In the long journey of life, people will always encounter all kinds of trivial matters. At this time, you might as well face it in a confused manner, pretend to be ignorant, or make some ambiguous attitudes, time will resolve everything. This kind of "turn a blind eye and keep one eye closed" attitude towards life is the highest state of life. In life, it is not difficult to turn a blind eye. The key is how to apply this to every detail in life. This is a science and an art!
Breaking a single eye, close one - living a life freely and freely; turning a single eye, close one - harmonious and tolerant love; turning a single eye, close one - traveling around the workplace with all your strengths; turning a single eye, close one - doing things in a good way. People who can do this can live the ultimate life by ignoring the beauty of the world with their open eyes and erasing the helplessness of the world with their closed eyes. The ancients said: "Water is as clear as it is, there is no fish; if people are as careful as it is, there is no disciple." The truth contained in this is exactly the truth that people need to deal with people. We know that dealing with people is a science and an art, and “turning a blind eye” when dealing with people is a new philosophy of life.
In real society, if a person pays too much attention to principles, he will inevitably encounter difficulties, which are unwilling to others around him, and even hate them, and feels that it is difficult to deal with people. This requires people not to be too serious in life or in dealing with the world, and not to let "rare confusion" break through our own moral bottom line, turn a blind eye to everything, but be too smart, which is the best solution for people to deal with the world. The philosophy of life and life "turn a blind eye to one eye" is the truth that predecessors experience and summarize. When "turning a blind eye, closing one" means you have to learn to "leave it". In this way, "confused" is no longer stupid, but a kind of open-mindedness, a kind of elegance of "taking a step back and broadening the sky".
As the saying goes, "Man is not as good as God is in the calculation." So many times, we might as well turn a blind eye to be a human being. It is really not easy to be confused. This not only requires us to have a certain degree of cultivation, but also requires a certain degree of elegance. When your subordinates make mistakes, you must learn to turn a blind eye. Your subordinates will be grateful for your "tolerance" and work for you with all their might; when your boss makes mistakes, you must learn to turn a blind eye, so that your boss will protect you for yourself and bring the relationship between superiors and subordinates closer; people in marriage must also learn to turn a blind eye, so that your marriage will be flawless, as strong as a city wall and will never collapse... Everything, as long as you carefully observe people, will have flaws. What should I do if there are any flaws? Do you pursue them one by one and deal with them? If this happens, it will only add unnecessary troubles to yourself. In fact, looking at it from a different perspective, you will find that everything has its own good side.
When dealing with people, you are confused about small things and smart about big things. You should not be too serious about small things, just turn a blind eye to one eye. This does not mean that we can follow the trend and not be principled, but that we should not be too concerned about small matters that have nothing to do with the overall situation. In this ever-changing world, we need to accept the ugliness and beauty of the world with an open mind, and we also need to have a broad mind. Look at everyone, don’t reveal their secrets, keep them self-esteem and benevolence for yourself. It is better not to be too smart. Smart people will make the other person more attentive in the eyes of others and observe everything about you specifically, and you are always at the perspective of being observed. Sometimes it is best to pretend to be a little confused, so that we can see more clearly and understand more clearly, and it is easier to cherish the current time. It is the most important to grasp the present, because life is composed of each present!
The same is true for emotional problems in life. Whether it is family, friendship or love, we can turn a blind eye, feel the warmth of the world with our open eyes, and brew deeper emotions with our closed eyes.Turning a blind eye can keep each other’s original feelings without being easily hurt. Sometimes one party may deceive you with a kind lie, but in the end you will definitely know its true side. Don’t expose him (her) directly at this time, because if the other party is not considering you, why do you need to deceive you? So he (she) still cares about you. The smartest way you do is to pretend not to know. Even if the other party knows that you already understand, it will bring you closer to you because he knows that you are also considering him. Driven by a tolerant heart, we will not break the mysterious veil, but we will live every day with a warm smile and treat our tomorrow with a new look!
Everything in the world has its dark side, and as long as you deal with it calmly with a normal heart and close one eye, you will see a different world. To expel the turbid and promote the good, tolerate things that can be tolerated. To understand small things, to be confused and big things, is not self-deception or self-ansthesia, but intentional things that can be tolerated; there are countless intersections on the road of life, but there are differences in the size and importance. For some small things, don’t be petty. Be confused when you should be confused. Don’t always worry about your face, knowledge, status, and power. Be confused. Of course, be smart when you should be smart. If you turn from smart to confused, you must be able to get along with others, not be trapped by worries, and not be burdened by small things. Only in this way can you have happiness and happiness, and a successful life.
A wise person is "fool" but has a broad mind, has a different style of dealing with things, and is not plagued by small things; a wise person is "fool" but has a good self-control, can control his emotions well and release his feelings; a wise person is "fool" but has a cautious approach to doing things, considering the overall situation. So, stupid cleverness is a real stupidity, and smart stupidity is precisely a real smartness. In life, a truly smart person will never be smart and make big statements when encountering anything. On the contrary, they always act like they don’t know anything or know nothing, and dodge and pretend to be confused. In fact, such people often know that they use the method of "pretending to be crazy and stupid" to achieve unique ideas and win by surprise. Those who do not know how to pretend to be confused, do not know how to hide their strengths and keep their cleverness, often end up being difficult to achieve great things because of their sharpness and ignorance, and even cause trouble.
There is a kind of wine in life called " Xiaohutu Xianjiu ", and the name of the wine is rich in philosophy and auspicious. " Xiaohutu Xian " means that people should learn to be tolerant and humble, and understand small things and big things, so that they can enter a fairyland of life with many good fates and good luck in everything. There are too many things in life that contain this meaning. As long as you discover and feel it with your heart, you will understand the truth. And "small things are confused" is definitely not a mess in everything and everywhere. If you are indiscriminate and do not pay attention to principles in the face of major issues, you will really become a confused person. In short, in life, understanding big things and being confused about small things can help you keep your mind calm and happy.
Whether in life or work, you might as well understand small things and big things. In this way, you will not delay big things, but will also show your broad mind. At the same time, showing your foolishness and wisdom is also a perfect solution to protect yourself. Since there is no absolute fairness in the world and in the universe, life should not be timid and demand absolute because of trivial matters. Care often complicates, contradicts, or even struggles, and most unpleasant things are born from being petty. Take control of the big aspects of everything, and grasp the small aspects of it is good and big. This should become the basic principle of dealing with people and things.
There are many unfairness in life. If you take everything seriously and carefully study it, it will definitely bring you endless pain. Therefore, people should sometimes be generous, relax, accept lack of acceptance, and not be petty about small things. In this way, happiness will accompany you throughout your life. Gains and losses are just a matter of thought.In life, it is not uncommon for people to be petty. They have to calculate how much money they spend when they buy things. When they interact with others, they care whether they suffer losses or are deceived. Once someone offends them, they will never swallow their anger and must argue with the right and wrong. In fact, there is no real definition of gain or loss. There are gains and losses, and there are gains and losses. It depends on how you look at it.
If you pick up a wallet on the road with a considerable amount of money in it, you may feel that you have gained something. However, from another perspective, what you have lost is much more than what you have gained, that is the virtue of being a human being. For example, in the emotional world, if you break up with your friends, you have indeed lost a relationship on the surface, but if you care about what you have lost, you will always live in the shadow of pain. I wonder if you have ever thought that you will gain something. From being cared for by someone to being cared for by the public, isn’t this a reward? Therefore, gains and losses are inseparable, and it depends on what kind of mentality you use to understand it. Gains and losses are common in life. If you care about what you have lost, then you will lose more.
As a person, you should be generous. It is really boring to be petty in everything. It will only bring trouble to yourself. Beautiful things are not beautiful, and good things are not good. He is calculating in everything, nitpicking, and makes people angry. Over time, friends will stay away from him and relatives will leave him behind. No relatives, no friends, no interest, and being petty is the root of disaster. Being good things are not good or not, and being the most annoying thing is the most annoying thing. Why do you want to make people annoyed when you are in the world? Life should be interesting and interesting; relatives should be close to each other and friends should respect them; they should be generous and not care about everything. If you are petty about your gains and losses, you will seem too arrogant. Because of this, no one likes to deal with you anymore. In daily life, there are inevitably some things that will not go as you wish. This requires a generous and generous demeanor, not being petty, and being able to tolerate others' mistakes. This is the way to be a human being.
Society is composed of people, and everyone is not a sage, so they will make mistakes. Someone once said:
"A person has not made any mistakes, then this is his biggest mistake." Because people who do not make any mistakes must not try. So don’t be afraid to make mistakes, and don’t blame others for making mistakes. If you have any mistakes, you are good at summarizing them. This is progress. Your friends, your relatives, your colleagues, your leaders... Everyone will make mistakes. If you criticize them one by one, then you will be regarded as a chick. There are times when people make mistakes. When they are picking up others' mistakes and being proud of them, the days when they are criticized by others will definitely not be too far away. Tolerate others today, you will be taken care of by others in the future. This is the philosophy of life. Any setbacks will disappear in front of a broad-minded person.
Whether it is life or work, you should not be too serious. At work, do you always like to distinguish things clearly? Whose job is this? Whose job is it? Always helping others with their work, and you always feel that you are at a disadvantage. In fact, some things are just a simple task. Do more yourself, and others may thank you. The most important thing is not to care about everything, otherwise your interpersonal relationships will only get worse and worse. In fact, everything is like this.
On the road of life, be open-minded and not petty. Any calculating is not advisable. The world is so big, if you want to grasp the big trends and focus on the details, you will lose the whole, so don’t be too stingy, learn to take the overall situation into consideration
