has no problem with material downward compatibility, but you must be cautious in spirit. People without spirit and energy, people with dullness, people with procrastination, people with principles and bottom lines, and people with no pursuits, spending more than a minute with them is a waste. After getting along with these people, you will find that there is nothing to gain except regret. In order to prove that they are not stupid, many people are reluctant to stop losing money and fantasize about digging out gold in the garbage dump. Never do this. When you meet these people, stopping losses in time is the wisest way, and try to achieve physical insulation.
Good fruits and rotten fruits will rot in a few days; the same is true for people. If you are with rotten people, you will rot sooner or later; if you are with excellent people, you will become better and better. What is a bad person? People who are not enterprising, those who eat, drink and have fun every day, those who like to take advantage of opportunities, those who have no legal awareness, those who are not trustworthy, those who have no principles or bottom line, those who like to complain, those who are narrow-minded, those who are unfilial to their parents, those who are involved in gambling or drugs, and those who are emotionally unstable are all bad people. What is an excellent person? People with self-discipline, people with clear life ideals, people with strong ambitions, people with trustworthiness, people who stick to principles and bottom lines, people with love in their hearts, people who like to give willingly, and people who focus on doing their own careers are all excellent people.
The person with strong heart is truly powerful. People with strong hearts all have three characteristics:
1, not compare with others ;
2, not expecting others;
3, not criticizing others.
As long as you pay attention to these three points, you can slowly cultivate your mind, maintain inner peace, focus all your attention on yourself, don’t pay attention to others, but only care about your own growth.
, but people who are fragile in their hearts like to compare with others in everything, and their happiness can only be generated in comparison. They like to have expectations for others, and they will complain or resent when others fail to meet their expectations. They like to criticize others to elevate themselves because they care too much about other people's opinions, so they are easily influenced by others.
When you see others buying a house, you will be mentally unbalanced, when you see others buying a house, you will be mentally unbalanced, when you see others driving a luxury car, you will be mentally unbalanced, and when you see others buying something, you will be mentally unbalanced. When you see others buying something, you will want to buy it. These are all manifestations of comparing with others. We should not compare with others. First, there are always people in people, and there is no end to compare with others. Second, what others have may not be suitable for us. We should find our own goals, pursue our ideal life, and compare with our own and . Only in this way can we find happiness.
Always want to be rewarded for other people's efforts. Other people's promises always count on the other party to fulfill. We always like to think that others should treat ourselves. If we don't do it, we will be sorry for ourselves and complain and resentment. In fact, the idea of expecting others is wrong. We can’t do many things ourselves, let alone others? We cannot keep every promise ourselves, let alone others? We can't satisfy ourselves, let alone others? There will be disappointment when there are expectations. It is human nature to help others, and it is duty not to help yourself. You must always have no expectations for anyone or anything, so that you can maintain a calm mind and stable mood. We give to any person’s work because we are willing to give, rather than expecting rewards, so that we can always maintain a peaceful mind when doing things.
Everyone is independent and no one owe anyone. Don’t have expectations for anyone, and don’t make promises to anyone easily. Any promise is a mountain.
Learn not to criticize others. Criticizing others is not good for others, nor is it good for yourself. While criticizing others, it also lowers one's own personality. We must learn to tell the truth in person and speak good things behind our backs.
