In our lives, many people are used to labeling themselves, are you? For example: When we have some ambitions, we habitually remind ourselves: "I think the land is too naive. I only have a small pot and can't cook big fish." Because of our ordinary background, we dare not dream of extraordinary achievements; because of our lack of education, we dare not set great ambitions; because of our inferiority and conservativeness, we are unwilling to open our hearts to receive better and newer information... All of these things, we draw the land as a prison and stand on our own, which not only dampens our enthusiasm, but also limits our development.
Those who cannot stretch their life chapters and cannot achieve great achievements are mostly people without a big picture.
The same banyan tree seeds, planted in a small pot, can only grow to half a meter high at most; when placed in a large pot, it will grow to more than one meter high; when placed in nature, it can grow to more than five meters. After understanding these, why don’t we relax our pattern a little and expand it a little deeper so that our ideal seeds can grow into towering trees!
If we want to open up our lives, we need to break the old pattern that imprisons ourselves. Only in this way can we create a greater space for development.
To create a new pattern, we need to cultivate the following key factors:
【1】Ambition should be high and lofty
There is a saying that says: "Take the top and get the middle and get the bottom." That is to say, if the goal is set very high and the top, you will often get the bottom; but when you set the goal very average and easy to complete, you can only get the bottom. Therefore, we might as well set our goals higher, because the power generated by our vision will make it easier for people to no longer be obsessed with their beds when they wake up every morning, but to face new challenges with full confidence and motivation.
【2】Mentality determines destiny
Mindality determines the success or failure of your career. In this chess game in life, mentality will determine the state of your chess game in life, so a good attitude can achieve a good pattern.
【3】Life should be free to advance and retreat.
A real man should be able to bend and stretch. Being bent when you are bent is a kind of wisdom in life; extending when you are stretched is also a kind of wisdom in life. Bend is to hide oneself, to preserve one's strength, to temporarily underestimate one's life; and stretching is to carry forward one's own strength, to magnify one's strength, to climb to the peak of life. Only a life that can bend and stretch can be a perfect and rich life.
【4】Tolerance and open-mindedness, be kind and kind to carry things
A big belly can tolerate things that are difficult to tolerate in the world; a kind face always smiles, laughs at ridiculous people in the world. Guanzi said: "The sea does not refuse water, so it can become its soil; the mountain does not refuse earth and stone, so it can become its height; the wise ruler does not get tired of people, so it can become its many people." All successful people have a broad mind. Throughout history, many facts have also proved a truth: Only tolerance can achieve greatness.
【5】Focus on the big picture, do not be greedy for temporary benefits
Money and wealth, fame and fortune are all things outside of your body, and you will not bring them in life or death. If you are greedy too much, you will only lose more. Only by stopping at the right time can you be content and be happy!
【6】Put it to death and then live
Put it to death and then live is a kind of courage, a kind of momentum, and a kind of courage. Only by breaking your heart and living in a desperate situation can such a life be considered extremely exciting!
The essence of pattern leading the way. It is a decisive battle strategy for winning thousands of miles. We cannot lament that we are not lucky enough to waste our lives. Why not raise our unyielding heads, break the old pattern, and fight hard?
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