Text/An Dongyue
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Did you think that more and more friends are better, the wider the connections are, the better, and the bigger the circle is, the better?
In order to make more friends, he always maintains enthusiasm and gentleness; in order to expand his connections, he added many unfamiliar friends and joined many unpractical groups; in order to make his circle bigger, he often participated in some social activities.
In short, I hope I will know each other all over the world, have friends everywhere, have ways and have relationships. It seems that only in this way can it be really powerful and successful.
Later, you met some people, experienced some things, and many of your original ideas changed dramatically. You no longer force anyone to stay, nor force any relationship, and you can avoid useless social interaction. Why is this happening with
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Because you find that no matter how many friends you have, if you don’t know, you are just a general friend.
No matter how wide a connection is, it is just an exchange of interests. Once you lose your value, you will be nothing.
No matter how big the circle is and how many social activities are, it is just a group of lonely people who find reasons to gather together to eat, drink and have fun.
You are tired and see through it, so you are no longer obsessed with it. You just want to live the way you like and date the people you like. That's all.
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people are born lonely and long to meet love and understand.
However, love and understanding are extremely precious things in the world. They cannot be met by wanting or possessing. They must be truly destined to meet and know each other in the vast sea of people.
When you meet true love and true understanding, you will feel that all the encounters in the past are passing clouds and smoke. Although you will not forget them, they will no longer touch your heartstrings and affect your emotions.
And all your time and energy will only give to the person who truly loves you and understands you.
Any relationship can only last forever by treating each other and being in love with each other.
Feeling with each other is an attitude, and being in love with one's heart is an opportunity. Attitude can be changed with subjective consciousness, but opportunities can be encountered but hard to find. You can never control yourself. You can only meet the circumstances and be at peace with the circumstances.
After half of his life, I feel more and more that whether it is friendship or love, the simpler the better, the purer the better. Don’t bend around, don’t be tied up with interests, just because the two hearts know each other and understand each other and accompany each other.
Only such feelings, and such relationships are the most comfortable and heartwarming.
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Regarding friendship, I like this sentence: "Three thousand friends are worse than one confidant."
Regarding love, I like this sentence: "It is better to be one person understand it than to be favored by thousands of people."
The core view of these two sentences is actually the same, both of which are about the importance and preciousness of "understanding". Meeting is a lucky life, and having is a lifetime of happiness.
Friends who understand each other can be close friends for life, be close friends and treat each other sincerely.
A lover who understands each other can become a true soul mate, stay together in life, and know each other in souls.
Some people are very greedy and hope that everyone can understand themselves and understand themselves. When they are sad and fragile, there will be a group of people to care, comfort and company. However, this is impossible.
Cao Xueqin had long said in " Dream of Red Mansions ": "It is easy to get ten thousand taels of gold, but it is hard to find a single intimate."
In this world, people who really care about you can count with ten fingers. And if someone who truly understands you has one, it is already a practice in his previous life.
A person who truly understands you is enough, don’t be greedy. You should know that many people have never met and understood in their entire lives.
If you meet it, it is God’s favor for you. You must cherish it carefully and never lose the person who understands you.
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Author: An Dongyue, a freelance writer, writes heartfelt words with warm strokes, and I wish to meet you in the deepest world. Welcome to follow.
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