When describing a child who is lively and active but can't sit still, most people will say that the child is like a "little monkey". However, when my son was a child, he couldn't just be described as a little monkey. He was simply a "flying monkey."

describes a child who is lively and active, but cannot sit still on the bench. Most people say that the child is like a "little monkey". However, when my son was young, he could no longer be described simply as a little monkey. He was simply a "flying monkey".

As long as I relax for a moment and fail to keep an eye on my son, my son can tear down my home. One time, I asked my son to draw a picture for me. As a result, the child only sat on the bench for 5 minutes and couldn't sit still. He kept shouting, "Mom, my butt hurts. I can't sit still!"

Mothers tend to be soft-hearted. When they see their babies acting coquettishly, pouting their little lips, they even pretend to be real and touch their buttocks, shouting that it hurts. I really couldn't bear to let my baby sit down and continue painting.

However, I know very well that since my child entered kindergarten, his concentration has been very poor. During kindergarten, the child almost never received any awards. Every time I communicate with the kindergarten teacher, the teacher just says, "Your child is very naughty, but he is quite smart."

I know in my heart that my child is a child with good intelligence, but he has difficulty concentrating. I understand better that if my child is 5 years old and I continue to leave him alone, it will really destroy the child's concentration and possibly cause the child to have poor grades when he goes to elementary school. But, what should we do to change this situation of our baby?

I had an idea and thought of a way. The laziest person in the family is my husband . He can sit still for a long time and has really strong concentration.

So, when my son was on summer vacation that year, I simply made an excuse and left the baby with my "lazy dad". Unexpectedly, the result turned out to be great, and my son’s concentration improved!

◉The "lazy dad" brings out super concentration when raising his baby. It turns out that he uses these two stupid methods

When the lazy dad raises his baby and plays with his son, I appear indifferent on the surface, but in fact I am also secretly observing. I discovered that the reason why I was able to bring out my son’s super concentration in the end was actually because my husband’s “stupid methods” contained great wisdom. However, most mothers do not have the patience to continue with this stupid method, and are prone to being overly eager for success and falling short of success.

The first stupid method: when playing with the baby, do not disturb or interrupt the child's attention

When a lazy father plays with his baby, he is not like a mother who always "likes to interrupt". Mothers love to chat with their children, but when fathers take care of their children, they almost do not like to interact with their children or talk to them. Therefore, when a child sees his father standing aside, not moving or talking, and being so "lazy", it becomes easier for him to focus on doing things, and it is also easier for the child to focus on one point..

When lazy fathers raise their children, most of them only focus on whether the children are safe and have any dangerous behaviors. The other thing is to insist on using the word "lazy" throughout.

A lazy father took care of his baby, and finally he gave his baby super concentration in one summer vacation. This was due to the fact that the father did not disturb the baby or interrupt his concentration when he stayed with the baby. This method seems very stupid, but it actually works . The baby can calm down easily and sit for longer periods of time.

The second stupid method: do things that interest the child and train the child’s concentration

During the period when the husband was responsible for raising the child, in order to let the child sit on the bench, the husband, a truly lazy father, specially thought of a way, It is and gives the baby a set of stickers . Not to mention, this trick really works, it’s extremely effective!

I observed that the baby was playing with stickers by himself without disturbing her husband at all. He was also very happy and continued to read lazily by himself. The father and son do not disturb each other, but they are both very busy. My child showed that he really likes to play with stickers. This kind of love is completely beyond my expectation.

The child didn't move for half an hour. smiled after putting it on for a while, leaned his chin and thought about something, and then continued to peel off new stickers and put them in the right place.

I have never seen a baby take things so seriously. This son is completely different from his previous son. Once, I deliberately got close to my son and found that while he was playing, he was saying plausibly, "It's a little bit close, I'll finish this painting soon!" It turns out that children also have the concept of "finished" and children have done well. What a sense of accomplishment one thing !

Since then, the child's concentration has improved by leaps and bounds. When he was in kindergarten, even the teacher praised him: "It only took one summer vacation. This child has changed so much. His concentration has improved so quickly!" Later, some parents learned about their children's changes and communicated with me. Ask me, how do you make adjustments and changes with your baby?

I simply said: " Let your lazy husband take care of the baby to play with stickers . The father and son each perform their duties and are busy, and the baby's concentration will naturally improve."

◉ Then, Why can playing with stickers with children improve their concentration?

Biologist Georges Cuvier once said, "Genius, first of all, is concentration." This is a basic condition for the brain to carry out perception, memory, and thinking activities. If it cannot be concentrated, all useful information will be blocked due to the narrowing of the channels for receiving information, and will not be able to enter the brain.

Therefore, concentration is particularly important. When you play with stickers with your baby, your baby's perception , memory , active thinking are mobilized in all directions, which activates the baby's brain, develops intelligence, and accelerates the child's concentration. Improvement of strength.

First of all, if you bring your baby to play with stickers, the child will have no psychological pressure and be relaxed and happy.

Children usually have poor concentration, which is related to the child's psychological pressure. Especially when children study and complete tasks left by their elders, some mentally fragile children simply cannot bear the nagging and expectations of their parents. Therefore, he appears unable to sit on the bench and feels irritable.

When playing with stickers, children do not have such feelings. The stickers are all cartoon designs , and there are 16 volumes 080 exquisite stickers. Children like to see and post them, and the more they play, the happier they become. When a child is in a happy mood, the child's concentration is very high.

Secondly, playing with children with stickers is in line with children’s thinking characteristics

Children have their own world, which is different from adults’ ideas. This is also the reason why some parents have poor communication with their children and it is useless to prevent their children from moving around. Maybe it’s not that the child can’t sit on the bench or that he has no concentration at all. In fact, it is just that children are not interested and do not have such a strong desire to complete learning and the things in front of them.

However, stickers are different! When children play with stickers, the more they play, the happier they become. The more they play, the more they like to play and enjoy it. Pasting pictures is very suitable for children's thinking characteristics. adopts a "scenario-based" method , allowing children to imagine the pictures themselves, practice solving problems according to the scenes, and finally use both hands and brain to paste a picture.

The lazy dad developed super concentration by playing with his baby, using the method of playing with stickers! This set of "Children's Concentration Training Sticker Book" contains 16 dimensions such as "focus", "mathematical ability", "IQ", "life", etc., and can inspire children's thinking from 16 different aspects. , develop children's brain, encourage children to use their hands and brain to play games, and make them intellectually interesting.

Thousands of exquisite stickers are an eye-opener for children. Even adults can’t help but want to stick them on in one go, let alone children! Children love to play. When they play, they can sit on the bench for longer and pay more attention! Unknowingly, putting on stickers helped my child improve his concentration, which is really great! Interested parents can click on the link below to place an order!