Writer Liang Xiaosheng said: "Education is cultivation rooted in the heart; self-consciousness without reminders; freedom based on constraints; kindness for others."
Whether a person has education does not depend on his appearance, wealth, and status, but on his attitude towards material things, his attitude towards people and things, and his words and deeds towards others. The best education for a person is to have a minimalist material, a peaceful mindset, and a restrained word and deed.
Simple material and abundant spirituality. Xunzi said: "A gentleman is dependent on things, while a villain is dependent on things. The richness of material does not necessarily bring happiness in life. If you have too much and indulge in desires, you will easily become a slave to material.
Life is really not easy, with ups and downs, countless ups and downs, and the ups and downs are the whole of life.
There are so many hardships, nowhere to talk about, many difficulties, no one helps, suffering, tired, painful, wronged, and self-holding, you cannot retreat, you cannot let go, you cannot fall down, the life you want, the happiness of the future, you must pursue it with your own efforts.
The same life, the same wind Scenery; the same experience, different difficulties, no matter how hard, no matter how hard, or hard it is, you must shoulder your own responsibilities and insist on walking the path under your feet step by step.
No matter how difficult the road ahead is, don’t learn ignorance, don’t take the wrong path, so as to avoid making mistakes and making mistakes step by step. As a person, you must learn to reconcile with yourself, no matter how hard you are, no matter how hard you are, you must learn to reconcile with yourself. Because sorrow is a day, and happiness is also a day. It is better to put aside sorrow and let yourself live happily every day of your own.
Life is really short, don’t put some bad things, broken things in your heart. Some things should be let go; some people should be forgotten. What you can't forget should be put aside, don't worry about the past, don't worry about the future, learn to save yourself, so that you won't be influenced by emotions.
The road of life has too many ups and downs, and too many difficulties. The ups and downs and sorrows are the best understanding of it.
The road of life, the bitterness and joy of life, don't give up your ideals and future for some setbacks. All success is not easy. Most successes are soaked in tears and sweat. Just as people say, you can only see the real rainbow after storms.
As a person, you must know how to save yourself, no matter where the road under your feet leads, you must Use a good attitude to walk on the road under your feet.
The road of life, no one's road will lead straight ahead. There are always winding paths, muddy ditches that are difficult to pass, endless difficulties and sufferings, endless helplessness and bitterness.
People must learn to save themselves in order to look forward. Dawn is right in front of them, and happiness is calling to themselves. Remember, no matter how difficult the road under your feet is, you must persist. Only after experiencing wind, frost, snow and rain can you live a rainbow of life. People must save themselves, be calm, and everything goes well.
"People of Planting Rice" writes: "Plant green rice seedlings all over the fields, and lower their heads to see the sky in the water. Only when the six senses are pure is the way, and regression is actually moving forward. "
A truly smart person does not have the upper hand everywhere, but knows the wisdom of retreating to advance when getting along with others. He will not focus on the current gains and losses, let himself calm down and see the current troubles with a broad mind, so that he can finally gain something and gain something.
The strong ones show weakness and retreat to advance. There is a saying in " Caigen Tan ": "Hide cleverness in clumsiness, use obscurity to be clear, emptiness in turbidity, and use bending to be stretched. "The more you have no strength or real talent, the more you like to show off your strength, show yourself high-profile everywhere and show yourself a sense of superiority. However, the more you are, the more likely you are to show yourself timidity, show yourself shallowly, and cause trouble.
For a truly smart person, even if you overwhelm the heroes, you will not be complacent, but hide your sharpness and move forward in a low-key manner. This is a way to protect yourself and it is also the best strategy to let yourself go further and longer.
The strong ones show weakness are not to retreat step by step or be cowardly everywhere, but there is no need to show your own excellence everywhere when interacting with others, but to hide or attack selectively.
The stronger a person is, the less he will prove to others how strong he is. Instead, he will show weakness to people who are not suitable and have different behaviors. The evaluation of these people will not erase everything about them, but will make them less trouble, and let them use more energy to do what they want to do and make friends with the people they like.
People with big patterns will lower their posture. Too often, we cannot see ourselves clearly. In fact, it is because we overestimate ourselves, making it difficult for us to see the present clearly for a while. Even if we encounter real problems, we will miss opportunities due to misjudgment, and it will get worse and worse.
On the contrary, the bigger a person's pattern, the more he understands the truth that "there are mountains outside the mountains and the sky outside the sky". He will never regard himself as noble, nor will he think that he is extremely smart and others are worthless. Instead, he treats others humbly and restrains himself, and interacts with others in a low manner, which will win the trust of others. The wheat is ripe and the ears are hung, and the person is ripe and bows his head.
The more a person has a big picture, the more he will not show his own advantages at will, but will not lower his posture like a mountain without showing off. If he truly understands each other, he will take targeted countermeasures. This is the preparation method of experts and a safe way to deal with it.
This way, you will not let yourself be too passive and at a loss, nor will you fail because you are too reckless. The more a person has a big picture, the more he will show himself in a low manner. This is due to inner humility and the best manifestation of a person's top cultivation.
A truly outstanding person is not to show off. I discovered an interesting phenomenon in reality. The more people show off their high profile, the less they have real talents and knowledge.
On the contrary, those who are really talented and talented are deliberately low-key and never show off to prove themselves to others. Instead, they are not showing off and will not easily see.
However, if it is at a critical moment or when it needs to be displayed, it will often be absolutely not ambiguous and will never be dragged on. For a truly excellent person, having more abilities is not to give others a sense of existence, but to make yourself better and better.
has no need to prove his sense of superiority to anyone. Su Shi "Jia Yi On " has a saying: "A gentleman takes far away and will have something to wait; what he takes is big, he will have to endure something.
A truly excellent person is well aware of this and will show himself low-key no matter whenever he is. In outsiders, he may be the weak side. Only he knows that this is waiting for the opportunity, and there is no need to sensationalize the outside world.
When he has a goal in his heart, he will not let go with great fanfare.
When he has a goal in his heart, he will not give in with great fanfare. Everyone knows that, instead conquers the city and moves forward bravely. The water is deep and the person is stable and does not speak.
When a person becomes more and more mature, he will often be calm and sees the situation clearly. He will never talk around and create momentum. Instead, he slowly transforms in a calm and low-key manner, making himself better and better.
A truly smart person knows how to show weakness. It seems to be retreating, but in fact it is advancement. This is a kind of wisdom in life, and it is also a life that everyone must slowly learn. Big truth.
People often say that a person’s life is to walk a very long road alone. But this road of life is not a straight line to the end, and it is often twists and turns along the way.
If you don’t know how to turn at the right time, you will easily go into a dead end and find it difficult to continue. Only by knowing how to turn can you avoid all obstacles on the road and always lead to your life goals.
Everyone yearns for their own life to be on the road , smooth sailing. But life always has too many unsatisfactory things that hinder us from moving forward. When facing the unsatisfactory things in life, some people will become obsessed with it and will not hit the wall or turn back.
But I don’t know that being too deeply obsessed will not only not solve the problem, but will also cause obstacles to the road. Learn to give up unnecessary persistence and reasonably adjust the direction of your progress, so that you can easily move to the next journey.
Life is long and the road is long. In our lives, there are always many unsatisfactory things.We will encounter helpless things that cannot be loved, and we will also encounter resentful love, hate, and love. Everyone has to go through difficult times and everyone has to face the baptism of difficulties.
"In life, you must learn to turn things around! When we encounter difficulties and difficulties, avoiding and unable to solve problems, and head-on encounters will lead to bloodshed! We must know how to be flexible and flexible and find a new way out."
Success and failure are the most common things in life. Everyone will have both success and failure. When success, don’t be complacent; when failure, don’t give up.
When we encounter unsuccessful life, don’t succumb to difficulties easily, but cheer up and face challenges. Only by struggling bravely can we create our own glory.
Nothing is difficult in the world, I am afraid of those who are interested. It is not scary to encounter difficulties, what is scary is that you do not have the courage to overcome them. In life, if you only complain about the injustice of fate, then you will never be able to get out of the quagmire of failure.
"A truly smart person will know how to change his or her thinking and turn a corner when the road ahead is not clear! Constantly adjust the direction and constantly look for opportunities to make his or her life more flexible and flexible."
Many people will lose a lot of opportunities because of their persistence. There is no need to fight to the end if you cannot do things; there is no need to force yourself if you do not have the ability to obtain things. Too much trouble will only disturb your heart.
Nothing is absolute in life. The same goes for us, there is no regulation on which ferry we must go to. When it goes well, insist on striving; when it goes well, you must know how to turn. Giving yourself one more choice will make your life more exciting.
The road ahead is blocked, so I will turn a corner by myself. In life, no one can guarantee that he can always walk on the right path, and no one can guarantee that he can never encounter difficulties. When you take the wrong path and enter the wrong direction, you must know how to turn your own way!
has entered the wrong path. If you don’t turn the corner in time, you will keep making mistakes. Many people, because they are afraid of losing face, have to keep going even if they are bleeding. As a result, they lose themselves and make themselves covered in bruises.
"Knowing to give up is a kind of wisdom in life. When we find that we have made a wrong choice, don't escape our mistakes, and don't blindly persist. Instead, we should correct it in time and give up in time, so that we can stop the loss."
Give up in time is not because we are cowardly or surrender to life, but because we are a wise choice. Only by decisively giving up the wrong path and bravely turning the corners for your own direction can you avoid wasting your time and energy. When you encounter obstacles in life, knowing how to turn is a kind of intelligence. Even if some people laugh at me, even if some people look down on me, we should not belittle ourselves and just walk our own path bravely.
I feel unhappy and take things lightly in the world. In the adult world, there is almost no word "easy". Everyone has to accept all kinds of emotions of joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness for their own life.
Some of your unhappiness comes from work pressure, some come from trivial matters in life, and some come from responsibilities in family. When all the worries are rushing, you are really easy to collapse.
"Although I feel very unhappy, I dare not talk to others easily. Because human emotions are not connected, and there is no real empathy in life. If others have not experienced our suffering, they cannot truly understand us."
Many times, we all need to heal ourselves, and we all need to change our mentality. Only a positive attitude can help us overcome difficulties; only a firm confidence can help us stop internal friction.
There are many things that are not satisfactory in life. We cannot prevent certain things from happening, nor can we change the established facts. Since this is the case, we must learn to take everything lightly. Only by letting go of the entanglements in our hearts can we live a more relaxed and comfortable life.
Life is so hard and tiring, so don’t be too persistent. The reason why our hearts feel tired is because we are thinking too much.If you want to manage too many things and want to get along with too many people, your energy will be consumed all the time and you will not have a break.
"Everything in this world is fixed. No matter how successful we achieve, no matter what failure we encounter, we have already made arrangements in the dark."
We cannot solve many things perfectly, so don't force ourselves; we cannot get many things smoothly, so we must take them lightly.
Terrible and tired are the norm in life; gains and losses are all destined to be destined. In any case, we must face life with a smile and understand that making happiness in suffering is a smart way of life.
How hard and tiring life is, don’t be too persistent. Let go of the obsession in your heart, put aside the constraints in your heart, turn a corner for yourself, and let your heart zero. Things that belong to you will eventually come to you.
As a human being, you must know how to be content, and only by being content can you be happy. A person who does not know how to be content will be wasted even if he gives him a good life, while a person who knows to be content can find happiness in it no matter how hard or tiring life is.
Contentment is a rare state and a kind of wisdom in life. In this life, the most difficult thing for a person to do is to be content, because he has too many desires in his heart and cannot be satisfied, so he pursues it hard, and as a result, he has been living in his own desires and cannot extricate himself.
If the hole of desire cannot be effectively controlled, it will swallow you like a flood and beast, making you lose yourself and lose yourself. This is a tragedy for everyone.
People should understand when they live that desires can be present, but they should learn to be clear-headed and have few desires and be content. You cannot let desire control yourself, but you must control your desire yourself. With more contentment and less desire, you will have more happiness and less worries.
When you have something to eat in your mouth, don’t look at what’s in the pot and think about what’s in other people’s bowls. You must understand that what is eaten in your mouth is your happiness. As for what is in the pot and in other people's bowls, it is just your desire.
If you don’t know how to be content, the happiness that belongs to you may leave you. Being content means cherishing what you have and grasping what you can, rather than thinking about what you don’t have.
Knowing to stop means knowing to advance and retreat, and when you move, you move, and when you stop, you stop. On the road of life, we will inevitably do something wrong and take a wrong path. In fact, when you find that you are wrong, stopping is the best choice.
The wrong path, if you keep walking, the result will definitely not be very beautiful. Most of it is a tragedy. If you can stop, think calmly, and then take another path, you may have unexpected scenery.
Knowing the stop is not to give up, not to admit defeat, nor to admit defeat, but to recognize the current situation, understand yourself, dare to face your own problems, dare to deny your previous self, find a new way forward, and move forward better.
In real life, some people love the wrong person, but end up making mistakes again and again, and finally hurt themselves, wronged themselves, and even more embarrassing themselves. In fact, when you find that you love the wrong person, you shouldn't continue.
However, some people are like this. If they are less than Yellow River , their hearts will not die. When they arrive at the Yellow River, their hearts will not die. The result is either bruises and bruises or broken into pieces.
In fact, in life, no matter what you do, you must know how to stop. Only in this way can you better face your future life and your future life.
Knowing the common sense means knowing how to live a life that goes with the flow with the flow. Everything is ordinary, ordinary, and very natural!
The most important thing in life is to have a normal heart. Only with a normal heart can you face money and power calmly, face success and failure calmly, and enjoy the beauty that life gives us leisurely.
In my opinion, having a normal mind and living an ordinary life is the highest state of life. The so-called prosperity in the world is just a passing cloud. When you think about it and take it lightly, you will feel that it is better to be ordinary.
has a normal mind, does not look down on others, does not underestimate others, does not overestimate yourself, does not underestimate yourself, does not envy anyone, and does not show off to anyone. This is the best state of life.
Life is just a few decades, so don’t live so tiring. It’s good to be ordinary. In fact, when you feel life with your heart, you will be able to experience the beauty from normal.
Maybe, temporary glory will make people yearn for, temporary troughs will make people melancholy, but life will eventually become ordinary. Only with a normal heart can you stay in high places without being arrogant and in low places without being humble.
Only by being content can you be happy; only by knowing the end can you move forward better; only by knowing the constant can you live a better life! Only by doing, being content, knowing the end, and knowing the constant can you win the whole life!
People are alive, it is better to be confused. If you see through some things, don’t tell them thoroughly. If you see through them, don’t expose them. If you see through them, don’t expose them. Leave some room for others and leave yourself a way out. This will be good for everyone.
Life is rare to be confused. We must learn to be confused. Be confused when we should be confused, be awake when we should be awake, keep our mouths when we are in groups, and keep our heart when we are alone. As a human being, you must understand that being confused is a rare wisdom. With this wisdom, we will not be so tired when we live.
Forbearing for a while is calm and the waves are calm. If you take a step back, the sky will be broad. On the road of life, we must not only learn to endure, but also learn to retreat. Tolerance is to avoid disasters, and retreat is to move forward better.
Tolerance seems to be at a loss, but if you endure the momentary anger, you can avoid worrying for a hundred days. Why can’t you bear it? Retreat seems weak, but if you take one step forward, you can make a hundred steps forward, why not retreat?
When we face benefits, we must know how to give in appropriately and look at the long-term. Only in this way can we achieve greater achievements.
Modesty can make people fly higher, and low-key can make people go further. Therefore, when people live, they must be humble and more low-key. Only in this way can they behave better.
The so-called "wood is beautiful in the forest, the wind will destroy it, and the movement is higher than that of the people, and the people will definitely violate it. If a person does not know how to hide himself and always shows his sharpness, he will definitely become the target of public criticism, which will not benefit him at all.
Therefore, don’t be proud, don’t be high-profile, don’t be ostentatious, learn to be simple and clumsy, maintain a modest attitude, and deal with people in a low-key manner.
Compete, it seems strong, it seems powerful, it seems glorious, it is actually unwise, it is actually vain; it does not compete, it seems weak, it seems stupid, it seems inaction, it is actually a kind of great wisdom.
As a human being, don’t fight or compete. It’s boring to compete. It’s better not to compete or compete.
If you don’t compete, there is also a world that belongs to you; if you don’t compare, there is also a life that belongs to you. In your world and in your life, you don’t need to be superior to others, you just need to be yourself.
As a person, you must understand that clumsy is a kind of wisdom that is hidden and unexposed. Great wisdom is clumsy. Knowing how to pretend to be stupid is clumsy. It is rare to be confused is clumsy. Retreat to advance is clumsy. Humility and low-key are clumsy. Not competing does not have to be clumsy.
clumsy, seem stupid, but in fact he is wise, seem stupid, but in fact he is wise. On the road of life, we must all learn to be honest and , because as long as you have the wisdom to be honest, you can live your own beauty.
"University ": "Only calm can you be at peace, then you can think about it, and then you can get it." Only by calming down first can you be at peace, and only by thinking can you think carefully; only by thinking can you gain something. The ultimate state of happiness in life is calmness. Only by calming down can one enter the wonderful state of "closing the door is the deep mountains, and reading is everywhere in the Pure Land".
If the mind is calm, the body will be at peace, and if both body and mind are at peace, the person will be elegant; if a person is calm and does not rest, the mind can be open-minded and comfortable. I don’t feel happy when I look at the spring breeze, I don’t feel sad when I look at the autumn breeze, I don’t sigh when I look at the winter snow, and I don’t feel annoyed when I look at the summer cicada. In the long river of life, look up at the sky with the state of mind, open up a quiet green space, calm down and cultivate your dreams silently, firm your direction and never look back. One day, you will stimulate your life potential and use the colorful and bright flowers of life to fragrant your years.
A state worthy of having in life is called calmness, and an act worthy of admiration is called meditation.There is a saying that people who are calm can be calm without being surprised when they do not need to be calm, while those who are prone to panic can only see the way out if they are calm.
The so-called state of calmness and calmness refers to the feeling of calmness as water and concentration. At this time, people will feel that they exist in the void.
Meditation is a process of practice; calmness is just a state of mind, you are just very quiet, generally not long. When you are meditating, your brain will often precipitate and filter the thoughts you have, so when you meditate, you will have some insights. It can be said that meditation is a kind of cultivation, and mind calmness is the state achieved by meditation.
Life is a very troublesome process. There are many times of excitement, anxiety, indignation, and inequality, while there are often too few states of peace, peace and quietness. Where can I find happiness in life? There is happiness in faith, there is happiness in practice, there is happiness in service, and there is happiness in meditation. If you do anything or do not do anything, your mind must be calm and calm, your mind has nothing to ask for, your mind is kind for life, and your mind is thinking of others, and happiness will be everywhere.
Only when the mind is clear can you observe quietly, only when you observe can you make judgments, and only when you make clear decisions can you act. Therefore, life is organized and not panic, just like cooking small foods, so that everything can be smooth and smooth, and life will be happy and enjoyable. Things change with the mind, environment is created by the mind, and troubles are all born from the mind. Therefore, we need to be calm, release the entangled past with openness, and welcome the unknown future with calmness.
Be calm and do things well. No matter what environment you are in, only by calming down can people do things well, only by savoring their true feelings, and discovering the true meaning of life.
Don’t think or ask for it. Calm down means not to think or seek. Calm down, boring work will also become fun. When doing things, if you cannot calm down and be so far away, you will have inappropriate thoughts.
The result must be that if you don’t do what you should do well, you will be hurt by unreasonable thoughts. And when you are doing things in peace, opportunities and luck will come unexpectedly, and happiness and happiness will quietly come to you. The so-called unintentional planting willows makes the shade, which is the best proof of doing things calmly.
Doing things in peace actually requires a high level of cultivation. One of the biggest mistakes people tend to make is to think that everything about others is good, think that others are happy, and only oneself is unfortunate. Just like Shakespeare said: May you be like others, or have a bright future.
or a talented person, or a friendship that is great for friends. If you want to have this person’s authoritative , that person’s talent is the most proud of, and the most dissatisfied with. If you are so restless, you will not only not get what you don’t have, but you will also lose what you already have.
Comparison and inferiority care about others' evaluations are caused by paying too much attention to the outside world, comparing your own weaknesses to others' strengths, or always staring at your own weaknesses, which leads to your own feeling that you are inferior to others in everything. You should calm your heart and always pay attention to your heart.
Do not be happy with things or sad with yourself. When you calm down, you will have more energy to do things that are valuable to yourself. If you really invest in it, you will be rarely affected by the outside world, so you will no longer compare yourself with inferiority and pay too much attention to the outside world.
Don’t envy you and don’t dislike it. The strength of the mind is the most powerful. People who do not like things, do not be sad with themselves, do not envy the person's money, do not dislike the humbleness of status, do not hate the hardships and ordinary work, and only know that they can do things well, are the tallest people, and are also the happiest and most successful people.
regards every day as the best day and accepts all arrangements. Everyone you meet and everything that happens is an inevitable result and the best arrangement. Every day is the latest day and the best day. Accept, adapt, be as calm as water, and everything is peaceful.
If we treat the last day as the last day, then we will work very hard and cherish it very much. It may improve in some aspects, but if we treat every day as the last day. Writer Liang Xiaosheng said: "Education is cultivation rooted in the heart; self-consciousness without reminders; freedom based on constraints; kindness for others." Whether a person has education does not depend on his appearance, wealth, and status, but on his attitude towards material things, his attitude towards people and things, and his words and deeds towards others. The best education for a person is to have a minimalist material, a peaceful mindset, and a restrained word and deed. Simple material and abundant spirituality. Xunzi said: "A gentleman is dependent on things, while a villain is dependent on things. The richness of material does not necessarily bring happiness in life. If you have too much and indulge in desires, you will easily become a slave to material. Life is really not easy, with ups and downs, countless ups and downs, and the ups and downs are the whole of life. There are so many hardships, nowhere to talk about, many difficulties, no one helps, suffering, tired, painful, wronged, and self-holding, you cannot retreat, you cannot let go, you cannot fall down, the life you want, the happiness of the future, you must pursue it with your own efforts. The same life, the same wind Scenery; the same experience, different difficulties, no matter how hard, no matter how hard, or hard it is, you must shoulder your own responsibilities and insist on walking the path under your feet step by step. No matter how difficult the road ahead is, don’t learn ignorance, don’t take the wrong path, so as to avoid making mistakes and making mistakes step by step. As a person, you must learn to reconcile with yourself, no matter how hard you are, no matter how hard you are, you must learn to reconcile with yourself. Because sorrow is a day, and happiness is also a day. It is better to put aside sorrow and let yourself live happily every day of your own. Life is really short, don’t put some bad things, broken things in your heart. Some things should be let go; some people should be forgotten. What you can't forget should be put aside, don't worry about the past, don't worry about the future, learn to save yourself, so that you won't be influenced by emotions. The road of life has too many ups and downs, and too many difficulties. The ups and downs and sorrows are the best understanding of it. The road of life, the bitterness and joy of life, don't give up your ideals and future for some setbacks. All success is not easy. Most successes are soaked in tears and sweat. Just as people say, you can only see the real rainbow after storms. As a person, you must know how to save yourself, no matter where the road under your feet leads, you must Use a good attitude to walk on the road under your feet. The road of life, no one's road will lead straight ahead. There are always winding paths, muddy ditches that are difficult to pass, endless difficulties and sufferings, endless helplessness and bitterness. People must learn to save themselves in order to look forward. Dawn is right in front of them, and happiness is calling to themselves. Remember, no matter how difficult the road under your feet is, you must persist. Only after experiencing wind, frost, snow and rain can you live a rainbow of life. People must save themselves, be calm, and everything goes well. "People of Planting Rice" writes: "Plant green rice seedlings all over the fields, and lower their heads to see the sky in the water. Only when the six senses are pure is the way, and regression is actually moving forward. " A truly smart person does not have the upper hand everywhere, but knows the wisdom of retreating to advance when getting along with others. He will not focus on the current gains and losses, let himself calm down and see the current troubles with a broad mind, so that he can finally gain something and gain something. The strong ones show weakness and retreat to advance. There is a saying in " Caigen Tan ": "Hide cleverness in clumsiness, use obscurity to be clear, emptiness in turbidity, and use bending to be stretched. "The more you have no strength or real talent, the more you like to show off your strength, show yourself high-profile everywhere and show yourself a sense of superiority. However, the more you are, the more likely you are to show yourself timidity, show yourself shallowly, and cause trouble. For a truly smart person, even if you overwhelm the heroes, you will not be complacent, but hide your sharpness and move forward in a low-key manner. This is a way to protect yourself and it is also the best strategy to let yourself go further and longer. The strong ones show weakness are not to retreat step by step or be cowardly everywhere, but there is no need to show your own excellence everywhere when interacting with others, but to hide or attack selectively. The stronger a person is, the less he will prove to others how strong he is. Instead, he will show weakness to people who are not suitable and have different behaviors. The evaluation of these people will not erase everything about them, but will make them less trouble, and let them use more energy to do what they want to do and make friends with the people they like. People with big patterns will lower their posture. Too often, we cannot see ourselves clearly. In fact, it is because we overestimate ourselves, making it difficult for us to see the present clearly for a while. Even if we encounter real problems, we will miss opportunities due to misjudgment, and it will get worse and worse. On the contrary, the bigger a person's pattern, the more he understands the truth that "there are mountains outside the mountains and the sky outside the sky". He will never regard himself as noble, nor will he think that he is extremely smart and others are worthless. Instead, he treats others humbly and restrains himself, and interacts with others in a low manner, which will win the trust of others. The wheat is ripe and the ears are hung, and the person is ripe and bows his head. The more a person has a big picture, the more he will not show his own advantages at will, but will not lower his posture like a mountain without showing off. If he truly understands each other, he will take targeted countermeasures. This is the preparation method of experts and a safe way to deal with it. This way, you will not let yourself be too passive and at a loss, nor will you fail because you are too reckless. The more a person has a big picture, the more he will show himself in a low manner. This is due to inner humility and the best manifestation of a person's top cultivation. A truly outstanding person is not to show off. I discovered an interesting phenomenon in reality. The more people show off their high profile, the less they have real talents and knowledge. On the contrary, those who are really talented and talented are deliberately low-key and never show off to prove themselves to others. Instead, they are not showing off and will not easily see. However, if it is at a critical moment or when it needs to be displayed, it will often be absolutely not ambiguous and will never be dragged on. For a truly excellent person, having more abilities is not to give others a sense of existence, but to make yourself better and better. has no need to prove his sense of superiority to anyone. Su Shi "Jia Yi On " has a saying: "A gentleman takes far away and will have something to wait; what he takes is big, he will have to endure something. A truly excellent person is well aware of this and will show himself low-key no matter whenever he is. In outsiders, he may be the weak side. Only he knows that this is waiting for the opportunity, and there is no need to sensationalize the outside world. When he has a goal in his heart, he will not let go with great fanfare. When he has a goal in his heart, he will not give in with great fanfare. Everyone knows that, instead conquers the city and moves forward bravely. The water is deep and the person is stable and does not speak. When a person becomes more and more mature, he will often be calm and sees the situation clearly. He will never talk around and create momentum. Instead, he slowly transforms in a calm and low-key manner, making himself better and better. A truly smart person knows how to show weakness. It seems to be retreating, but in fact it is advancement. This is a kind of wisdom in life, and it is also a life that everyone must slowly learn. Big truth. People often say that a person’s life is to walk a very long road alone. But this road of life is not a straight line to the end, and it is often twists and turns along the way. If you don’t know how to turn at the right time, you will easily go into a dead end and find it difficult to continue. Only by knowing how to turn can you avoid all obstacles on the road and always lead to your life goals. Everyone yearns for their own life to be on the road , smooth sailing. But life always has too many unsatisfactory things that hinder us from moving forward. When facing the unsatisfactory things in life, some people will become obsessed with it and will not hit the wall or turn back. But I don’t know that being too deeply obsessed will not only not solve the problem, but will also cause obstacles to the road. Learn to give up unnecessary persistence and reasonably adjust the direction of your progress, so that you can easily move to the next journey. Life is long and the road is long. In our lives, there are always many unsatisfactory things.We will encounter helpless things that cannot be loved, and we will also encounter resentful love, hate, and love. Everyone has to go through difficult times and everyone has to face the baptism of difficulties. "In life, you must learn to turn things around! When we encounter difficulties and difficulties, avoiding and unable to solve problems, and head-on encounters will lead to bloodshed! We must know how to be flexible and flexible and find a new way out." Success and failure are the most common things in life. Everyone will have both success and failure. When success, don’t be complacent; when failure, don’t give up. When we encounter unsuccessful life, don’t succumb to difficulties easily, but cheer up and face challenges. Only by struggling bravely can we create our own glory. Nothing is difficult in the world, I am afraid of those who are interested. It is not scary to encounter difficulties, what is scary is that you do not have the courage to overcome them. In life, if you only complain about the injustice of fate, then you will never be able to get out of the quagmire of failure. "A truly smart person will know how to change his or her thinking and turn a corner when the road ahead is not clear! Constantly adjust the direction and constantly look for opportunities to make his or her life more flexible and flexible." Many people will lose a lot of opportunities because of their persistence. There is no need to fight to the end if you cannot do things; there is no need to force yourself if you do not have the ability to obtain things. Too much trouble will only disturb your heart. Nothing is absolute in life. The same goes for us, there is no regulation on which ferry we must go to. When it goes well, insist on striving; when it goes well, you must know how to turn. Giving yourself one more choice will make your life more exciting. The road ahead is blocked, so I will turn a corner by myself. In life, no one can guarantee that he can always walk on the right path, and no one can guarantee that he can never encounter difficulties. When you take the wrong path and enter the wrong direction, you must know how to turn your own way! has entered the wrong path. If you don’t turn the corner in time, you will keep making mistakes. Many people, because they are afraid of losing face, have to keep going even if they are bleeding. As a result, they lose themselves and make themselves covered in bruises. "Knowing to give up is a kind of wisdom in life. When we find that we have made a wrong choice, don't escape our mistakes, and don't blindly persist. Instead, we should correct it in time and give up in time, so that we can stop the loss." Give up in time is not because we are cowardly or surrender to life, but because we are a wise choice. Only by decisively giving up the wrong path and bravely turning the corners for your own direction can you avoid wasting your time and energy. When you encounter obstacles in life, knowing how to turn is a kind of intelligence. Even if some people laugh at me, even if some people look down on me, we should not belittle ourselves and just walk our own path bravely. I feel unhappy and take things lightly in the world. In the adult world, there is almost no word "easy". Everyone has to accept all kinds of emotions of joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness for their own life. Some of your unhappiness comes from work pressure, some come from trivial matters in life, and some come from responsibilities in family. When all the worries are rushing, you are really easy to collapse. "Although I feel very unhappy, I dare not talk to others easily. Because human emotions are not connected, and there is no real empathy in life. If others have not experienced our suffering, they cannot truly understand us." Many times, we all need to heal ourselves, and we all need to change our mentality. Only a positive attitude can help us overcome difficulties; only a firm confidence can help us stop internal friction. There are many things that are not satisfactory in life. We cannot prevent certain things from happening, nor can we change the established facts. Since this is the case, we must learn to take everything lightly. Only by letting go of the entanglements in our hearts can we live a more relaxed and comfortable life. Life is so hard and tiring, so don’t be too persistent. The reason why our hearts feel tired is because we are thinking too much.If you want to manage too many things and want to get along with too many people, your energy will be consumed all the time and you will not have a break. "Everything in this world is fixed. No matter how successful we achieve, no matter what failure we encounter, we have already made arrangements in the dark." We cannot solve many things perfectly, so don't force ourselves; we cannot get many things smoothly, so we must take them lightly. Terrible and tired are the norm in life; gains and losses are all destined to be destined. In any case, we must face life with a smile and understand that making happiness in suffering is a smart way of life. How hard and tiring life is, don’t be too persistent. Let go of the obsession in your heart, put aside the constraints in your heart, turn a corner for yourself, and let your heart zero. Things that belong to you will eventually come to you. As a human being, you must know how to be content, and only by being content can you be happy. A person who does not know how to be content will be wasted even if he gives him a good life, while a person who knows to be content can find happiness in it no matter how hard or tiring life is. Contentment is a rare state and a kind of wisdom in life. In this life, the most difficult thing for a person to do is to be content, because he has too many desires in his heart and cannot be satisfied, so he pursues it hard, and as a result, he has been living in his own desires and cannot extricate himself. If the hole of desire cannot be effectively controlled, it will swallow you like a flood and beast, making you lose yourself and lose yourself. This is a tragedy for everyone. People should understand when they live that desires can be present, but they should learn to be clear-headed and have few desires and be content. You cannot let desire control yourself, but you must control your desire yourself. With more contentment and less desire, you will have more happiness and less worries. When you have something to eat in your mouth, don’t look at what’s in the pot and think about what’s in other people’s bowls. You must understand that what is eaten in your mouth is your happiness. As for what is in the pot and in other people's bowls, it is just your desire. If you don’t know how to be content, the happiness that belongs to you may leave you. Being content means cherishing what you have and grasping what you can, rather than thinking about what you don’t have. Knowing to stop means knowing to advance and retreat, and when you move, you move, and when you stop, you stop. On the road of life, we will inevitably do something wrong and take a wrong path. In fact, when you find that you are wrong, stopping is the best choice. The wrong path, if you keep walking, the result will definitely not be very beautiful. Most of it is a tragedy. If you can stop, think calmly, and then take another path, you may have unexpected scenery. Knowing the stop is not to give up, not to admit defeat, nor to admit defeat, but to recognize the current situation, understand yourself, dare to face your own problems, dare to deny your previous self, find a new way forward, and move forward better. In real life, some people love the wrong person, but end up making mistakes again and again, and finally hurt themselves, wronged themselves, and even more embarrassing themselves. In fact, when you find that you love the wrong person, you shouldn't continue. However, some people are like this. If they are less than Yellow River , their hearts will not die. When they arrive at the Yellow River, their hearts will not die. The result is either bruises and bruises or broken into pieces. In fact, in life, no matter what you do, you must know how to stop. Only in this way can you better face your future life and your future life. Knowing the common sense means knowing how to live a life that goes with the flow with the flow. Everything is ordinary, ordinary, and very natural! The most important thing in life is to have a normal heart. Only with a normal heart can you face money and power calmly, face success and failure calmly, and enjoy the beauty that life gives us leisurely. In my opinion, having a normal mind and living an ordinary life is the highest state of life. The so-called prosperity in the world is just a passing cloud. When you think about it and take it lightly, you will feel that it is better to be ordinary. has a normal mind, does not look down on others, does not underestimate others, does not overestimate yourself, does not underestimate yourself, does not envy anyone, and does not show off to anyone. This is the best state of life. Life is just a few decades, so don’t live so tiring. It’s good to be ordinary. In fact, when you feel life with your heart, you will be able to experience the beauty from normal. Maybe, temporary glory will make people yearn for, temporary troughs will make people melancholy, but life will eventually become ordinary. Only with a normal heart can you stay in high places without being arrogant and in low places without being humble. Only by being content can you be happy; only by knowing the end can you move forward better; only by knowing the constant can you live a better life! Only by doing, being content, knowing the end, and knowing the constant can you win the whole life! People are alive, it is better to be confused. If you see through some things, don’t tell them thoroughly. If you see through them, don’t expose them. If you see through them, don’t expose them. Leave some room for others and leave yourself a way out. This will be good for everyone. Life is rare to be confused. We must learn to be confused. Be confused when we should be confused, be awake when we should be awake, keep our mouths when we are in groups, and keep our heart when we are alone. As a human being, you must understand that being confused is a rare wisdom. With this wisdom, we will not be so tired when we live. Forbearing for a while is calm and the waves are calm. If you take a step back, the sky will be broad. On the road of life, we must not only learn to endure, but also learn to retreat. Tolerance is to avoid disasters, and retreat is to move forward better. Tolerance seems to be at a loss, but if you endure the momentary anger, you can avoid worrying for a hundred days. Why can’t you bear it? Retreat seems weak, but if you take one step forward, you can make a hundred steps forward, why not retreat? When we face benefits, we must know how to give in appropriately and look at the long-term. Only in this way can we achieve greater achievements. Modesty can make people fly higher, and low-key can make people go further. Therefore, when people live, they must be humble and more low-key. Only in this way can they behave better. The so-called "wood is beautiful in the forest, the wind will destroy it, and the movement is higher than that of the people, and the people will definitely violate it. If a person does not know how to hide himself and always shows his sharpness, he will definitely become the target of public criticism, which will not benefit him at all. Therefore, don’t be proud, don’t be high-profile, don’t be ostentatious, learn to be simple and clumsy, maintain a modest attitude, and deal with people in a low-key manner. Compete, it seems strong, it seems powerful, it seems glorious, it is actually unwise, it is actually vain; it does not compete, it seems weak, it seems stupid, it seems inaction, it is actually a kind of great wisdom. As a human being, don’t fight or compete. It’s boring to compete. It’s better not to compete or compete. If you don’t compete, there is also a world that belongs to you; if you don’t compare, there is also a life that belongs to you. In your world and in your life, you don’t need to be superior to others, you just need to be yourself. As a person, you must understand that clumsy is a kind of wisdom that is hidden and unexposed. Great wisdom is clumsy. Knowing how to pretend to be stupid is clumsy. It is rare to be confused is clumsy. Retreat to advance is clumsy. Humility and low-key are clumsy. Not competing does not have to be clumsy. clumsy, seem stupid, but in fact he is wise, seem stupid, but in fact he is wise. On the road of life, we must all learn to be honest and , because as long as you have the wisdom to be honest, you can live your own beauty. "University ": "Only calm can you be at peace, then you can think about it, and then you can get it." Only by calming down first can you be at peace, and only by thinking can you think carefully; only by thinking can you gain something. The ultimate state of happiness in life is calmness. Only by calming down can one enter the wonderful state of "closing the door is the deep mountains, and reading is everywhere in the Pure Land". If the mind is calm, the body will be at peace, and if both body and mind are at peace, the person will be elegant; if a person is calm and does not rest, the mind can be open-minded and comfortable. I don’t feel happy when I look at the spring breeze, I don’t feel sad when I look at the autumn breeze, I don’t sigh when I look at the winter snow, and I don’t feel annoyed when I look at the summer cicada. In the long river of life, look up at the sky with the state of mind, open up a quiet green space, calm down and cultivate your dreams silently, firm your direction and never look back. One day, you will stimulate your life potential and use the colorful and bright flowers of life to fragrant your years. A state worthy of having in life is called calmness, and an act worthy of admiration is called meditation.There is a saying that people who are calm can be calm without being surprised when they do not need to be calm, while those who are prone to panic can only see the way out if they are calm. The so-called state of calmness and calmness refers to the feeling of calmness as water and concentration. At this time, people will feel that they exist in the void. Meditation is a process of practice; calmness is just a state of mind, you are just very quiet, generally not long. When you are meditating, your brain will often precipitate and filter the thoughts you have, so when you meditate, you will have some insights. It can be said that meditation is a kind of cultivation, and mind calmness is the state achieved by meditation. Life is a very troublesome process. There are many times of excitement, anxiety, indignation, and inequality, while there are often too few states of peace, peace and quietness. Where can I find happiness in life? There is happiness in faith, there is happiness in practice, there is happiness in service, and there is happiness in meditation. If you do anything or do not do anything, your mind must be calm and calm, your mind has nothing to ask for, your mind is kind for life, and your mind is thinking of others, and happiness will be everywhere. Only when the mind is clear can you observe quietly, only when you observe can you make judgments, and only when you make clear decisions can you act. Therefore, life is organized and not panic, just like cooking small foods, so that everything can be smooth and smooth, and life will be happy and enjoyable. Things change with the mind, environment is created by the mind, and troubles are all born from the mind. Therefore, we need to be calm, release the entangled past with openness, and welcome the unknown future with calmness. Be calm and do things well. No matter what environment you are in, only by calming down can people do things well, only by savoring their true feelings, and discovering the true meaning of life. Don’t think or ask for it. Calm down means not to think or seek. Calm down, boring work will also become fun. When doing things, if you cannot calm down and be so far away, you will have inappropriate thoughts. The result must be that if you don’t do what you should do well, you will be hurt by unreasonable thoughts. And when you are doing things in peace, opportunities and luck will come unexpectedly, and happiness and happiness will quietly come to you. The so-called unintentional planting willows makes the shade, which is the best proof of doing things calmly. Doing things in peace actually requires a high level of cultivation. One of the biggest mistakes people tend to make is to think that everything about others is good, think that others are happy, and only oneself is unfortunate. Just like Shakespeare said: May you be like others, or have a bright future. or a talented person, or a friendship that is great for friends. If you want to have this person’s authoritative , that person’s talent is the most proud of, and the most dissatisfied with. If you are so restless, you will not only not get what you don’t have, but you will also lose what you already have. Comparison and inferiority care about others' evaluations are caused by paying too much attention to the outside world, comparing your own weaknesses to others' strengths, or always staring at your own weaknesses, which leads to your own feeling that you are inferior to others in everything. You should calm your heart and always pay attention to your heart. Do not be happy with things or sad with yourself. When you calm down, you will have more energy to do things that are valuable to yourself. If you really invest in it, you will be rarely affected by the outside world, so you will no longer compare yourself with inferiority and pay too much attention to the outside world. Don’t envy you and don’t dislike it. The strength of the mind is the most powerful. People who do not like things, do not be sad with themselves, do not envy the person's money, do not dislike the humbleness of status, do not hate the hardships and ordinary work, and only know that they can do things well, are the tallest people, and are also the happiest and most successful people. regards every day as the best day and accepts all arrangements. Everyone you meet and everything that happens is an inevitable result and the best arrangement. Every day is the latest day and the best day. Accept, adapt, be as calm as water, and everything is peaceful. If we treat the last day as the last day, then we will work very hard and cherish it very much. It may improve in some aspects, but if we treat every day as the last day. will definitely lose some happiness and sorrow, and these are also wealth that cannot be lost. So you have daily happiness and experiences every day, and you are happy every day, so living every day is the best. In addition to the peace and strength of the mind, if you want to be calm, you also need to pay attention to your physical conditions. Pay attention to eating more vegetarian food, fruits and vegetables, drink less alcohol, don’t smoke, and drink more tea. In addition, you should read more and practice more, so that you can definitely become a calm and elegant person. Franklin said that the heart of a fool is in the mouth; the mouth of a smart person is in the heart. When I was young, who had never been a fool? He spoke frankly and often argued with others about right and wrong, thinking in his heart that for the sake of others' good, he always had to argue about reason and right and wrong. Little do you know that after entering society and work, the disputed personality will cause you a lot of trouble and conflicts, especially when facing superiors, disputes often have no good results. No matter whether you are right or wrong, it is reasonable or not. only found that most people who live well and are wise are those who always smile or do not show their emotions. They hardly argue with others on trivial matters, no matter what you say right or wrong. It turns out that the maturity of adults is to understand in their hearts that it is not to argue with others, but to better adjust themselves and make demands on themselves. Less arguments will make you live better. Few disputes with your partner. If you want to say that the most conflicts and disputes are the partner. The closer you are, the more things you have, the more things you have. It is normal to have disputes. There is no partner in the world who does not have conflicts or quarrels. Some of them are more quarrels, the better their relationships are. They quarrel at the bedside and at the end of the bed. But more, the more quarrels, the more likely it is to part with disagreement. Why do you reply to my WeChat late today? Why do you have to eat spicy hot pot instead of spicy hot pot at noon? Such things can be argued for a long time. If there are too many conflicts and disputes, there will always be a breakout. Therefore, less disputes, more listening and tolerant, so that the relationship between partners will be closer and easier. However, to reject cold violence, silence is greater than death, and invisible silence is often even more heartbreaking. Family is the first environment for people to grow up, and the family atmosphere has a great impact on people’s mentality and personality. People often say that family is a place for sympathy, not a place for reasoning. I used to think that I was unreasonable and how to be in love. later found that there is no right or wrong in many things in terms of reasoning, especially in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is difficult to explain right or wrong clearly. Often, it is the one who speaks of the mother and the mother who speaks of the mother and the mother who speaks of the mother and the mother. is just there to argue and theory, often only intensify contradictions and emotions. In the end, both sides suffer losses, and disputes between families often lead to a rigid atmosphere in the court, which is extremely unfavorable to the development of family relations. So, in small matters, there is really no need to be too serious and argue, less trouble and more warmth. Even if it is a big event, you must communicate and communicate calmly and listen more. The taboo in the workplace is to have conflicts and disputes with leaders. Never think that leaders are good and don’t care. People’s hearts are separated from their stomachs. In the face of certain interests, leaders will not be ruthless. What's even more terrifying is that the senior official level is crushed to death. Even if the leader comes to you, you will not have the power to fight back. In the face of power and interests, right and wrong and reasoning are of little use. In history, even if it is right, there are countless examples of those ministers who are loyal to advise and even argue with emperors. There are several like Tang Taizong Li Shimin and Wei Zheng . You should not have the intention to harm others, and you must be careful. In front of your leader, try to be careful, otherwise you may be wasted all your efforts and cause trouble and have no way to deal with it. It is normal for a dispute between friends, and the consequences are often not serious. Unlike family, partners, leaders, etc., disputes can cause a lot of unnecessary trouble. At worst, there are disputes between friends that can be changed. There are always suitable ones, but it is just a matter of how many things are. But try to avoid disputes, especially true friends and confidants. Try to be confused as much as possible, try to avoid lies, and have too many disputes, which will only alienate each other's relationship. Even confidants and friends like Marx and Engels have conflicts and alienated from each other because of disputes, not to mention most people. Many of those friends who are alienated because of disputes are worth cherishing. Don’t pursue right or wrong too much, and lose the big one because of the small. In life, try to avoid disputes. If a certain fact or something that will not have a result, arguing will only cause trouble and pain, and it will not help. If it is irrelevant, if you argue, it will be just self-consuming. Don’t argue or confront those unimportant people and things, do not confront each other with a tit-for-tat, smile and face them calmly, and be smarter. The more wise the person, the less quarrels with others. The most important thing to pay attention to is to be responsible for yourself, make yourself live more comfortable, less disputes, more calmness in your heart, and more peace of mind. encourage each other! Author: Qingmiao
Even confidants and friends like Marx and Engels have conflicts and alienated from each other because of disputes, not to mention most people. Many of those friends who are alienated because of disputes are worth cherishing. Don’t pursue right or wrong too much, and lose the big one because of the small.
In life, try to avoid disputes. If a certain fact or something that will not have a result, arguing will only cause trouble and pain, and it will not help. If it is irrelevant, if you argue, it will be just self-consuming.
Don’t argue or confront those unimportant people and things, do not confront each other with a tit-for-tat, smile and face them calmly, and be smarter. The more wise the person, the less quarrels with others.
The most important thing to pay attention to is to be responsible for yourself, make yourself live more comfortable, less disputes, more calmness in your heart, and more peace of mind.
encourage each other!
Author: Qingmiao
