In the face of difficulties, we need to be brave and forge ahead. In the eyes of many people, loving often symbolizes softness and has no cruel nature, which makes it less courage. Indeed, in the secular world, elders are often less vicious when they are kind to their younger generations, and younger generations are always less masculinity when they are affected. Is this the real situation of
? It is undeniable that too much love will make people less bloody and more forgiveness, but this does not mean that having kindness will lead to losing courage. Love and courage seem to be opposite, but in fact they complement each other, and even the ultimate love forms the most powerful courage.
Laozi said: "I have three treasures, and I will keep them: one is kindness, the second is frugality, and the third is not daring to be the first in the world. Be kind, so I can be brave; frugal, so I can be broad; I dare not be the first in the world, so I can be the best for the people." In the explanation of ceremony, Laozi means that because of kindness, I can be brave.
Many people will ask questions, how can you be brave if you are kind? What they see is that those who are doting by their elders are always willful and willful, so where can they be brave? It seems like this, but the brave one can be the doting person or the doting person.
As parents, they love their children and will reduce severity, but they will not reduce their own courage. There is an old Chinese saying, "Being a mother means being strong." It means that when women who were originally very weak become mothers, they can self-strengtheningly cope with many complex difficulties out of maternal love.
When children face difficulties, mothers are always the first to stand up. Their weak bodies can always burst out with powerful strength. They will overcome all difficulties and move forward bravely. Even if there is a sea of swords and fires ahead, as long as it is for the children, they will ignore all difficulties and step over without any regrets.
Is such kindness brave? Yes, and the greatest courage. Being brave means not afraid of difficulties, having the courage, courage, daring to do, and daring to take responsibility. When elders treat their younger generations, especially parents, they are willing to give everything for their children while being kind, even if they are life, they have no regrets.
Not afraid of the abyss ahead, and still moving forward without regrets. This is the spirit of fearlessness, the greatest courage. However, this courage did not come out of thin air, but was because of their deep love. Because of their kindness, they are willing to face everything and take on everything.
Many people always say that "a loving mother loses her son", but in fact, there are many such things. Mothers are always kind to their children and wish they could bear all the difficulties for them. However, sometimes excessive love becomes doting, making the child feel like he lives in a honeypot and loses his judgment on life.
However, this does not affect the truest courage of kindness. There are indeed "kind mothers and sons who have defeated each other", but there are also many things that are "kind and strong". There are no parents in this world who don’t want their children to be good. Every parent will devote all their efforts to their children and think about everything in life for them.
However, things are unpredictable, and children can live like this without the way their parents plan. Many times, accidents always come unexpectedly. At this time, seemingly weak mothers often appear around to shelter their children from the wind and rain. A stern and loving father will come at all costs.
In fact, there are many injustices in this world. Some people have the world when they are born, and some people work hard and find it difficult to reach the height of others' birth. However, no matter what happens to the child or what kind of life he has, parents are always standing by his children and willing to support and help them.
For example, the dog brother born in northern Jiangsu was from a poor family. When he went to study in the imperial capital, his parents asked his fellow villagers and neighbors for help for his future. This required a brave heart and even nodding and bowing to others. But everything they did was for the future of Gou Ge, and everything was willing.
Dog brother did not disappoint his parents' expectations and made his fortune in the imperial capital. Of course, he did not forget the help of his neighbors and villagers and did a lot of good deeds for his hometown.In fact, in the world, doing good deeds is also a kind of courage, because this may face the greedy nature of human nature and the desire to gain momentum.
With love, there will be efforts, and with efforts, there will be courage. Love does not make people decay, what makes people decay is the excessive love. It only has infinite efforts, does not know how to restrain your efforts, and forgets to warn the importance of rewards. Love makes life light, and light will make people brave.
