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Recently, I heard the song "Angel Wings" many times in short videos, and I thought it sounded very nice. My classmate Doubao also heard it last night. She asked me: What kind of song is this that sounds so good?
I said: I also think it sounds good. The song is called "Angel Wings".
She brushed her teeth and washed her face while listening, and then came out and told me: This is the first song that made me want to cry after listening to it.
I said: Well, it is quite touching. I was also very moved when I heard it for the first time.
Then, I hugged her and she said: You hold me like an angel!
seemed really touched.
After saying that, she continued to wash up, and after a while she said to me: Dad, can you really shed tears?
I said: Of course, I will shed tears when I am moved by the music.
After a while, she came out and said to me: I think I really shed tears, so I wiped them off with a tissue. When
said this, she was still holding a tissue in her hand.
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I think Doubao-san is so affectionate! Then I hugged her again. She hugged me tightly, wiped my eyes with a tissue, and said, "Don't bring tears to me."
Haha, I didn’t cry this time!
She continued to wash up. After a while, she asked me: Dad, can you cry loudly?
I said: Okay, you can cry if you want, cry whatever you want.
Then, I told her about the last time I cried while listening to music.
Listening to music and chatting with children, I suddenly remembered that sentence: Education is to use life to influence life.
Can you teach this kind of emotional experience? This is something that can't be taught, right?
You can only share your life experience with her and influence her through resonance.
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I remembered a plot in a book I read before:
When a father watches TV, his eyes will get wet when he sees an emotional place. The little daughter observes him and asks: Dad, are you going to cry?
It doesn’t matter if it makes dad cry, it doesn’t matter if he doesn’t cry. Think about that scene in your mind, it's really funny and cute.
And I also like the warm scenes between father and daughter. It is a book written by a father about his daughter. The whole book is filled with warm scenes between the father and his daughter, which is very heartwarming.
I remember after reading that book, I thought: If I have a daughter in the future, I will also write a book for my daughter. And now, I have done it.
It is these trivial moments in daily life that make people feel: life is so good!
Being with your children is already a very, very happy thing, what else do you need?
When we are full of happiness every time we see a child, and there is light in the child's eyes every time, and let the child live under your full love, you really don't have to worry about anything.
You have used your life status to tell her what love is and what happiness is. If a child has these two things in his heart, there will definitely be no difference.
04
We all advocate now: slow down, slow down, slow down is a good time.
But why is it so slow? In fact, being with your children can help you slow down.
Accompany your children three meals a day, all year round, with daily necessities, daily necessities, and stars. Every little thing is lucky. This is what happiness looks like, this is childhood that heals a lifetime. It doesn’t take much.
When you tell me that you are touched, I am moved with you; when you tell me that you want to cry, I give you a warm embrace; when you want to sing, I am the audience; when you want to play the piano, I listen carefully; when you want to write, I give you pen, ink, paper and inkstone; when you encounter difficulties, I face them with you; when you encounter challenges, I will give you encouragement in time; when you are naughty When you make trouble, I will clean up the mess with you...
I don't need to expect anything, you are already beautiful! The time has been beautiful!
