Smelly mother, get out of here! I don't listen, mom is farting! ......
Since entering kindergarten, the child's vocabulary has gradually increased, but before parents are happy for a few days, the problem arises. Sometimes, when guests come to the house, the guests tease the children, and the children open their mouths and scold them, making the guests and adults embarrassed.
Children always have a few swear words from time to time, especially when they do not follow his ideas, which also makes many parents very distressed.
Why do children always speak bad words?
In fact, for children, they don't have a clear concept of right and wrong, and they don't know the meaning of those swear words at all. They just think it's funny because it can attract the attention of people around them.
On the other hand, I learned it from others, and when I heard others say it, I remembered the word. For example, in the words and deeds of meeting new friends, mom and dad, going to school or in the community, in TV shows, etc., his vocabulary gradually expanded, and then in some scenarios, he just learned the vocabulary of the profanity series.
But swearing is a very bad habit, especially for children. How can we help children develop good language habits? May wish to try these 10 small methods compiled by kindergarten teachers to let children get rid of bad language habits.
1. Set an example for children
First, parents must eliminate swear words and civilized language. Often use polite words such as "thank you" and "please" to your children. If you accidentally utter indecent words in front of your children, you must be brave enough to admit your mistakes afterwards and tell your children's parents that it is wrong to say this, and you won't do it again next time.
2. Correct value guidance
Let children correctly understand the "meaning" of swear words.Guide the children with correct values and let them have a sense of distinguishing right from wrong. Swear words are very angry. If you say bad words, it will hurt others. People who hear it will be sad and sad. You can’t just say it. Words for export.
3. Cultivate children's ability to think in different places
After correctly understanding the meaning of swear words, teach children how to think in different places, "Baby, if others say the same to you, will you be sad? Mom makes you Get out, call you a stupid, do you feel uncomfortable? So when you talk to others like this, other children are also sad."
4. Reduce contact with children who are profanity
The process is to constantly imitate and learn. Children will be unconsciously affected by these bad habits and behaviors when they get along with them for a long time.
5. Reduce the impact of daily online film and television
There are many vulgar cartoons appearing on the Internet. If children are not strictly supervised, they are easily affected. Therefore, parents should minimize their children’s online film and television time, and even if they are exposed, they should choose high-quality and high-quality cartoons so that children can learn about the positive side.
6. Accompany your children more
When children are eager to get the attention of their parents and choose to use swear words, parents must take time to accompany their children when they realize this reason. Only when the children feel rich and full inside, they will not Will seek psychological comfort in extreme ways.
7. Establish an appropriate reward and punishment mechanism
can negotiate with the child to formulate the corresponding reward and punishment rules. If the child does not speak bad language, he can get corresponding rewards, such as favorite toys. If the child speaks bad language, the score will be deducted and corresponding punishment will be given, such as not being able to go out to play, reducing the playing time, etc.
8. Teach children to vent their emotions in a reasonable way
If children simply vent because of emotional problems,Then it is time to have an in-depth communication with the child to analyze why the child is irritable and lonely. After figuring out the source of the problem, teach children to vent their emotions in healthier and greener ways, such as drawing, running, singing loudly, etc.
9. Cold processing method
Some children say swear words simply because they think it’s funny and cool, and can cause great reactions from parents. In this case, don't get angry or show unusual anger, otherwise they will find it more fun. You can try to pretend that you didn't hear it, or it's very plain, and slowly, when you find it boring, you won't say anything.
10. Read more picture books
Reading picture books, on the one hand, can increase children's vocabulary and improve language skills, and on the other hand, teach children how to correctly express their emotions and thoughts when they are angry. It's not just swearing that can express one's anger. Recommended picture books, such as "Angry Soup", "Feifei is Angry", "Please Don't Be Angry" and other picture books.
Early childhood is the initial stage of life, but also the development stage of various behavior habits. In this period, cultivating and nurturing children's good behaviors will have an important impact on the development of children throughout their lives.
So parents should be civilized and polite, especially in front of their children, and give them a good example.
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