01. Time flies, and people reach middle age.
No matter what a person experiences when he is young, when he reaches middle age, he will laugh at his childishness and innocence when he looks back on the past. People often realize on the way forward that many decisions in the past were impulsive. If he is given another chance, there may be new changes.
However, where does life come from?
When people reach middle age, they accumulate certain experience and know that the best way of life is to stop losses in time.
often, losses are inevitable, gains and losses are inevitable. This is the principle of the balance of destiny. However, when you are losing money, you must know how to find ways to prevent too much loss.
When a middle-aged person weighs the pros and cons and knows how to stop losses in time, he will understand life.
02. Timely stop loss is not to escape or be afraid of difficulties, but a clever way to deal with difficulties.
What's more, when people reach middle age, they lack time and energy, and often they can't afford to lose. Timely stop loss is the best way to deal with many problems.
Most people will face economic crisis in middle age, because with the increase in costs of parents, children, families, etc.;
On the other hand, they will lose more.
As a middle-aged person, you should know how to manage your finances. The importance of financial management lies in spending money on essentials. Invest in some cost-effective places to reduce waste in some useless places.
After reaching middle age, people began to learn financial management and gave up the habit of being big-handed when they were young. I found that the money I used to spend every year has now gone to useful places. For example, buying books, buying funds, signing up for tutoring classes for children, etc.
When people reach middle age, it is important to know how to manage finances, which is also a sign of stopping losses in time. Economic losses are actually a big loss faced by the midlife crisis.
If you know how to allocate reasonably, you can reduce unnecessary losses.
3. For middle-aged people, there are many types of losses they face.
Take unnecessary feelings as an example. The more feelings middle-aged people give, the more they lose.
People have three kinds of feelings: friendship, love, and family.
Middle-aged people always focus on family, followed by love and friendship. Loyalty to your wife and dedication to your parents are enough.
However, there are always some unnecessary feelings in life.
Not long ago, I saw a joke online that a middle-aged man met a friendly opposite sex after getting married. She is decent and generous, completely different from her wife who is busy with housework at home.
The more he pays attention, the deeper he understands. The man even thought about divorcing his wife to pursue this woman. However, once he came home from get off work and it was raining. He went downstairs to the company without a car.
Far from a distance, he saw his wife running over to pick him up with an umbrella. At that moment, he realized how naive he was.
In fact, there is no need to see the opposite sex after marriage. The more you give, the more you lose. It is normal to be moved, but what you choose to do depends on the wisdom of the person.
A mature middle-aged man knows how to cherish the present, face unnecessary feelings, and knows how to stop losses in time.
04. Ultimately, stopping losses in time is a way of life.
People who know how to stop losses in time know how to accumulate little and become more. Every time you face a problem, don’t make decisions easily and think more, and you may turn losses into profits.
TV series " Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law ", when the woman is newly married, the mother-in-law asks to live together.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a bad temper and are always prone to quarrels. It is really difficult for her husband to be a human being when she is caught in it. However, women can't think about it, and they feel that they are so stiff with their mother-in-law.
Once, my husband went out to work, and the woman took the initiative to clean up the house and then made a table of dishes that my mother-in-law liked. In the evening, while the family was having supper, the woman took out a specially prepared scarf and gave it to her mother-in-law. My mother-in-law was coaxed to her happiness, and many conflicts were resolved.
In fact, this woman just knows how to stop loss in time. She knew that if she continued to live with her mother-in-law, it would definitely cause great harm to the relationship between the couple. Instead, focus on solving problems and stop losses in time to achieve good luck.
Middle-aged people often don’t have to care about coming and going, they can take a step back. After all, at this age, I have looked down on it much.
Middle-aged people know how to stop losses in time for unnecessary contradictions and slowly resolve misunderstandings.
In fact, in psychology, " crocodile law ".
means that when a person is bitten by a crocodile, he must give up his arm decisively so that he can save his life.
Many times, middle-aged people still have to know the "Crocodile Law".
You can't have everything, everything goes well. When you want something, you have to pay accordingly. This is the same reason for stopping losses in time.
If you lose, you don’t care. You would rather go all the way than reflect on yourself. In this way, more and more land will be lost in the end.
In short, mature people know how to make decisive judgments and stop losses in time, which is also the best way for middle-aged people to live. 
