People often say that the best way to forget someone is to give yourself enough time.
Three months, half a year, one year, two years, when the time is long enough, all memories will naturally be diluted, and you will naturally be able to be freed from the past, no longer think about the other person, and no longer be affected by the past.
sounds like this, it seems quite reasonable. As time goes by, many important things will indeed begin to become less important, and more things that you care about will indeed begin to become indifferent.
However, there are always some people and things that will not be affected by time.
In the flowing time, it never really becomes blurred and always so clear.
This is why some people just love each other for a short time, and then spend their entire lives, but never really come out.
Yes, time, there is no way to make us really forget someone.
just get used to it, and there is no other person's life.
people often have strong adaptability.
When we first lost a person, we suddenly changed from two people back to one person. We can no longer see each other often as before. No matter what we do, we have the other person to accompany us. We are really uncomfortable and feel empty.
Whenever a person does something, he misses the days he has been by his side and experienced with him.
will be for a while, and we can't even react, not knowing how we should bear all this, but when we start eating alone, walking alone, watching movies alone, slowly, we will adapt.
There is no other person around, and there is no other person facing things with me. After the initial chaos, I began to become orderly. Even if I am the only one, I can still live a good life.
So, we silently changed our words and deeds and changed our lifestyle.
As we become more and more accustomed to this, although we have no other party in the current days, we no longer feel that there are some shortcomings and there are any bad things. We even often have a feeling that from the beginning, this is actually what happened.
, like us, occasionally when we think of the past years, we will say to that person in our hearts that without this company, our lives will continue well and we will still live well.
silently keeps it in your heart and will always remember it.
We are used to not having each other, so we can take good care of ourselves.
However, behind the surface calmness, we actually know that although we rarely mention those pasts and those persons again, that name is always our taboo and always exists in our hearts and minds.
There is no day at all. We really forgot each other. When we are busy on weekdays, we occasionally think of it. When we are not busy, when we see people and things related to each other, our thoughts will come to our face and instantly break the dam. After
is separated, when I remain single, I will always miss you very much and always recall every bit of the past. Even if there are people around me one day, I may not be able to be wholeheartedly devoted. Maybe I will still leave a place for the other party in my heart.
always think of the other person's goodness and the other person's badness. Whenever I think of it, I always feel very regretful.
often thinks that if I were not so impulsive at the beginning and were braver, would it be like this for each other? I will still be together now and live a happier life.
The person is an existence that no one can replace after all, and everything he brings to us is so indelible.
may miss you for a few years, and may really miss you for a lifetime and coexist with your later years.
Only when I let go of myself can I really forget it.
People who really like it will be hard to forget, but it does not mean that there is no way.
The key is not time or new love, but yourself. You must be able to think openly and be willing to let go.
If you are unwilling to do so, you can't accept reality, feel unwilling to accept it, always think that each other will have a future, and you always have obsession with that person, then no matter how long it has been, you will still be obsessed with it.
Only after separation, no matter what you have experienced or who mentioned the breakup, can you accept the fact of separation calmly and put an end to the past, without regret or complaining, not always looking back, forgetting is possible.
can't forget it. Many times it's not because of how good that person is, it's really better than everyone. But it's just that I beautify the other person, I have a knot in my heart, and I don't know how to look forward.
A person's behavior is often dominated by thoughts. As long as you are sober and rational enough, able to live in the present and not remember the past, there is really no one, you cannot forget, and nothing can stop you from moving forward.
can figure this out and do this, then it will be really easy to forget someone.
When you have thoughts, even if you are far apart, you are only close to you in your heart. When you are dead, even if you are close to you, you can still be like a stranger and will no longer be disturbed or affected.
Forgot someone, the key is not the length of time.
Some people can forget it in a few days, while others can’t forget it in their lifetime.
Instead of entrusting hope to time, it is better to leave your forgetting to yourself.
Let yourself understand that since the other party will leave, it means that each other is not that suitable. The other party is not the right person. Since the other party is not that person, don’t keep thinking about it, thinking about it, and being reluctant to let it go.
lets the other party go, lets you go.
Let the other party love the person they want to love, go where they want to go, and live the life they want to live.
We must also be more successful. In the days ahead, if there is no other person, we should still love and make ourselves happy.
text/Tan Meng
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