There is a saying:
"People's heart is unfathomable, my heart is clear and clear, my heart changes a lot, my heart is always in a constant state.
People give me a straight eyebrows, I give him a smile; people give me a bad word, I give him a hymn; exchange heart for heart, exchange emotion for emotion; repay grievance with virtue, and repay evil with good!"
In life, we always meet all kinds of people and deal with them.
However, friendship is friendship, and some disagreements with them cannot be avoided.
But we don’t need to explain too much to them, because there will be many people in places, and there will be many troubles in places with mixed people.
The more you move forward, the more you find that there are not many people who can communicate with you, and most of them can’t even be nodding.
Sometimes there is a dispute, and there is no need to explain too much, because no matter how many explanations a person who doesn’t believe in you, it is just a waste of saliva.
Wang Kar-wai When filming " A Fei Zhengshi ", Carina Lau was "tortured" very much.
There was a scene of wiping the floor at that time. Carina Lau wiped it over and over again, but she didn't pass the test. In the end, Carina Lau got angry.
However, Wong Kar-wai did not explain why like Carina Lau, and he still let Carina Lau wipe it there. After wiping
twenty-seven times, Wong Kar-wai felt that this was the feeling that he passed.
Even so, Wong Kar-wai did not explain too much like Carina Lau.
Until "The Legend of Ah Fei" became popular, the scene of Carina Lau wiping the floor became a classic.
Carina Lau realized that Wong Kar-wai is a person who pays great attention to feelings and details.
The reason why Wong Kar-wai didn't explain is because the emotions of the characters in the plot can explain his behavior.
Many times, everyone has different positions and the essence of things they see is also different. Even if they explain it, it is difficult to explain clearly.
The most difficult thing in the world is the human heart. You will never know what others are thinking. The only thing you can do is:
Take good care of yourself and do yourself well; do things openly, be open-minded, and have a clear conscience.
As long as you are worthy of your conscience, you don’t need to explain too much.
People who understand you will naturally understand. People who don’t understand you will be useless even if you say something wrong.
Friends don’t need to explain, your enemies don’t believe in your explanation, your family doesn’t need to explain, and those who understand you will naturally understand.
The easiest way to live is to not have too many explanations. If you understand what you don’t explain, it’s useless to explain what you don’t understand what you don’t understand what you don’t understand.
When encountering disputes, don’t rush to explain and prove yourself with actions. This is more effective than any explanation.
Don’t let your people live in the eyes of others and die in the mouth of others.
