I saw a very heart-warming scene while chatting with a friend at a cake shop this afternoon. A young father took his son to a cake shop to buy cakes. They bought a piece of cream cake . The baby looks about three or four years old. He wants to take the cake to the dining table by himself.
"Can the child take it by himself?" my friend said with doubts. I also wonder if the child's father can let him do this independently.
We both looked at the young father curiously. I saw my father say without hesitation: "Okay, slow down!"
The baby held the dinner plate in his two little hands and walked carefully to the table. He walked very slowly. Just when we thought we could reach the dining table, the cake fell to the floor with a "pop", and the little boy looked at his father with a look of horror.
I thought: The father was careless with his child, so he let the child carry it by himself. But I didn’t expect that if it fell on the ground, the father would definitely be angry and blame him.
But to my surprise, the father not only did not talk about the baby, but also comforted the baby and said: "It's okay, are you scared?" The baby nodded with a red face. It seems that he has not recovered from the panic just now.
"It's okay, do you want another piece? The father patted the child on the shoulder and said.
"Really? "Dad" the child was a little surprised.
"But let's get rid of this cake first"
The young father found a broom and a toss, cleaned the cake, and led the child to buy another cake.
My friend and I thought It was over here. Unexpectedly, the father said: "Xiao Xu, look at the cake while holding the plate like this, and walk forward slowly so that it doesn't fall to the ground." After the father finished the demonstration, he put the cake on. The plate with the cake was handed to the child. The baby looked at the cake as his father said, walked slowly, and brought the cake to the table.
The child said happily. The child started his happy meal time.
I was shocked. Isn’t this kind of father what the books say?
I am full of curiosity about this father.
What does he do? He told me that he is just an ordinary civil servant who likes to read some parenting books.
I am really happy for this child to have such a good father who understands the child's psychology and is not impatient.
When something happened, He knew that the child was unintentional, so he first calmed the child's mood, and then told the child the correct method. If the child encounters something like this, he will know how to deal with it.
In any industry, learning is the first step towards success. , not to mention that raising children is a major event in life, and we need to learn
knowledge.
