1. Our whole life is to get rid of other people’s expectations and find our true self.
—" Silent Confession "
2. You have to figure out the script of your life—not a sequel to your parents, not a prequel to your children, nor an outer chapter of your friends. You might as well take a little bit of risk when it comes to life, because you will lose it in the end. The most difficult stage in life is not that no one understands you, but that you don’t understand yourself. Those who can’t hear music think those who dance are crazy. 1 Nietzsche
3. No one cares about how much effort you have put in, whether you are tired of holding on, or whether you fall in pain. They will only look at where you stand in the end, and then envy or despise you.
4. Thorough despair often sharpens the most unstoppable courage. —— Seneca
5. Try to get something, but as long as you are calm and realistic, you can easily achieve your goal without realizing it.
6. If you try too hard, make a fuss, be too naive, and too inexperienced, just cry, catch it, pull it, like a child pulling a tablecloth, but you get nothing, but you just pull all the good things on the table to the ground and you will never get it.
—— Kafka "Castle"
7. The so-called confidence is to make progress little by little in the things that were not done well.
8, for example, the exam is successful, the work is excellent, etc., these are gradually obtained over time. In other words, self-confidence is not something you can get by a little "changing your mindset".
——"Worth in the World"
9. The reason why half a glass of water makes you uncomfortable is because you can't figure it out, is it powerless to fill it up, or is it left over.
—Feng Jicai
10. You like everyone, that is, you are indifferent to everyone.
—Wilde
11. Don’t have any expectations for anyone, moral cleanliness . Every soul in this world is half human and half ghost. If it gets too close, no one can see it.
12. If you can avoid the fierce joy,
will naturally not have any grief.
—Dazai Osamu
13. "I don't want to run today, so I went to run." It can be a short-term relaxation, but the problem cannot be stopped. Positiveness is the main theme of life. Even if you are tired along the way, you will only see more scenes and sunrise when you run.
14. Thinking too much and thinking too much really wastes a lot of my time and ruins a lot of my happiness and tenderness. I always felt that life should not be troubled by such things, but I could never do it.
15. For a long time, I have felt that life is about to begin, but I always encounter some obstacles and have to complete some things first. Do unfinished work, the time you have to devote, the debt you should pay, etc., and life will begin.
16. Finally, I woke up. These obstacles were originally my life.
——Alfred Suze
17. One day, we will realize that love and liking are actually plain and discontinuous. The fiery love burns too quickly, and love and liking rely more on a dull and long-lasting breeding ground. The bright but fleeting feelings are always discouraged, and long-lasting companionship is always even more touching.
18. Life is for experience, not for interpretation of perfection. I can slowly accept the dark parts of myself, forgive my dullness and mediocrity, allow myself to make mistakes, allow myself to occasionally lose power, and bloom desperately with shortcomings. This is the only way to reach a reconciliation with myself.
19. It seems that every time I have to make a fuss for a few days, I feel exhausted and don’t want to talk, and refuse to socialize. There is no clear reason for the whole process. It’s not a big deal. I don’t want to hear any chicken soup words that “beat up quickly”. Maybe it’s because the load is too heavy and I need to clean up some mental garbage
20. Who doesn’t have a low point? When the princess falls into trouble, she will also make coffee in the bad house. Treat every day equally, find happiness no matter what the situation is, and the person who will smile at yourself will win.
21. Life is a train to the grave. There are many stations on the road, and it is difficult for someone to accompany you from beginning to end. When the person who is with you is about to get off the car, you should be grateful even if you are reluctant to leave and wave goodbye.
22. You may not be beautiful, you may not like to dress up, or you may even be fat. You may not be excellent, you may not be motivated, or you may not be smart. But, I can't.
23. Real disappointment is not cursing, not crying, nor losing your temper at you, but being silent. I feel that everything you do has nothing to do with me anymore.
24. Our fear of age is actually not the aging brought by ageing, but the fear that we still gain nothing as we grow older.
25. You can start doing what you want at any time. I hope you don’t use your age and other things to restrict yourself. Age is never a boundary unless you use it to make things difficult for yourself.
26. I have been reminding myself over the years that I must not start to be complacent just by making a decision, so that the whole world knows that all you need to do is to keep it secretly in your heart, put aside the useless desire to show off and express yourself, and then work hard to practice your skills silently and wait until everything is settled, and then prove yourself with facts. This is better than saying ten thousand words.
