porter.
I once saw some adults holding their children because the child accidentally fell down, but the adults pulled the child's arm hard, resulting in the child's arm being dislocated.
My baby has just reached the age where he can walk and run, so I am particularly afraid of the above situation when I lead him to walk. Sometimes when I lead him to walk, he accidentally trips and falls, and I am the same. Support him immediately.
It was the same as today. I didn’t hold his hand very hard. Instead, I let him pull me, giving him the initiative.
But something happened.
He took a pack of seasoning packs from the kitchen cabinet, walked crookedly to the living room, put it in the box of instant noodles, and was about to go back to the kitchen to get another pack, but as he was walking, he was accidentally Something tripped him, and in just one second, he kissed the ground honestly, and his head and body hit the ground with a bang.
He cried loudly. My mother-in-law was cleaning the kitchen, so she heard the sound and poked her head out to see what was going on.
I picked him up immediately and gently patted his back to comfort him.
The parents-in-law are wondering, why does the child fall down when he is walking well?
I was also puzzled. My mother-in-law usually leads him around, but she has never let her child fall. When he came to my place, he fell.
But no matter how you think about it, the child did fall. This has already happened, and I think it is a small thing. Whose child will learn to walk without falling or bumping?
My mother-in-law and father-in-law were very distressed when they saw that their grandson had fallen. First, my mother-in-law began to educate me. When I pull the child away, I must hold him tightly and don’t let him drag me back. I must be very careful when looking after my child.
I was annoyed that I didn’t take good care of my child. Apart from feeling sorry for my child, I knew that my mother-in-law would definitely be nagging me, but it was indeed me who failed to protect my child, so I never reacted.
Occasionally, I would say, it’s okay. It’s normal for children to fall when they learn to walk. There’s no need to be so delicate.
I actually comforted myself. It really was just a fall and nothing happened. Don’t panic or blame yourself too much.
As a result, my mother-in-law heard me say this and thought that I was big-hearted and didn’t care about the child. Even if the child fell down, she could still say it was okay.
After my mother-in-law finished speaking, my father-in-law started talking about me again. I couldn't help it, so I retorted to my father-in-law that it was normal for children to fall, so don't talk about it anymore.
My mother-in-law’s voice became louder immediately after hearing this. When other people’s children fell down, they knocked out some of their knees, which made her feel very distressed. But you, on the other hand, kept saying that it was okay when your child fell down. You really don’t care about children at all.
Actually, it’s not that I don’t feel distressed. I just hope that my parents-in-law will not take the problem too seriously. After all, it is a small matter and there is no need to repeat it like this.
I explained to my mother-in-law, but she not only refused to listen, but also said that as a mother, I could fall down while walking with my child. She still didn't care after that, and she didn't care about the child at all.
How can anyone say that a mother doesn’t care about her children! Even for an elder, this is too much to say.
I was completely irritated now.
I hid upstairs and listened to the class silently and listened to music, trying to divert my attention and stop thinking about these bad things.
But for the whole afternoon, I was immersed in such pain, and my mind kept thinking about what my mother-in-law said: Do you feel sorry for your child? I didn't see it.
I’m upset about why I let my child fall. I’m obviously looking at him very carefully. Do I really not care about my child?
has been feeling sad and didn’t even go to eat dinner.
I know that my mother-in-law is an outspoken person, and she will say whatever she wants. In fact, there is no malicious intention, but it is often quite hurtful.
Because it is said directly from the heart without any modification, it has the greatest lethality.
When Lao Xu found out about this, he immediately told her mother-in-law, telling her to stop being so impulsive and also advised me not to be like my mother-in-law.
But I was really hurt by that sentence and couldn’t let it go so easily.
I keep asking myself, why am I so angry and aggrieved? Do you really want to wait for your mother-in-law, an elder, to admit your mistake to me?
This definitely won’t work. I’m just angry that my mother-in-law talks too harshly every time, but I won’t remember it next time and won’t say anything when I get anxious.
I kept going back and forth until around nine o'clock in the evening before I could express my emotions properly with Lao Xu.
I never got married, then got married, and then gave birth to a baby. I feel that I am not the most favored girl in the family. She is not outstanding in appearance, not tall, and the key is that I can’t do anything. Even with the baby, my mother-in-law provides supplementary food. , and usually spend the most time with the baby. (Lao Xu and I work outside, so it is mainly my mother-in-law who takes care of the baby.)
Later, I talked with him about my mother-in-law, and I actually admired her quite a lot. My father-in-law was not in good health, and she supported the whole family by herself, even at the age of ninety. My grandfather takes good care of the children and does his best to look after the children. The children are raised white and fat.
But then I thought about it, because my father-in-law was not in good health, my mother-in-law was forced to support the family. How could she know everything in the first place?
I always have low self-esteem and feel that I am stupid for not taking good care of my children and that I don’t care about my children. But in fact, who is born with everything?
felt relieved and went downstairs to chat with her mother-in-law.
My mother-in-law asked me the first sentence, Are you really not eating?
I felt particularly touched when I heard my mother-in-law ask this question. No matter how the children and their parents get into trouble, the first thing the parents always ask is, are you hungry? Are you going to eat?
Even though my mother-in-law is at odds with me, she is still worried about my health.
When a family gets along, sometimes they will quarrel so much that they won’t give in to anyone, but how can there be an overnight feud? Once you figure it out, admit your mistake to the other person, apologize, and live your life as before.
But to be honest, you really shouldn’t say some things that you shouldn’t say. No matter how much you quarrel, you must insist on not saying ugly words. If you say it, your family may remember it for a lifetime, and this wound will remain in the future.
The most important thing is to think more about the good things about the other person and know that she is not a disgusting person. After the emotion is over, you can still get along as usual and the matter will be over.
knows how to reflect on his own shortcomings every time he makes a mistake or quarrels, and can be more considerate of others' difficulties. Isn't life getting happier day by day?
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