The child is the future and hope of a family, but for Bao Ma, the process is long and difficult. From the morning sickness reaction in the early pregnancy, I don’t know what to eat every day, what to eat and what to vomit. When the baby is stable, the belly grows day by day, I experience backache and leg cramps every day, and I don’t sleep well at night. At the moment of childbirth, it is still To experience the pain of childbirth, go through five stages and cut six generals. I finally got through these ten months. I thought I would have a good night’s sleep after giving birth, and my life would be much better. I don’t know that the painful days are yet to come...
When the baby is just born, Mommy will face multiple difficulties.
Facing a soft baby, I still don’t know how to hold it. Starting from holding the baby, the baby needs to be breast-feeding, not enough milk, and the pain of lactation, sometimes because of breastfeeding problems , There will be all kinds of embarrassment.
In sleep, the biggest expectation is to be able to wake up naturally. The child has to eat night milk from time to time every night. The child urinates and changes the diaper for the child. Sleeping is afraid of scaring the child. Sometimes the child is at night. I can't sleep, nor can I sleep.
Since the mother herself has just given birth to the baby, her body has not fully recovered, she has to endure physical pain every day, and her emotions are particularly unstable. For her mother, she is physically and mentally exhausted.
When the baby enters the third month,
The baby has the fastest growth in height and weight within these three months At this time, Bao Ma had to accept various tests from relatives and friends. The height and weight of the child will also be compared. If the mother does not take good care of her, she will get the most obvious response from the child. In addition to not eating well and sleeping well, you must also accept the test of others. There will be a lot of anxiety, and you will doubt if you are a bad baby.
When the baby is five months old,
The maternity leave of many mothers is basically coming to an end. They have to return to work, and the baby is feeding at this time. That is a problem. Many mothers express their milk before work in order to allow their babies to eat breast milk, and they also express milk when they arrive at the unit, so as to provide their babies with enough milk every day. Even some babies don't like to use feeding bottles, and they have tears every day, and Mommy will feel very depressed when seeing the baby's appearance.
When the baby is six months later,
The baby’s immunity from Bao’s mother has basically been used up. Most babies will have various illnesses starting this month. Facing the sick baby, Bao Ma became at a loss, took the baby in the hospital to queue up for registration, and gave the baby infusion injections and medicine. Nothing went well. The child is suffering and the mother is uncomfortable, and it is better to be sick than to make the child sick.
When the baby is eight months old,
Because of the lack of nutrition in her own milk, mothers start to add complementary food to the baby. Many babies will have a series of problems in the process of receiving complementary food. If the complementary food is not well matched, the baby's gastrointestinal problems are prone to problems, and parents are always watching the baby.
When the baby is one year old, many mothers will wean the baby. Some babies are very difficult to wean, so they would rather not eat milk powder when you are hungry. In order to successfully wean the baby, some mothers choose to leave the baby. Every day, they worry that the baby will be hungry because there is no milk to eat. It is also a torment for the mother.
People often say that it is easy to have a baby and it is difficult to raise a baby. After the baby is born, Bao's mother lives in dire straits every day, worrying that the baby will not eat well and sleep well, and she is not at ease when she gives her baby to others. I take it by myself and I don’t have a good rest. I’m tired every day. I don’t have the right to speak if I haven’t experienced it. If I have experienced it, I’ll only say it harder. But it is true, raising a child is not a simple matter.For children to grow up healthily and happily, parents need to work harder and harder.
